I have been through a lot in my life, more than anyone my age, with family, guys, kids, you name it. So feel free to ask, i did study psychology, and was gonna become a "shrink" but then i had 2 girls and they became more important.
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This may be kinda long, but I need to ask someone. I just started taking birth control pills 3 weeks ago. I think I may be pregnant but, I havent missed my next scheduled period. Since I just started taking the pill, that messes up my cycle for this month. I have other signs of possibly being pregnant. Being on my pills the nurse told me I should be getting my period around the 13th of this month. My boyfriend and I are very sexually active..in fact every night. I know we shouldnt do it, but it is unprotected each time. Is there a way that I could find out now if I could be pregnant..like take a pregnancy test tomorrow and find out? Im really nervous and want to know if I am now. I need to know what to do soon. Thanks. (link)
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buy an early pregnancy test, most of them you have to wait until you arel ike 7-14 days late, they have ones that you can take after the 3rd day you have missed. try it.
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I'm searching for a good birth control method to use. I have taken Ortho Tri-Cyclen, and Depro Vera before, and would not be incredubly unwilling to try them again. The problem is that I have a very hard time remembering the pill each day, and I have heard bad things about the shot. Such as: weight gain, increase in discharge... and I find it hard to believe that it is healthy to go through your life without having your period.
I know that this should be a question for my gynocologist, but I could not get an appointment for another month or so. I was wondering if anyone could give me some pointers on a good method of birth control. Perhaps some good and bad experiences you have had?
Of course, older columnists prefered. (link)
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Well, in my own personal experience, i am now on the shot (after having my 2nd little girl) and i will tell you i am bad with pills, and a girl i knew,was on the patch and she just delivered her 3rd boy, the patch does NOT work, the shot, i have not gained weight and it is perfectly normal not to get your period, you see when you get your period, you are letting eggs go (so to say) the shot prevents you from producing eggs, therefore no reason to get your period, i have asked all these questions when i got on it, it is safer than the patch and good for those who can't take pills. And to be honest, when i got on it i was about 180 lbs. i started working out for 20 min. a day, tredmil, bike, stair master, and i am down to 140lbs. i like the shot, and i don't need a 3rd just yet, so i think it is good, plus, what girl really WANTS their period?
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I have a (suposivly common) Problem with my ovaries in which pin head size cysts on them cause irregular periods. I havent gotten my period in nearly 6 months. I had several MRI's done, and i saw a OB/GYN. Next week, I am going to a specialist at the hospital to consult about the problem, but I'm scared that they will give me an exam, and if they do, they will find out that I am no longer a virgin like my mom thinks! I'm incredibly scared, especially because my mom would killll mee if she found out. I regularly engage in sexual intercourse, and I'm afriad that if she knows, my trust will be ruined, and all hell wil break loose. Please, any advice would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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If you are under the age of 18, they can tell your mother that they think you may be sexually active, running and bike riding can affect your hymen, but if you aren't in any knid of sports or anything, and they tell your mother, she will know, it is best to tell her yourself, then someone else tell her, by you telling her, she won't be as upset as if someone else told her. mothers cherish thier daughters, and they would rather hear it from you, it make them feel like you have a good close relationship. it will be better if you tell her, trust me, i didn't tell my mother and she was devastated when she found out i was pregnant, and told me that she wished i would have told her, then she might have been able to protect me from having my girls at such a young age. But i wouldn't give them up for anything, i love my girls, i was just too young, and i wish i would have had them later.
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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old? (link)
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Yes, it is called stagitory rape, even if the 13 year old wants to be with you, if their parents don't aprove, watch out.
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Do you all think that you are responsible for what you dream about? Like, lets say for example, you don't cuss or something...Well, are you responsible for that kind of stuff? (link)
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You can't help what you dream about, i read this little fact that you dream about what ever you think, see, imagine or do in the last 30 hours that you have been awake, so if you saw some cut guy, 2 nights from now, you may dream about being with him, or if you fight with your friends, you may dream about some similar argument, a few nights later. What ever goes through your head, will appear in your dream, like a secret crush on someone. i know i am in love with my Ryan, but i do dream about being with one of his friends when we either talk about him or i see him, and that is the only time i dream about him, is when his name comes up, or we see each other.
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when me and my bf both lived in tx we would go to eachothers houses well his parents were really protective of him like we couldnt be under the covers even if we were just hanging out with friends or just out talking to his parents and when he would come to my house my parents could really care less we could be laying on the couch with the covers over us that just didnt care but now that we have both moved when i go visit him his parents and they dont care what we do but my parents are always coming in and telling us to leave the door open so they can walk by and check up on us what the deal? should i tell my parents to back off or just listen to them and do as they say. (link)
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In my opinion, and experience, your parents are trying to protect you, i don't know how old you are, buti was only 18 when i had my first little girl, i wouldn't give her up, but i wish i had waited a little, maybe your parents don't want you 2 fooling around and something happening to you, besides, parents get crazy like that, and you most likely won't win, but try talking to them and coming to a compromise where you can have your privacy, and they can also check up on you, like you can ask to keep the door closed, but unlocked, get me?
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