Hey Guys, I'm Jasmine, I'm sixteen years old,a junior in high school,on student council, a cheerleader, an ambassador, and a very nice person! I hope you guys ask me whatever is on your mind!!!!I hope you have a wonderful day!~~~~Jazz
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Location: Fayetteville, Georgia, EXITING hehe
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okay this friday i'm going to hangout with this boy, lets call him charlie. I want to become FWBs(friends with beninfits) but i dont know how to make the 1st move or get him to make one. any suggestions? ill be in a hot tub and walking around with some other people (i rate high)
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Haha, umm pretty much just go for it, just be like "how many people have you made out with in a hot tub?" and then he'll answer and then just be like "wanna add to that number?" i dunno with stuff like that you just have to go for it, i hope i helped!
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yeah okay. so i went out with this guy and he dumped me and he was but anyway i was really upset about it. and now he likes me again and i like him soo much and i loved what we had but like my best friend hates him and thinks that he a complete @$$! and like she's always like oh please dont go back out with him please dont. i mean what do i do? do i go out with him? oh and another thing lol um its like i really wanna be with him again, but then again i dont wanna go back to my past, but theres no one else out there and i really like him. lol sorry if its confusing and long but i really need the help (link)
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Go for it, it your friend doesn't like him that's her business, she doesn't have to go out with him. If she's a good friend she will have your back 100 and 10 percent and you should tell her that. Tell him he has one more chance to break up with you though because if you let him keep breaking up with you and get back together he's going to walk all over you. I hope I helped! xoxo
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I'm thinking of going to a new school next year. I don't want to leave my friends. This new school has more opportunities for me, though. I can't decide. Please help!!! (link)
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Most definately go to school, you'll appreciate it in the long run and if your friends really love you you won't lose touch. Plus you'll make new friends. Go for it, don't hesitate! Good luck :)
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Ok this is going to be sorta long so if your not ging to read it all then dont read it! Ill rate a 5 to whoever deserves it!
Ok so heres my tale......
One month ago today was the greatest day of my life my x boyfriend asked me out and I said yes! well heres how I met him
I am in R.O.T.C. and so is he Im a freshman hes a senior. Well I went to do colorguard and hes colorguard commander and he said I was hot asked me out and I turned him down. Well 2 weeks later I noticed he was hot and sweet and was destinded to be with me! well on thursday the 27 of September there was a dance and I asked him to meet me there at the school. He shows up 2 hrs late with this grl and I thought it was his sister. He leaves after like 45 minutes and when he comes to hug me he looks at me and I wouldnt let go. Well eventually I did
Well that frieday I went to colorguard to see him present the colors for the football game. after he did I ran down the bleechers w/ my friend so I ciould go see him. Well when I finally got down and he came back from the R.O.T.C. room I saw him leave.... with the girl from the dance AMANDA!! They were holding hands so I assume they were datimg blah blah blah I cried got over it the next day and went to the campus clean up. That Sunday I went to church and saw him in the morning bc I went out to eat and he was worknig. WellI acted asd if I didnt know him. That night my mom decides to go get some food from there and he wasstill working. My sister recognized him and she started to tslk to ihm. My mom went up to him gave him my # and told him to call me that night to make me fel better. He did and all he did was ay I like you and I will eventually go out with you but Amanda this and AMANDA that. So I said whatever and sucked it all up. Well later On thursday 06 he asked me out after drill practice. I said yes duh! So everything was great until the friday befor Halloween. We never ever got to pend time alone latly bc my mom and my sis or his mom and his bro were always in his room. Well finally we were alone and my mom calls to pick me up an hr early. H alloween come we go trick or treating w/ my sis and his bro and were mad bc we have to kkep going and cant be alone. Mymom come to pick us all up and we go back to his house. 15 min later my mom takes me home. Then tuesday it started to get weird
Tuesday AMANDA'S great great grandmother died and he went to the funeral he didnt call me at all and was w/ AMANDA and I trust him but not when he doesnt call. So Wedndsay comes and he doesnt call me at all. He told me he went to Karate and then to church and didnt get home till 10. So I belived him. Funny though that AMANDA goes to the same church. Thursday is when it got really bad. He was acting all distant at school and said he was skipping school Friday. Well Thursday we disdnt talk at all after school and he said he was to sick to talk. Friday he doesnt come to school so I call him after. He picks up and I asked him about his day well he went and me up w. AMANDA and a buch of other friends and he said hes in a depression to where he wanted to break up w/ me but didnt. So we hung up I cried blah blah blah. Yesterday I tried to call him but he was at soccer tournaments so no pick up. Well I went to my sisters first soccer game and say 3 of my friends there who saw Dustin earlier. They sad him and AMANDA have been really close latly. So I was so pissed that we left and I drove over to his house to gobreak up w/ him for cheating plus his bro thold me too. Well when I got there AMANDA'S car was there his lights were off so I knocked as hard as I colud he finaly came out and I broke up with him and me and my mom left. I said so much and dont talke anybacck. But what sux is that I love him sooo bad and I just dont know how to get over him. He tried to tell me he wasnt cheating and all and school is tomorrow and I have to sse him and I dont know how Im gonig to hold up whrn i odp see him! So I really want to hear your oppinion and tell me should I trey and listen if he talks to me should I talk to ihm? What sholud I do? What really gets me is she treats him like crap and she breaks up w/ him and he had it soo good w/ me my fam loved hima nd I was always happy and now Isee him like everperiod bc he used to trat me so well and I dont know how to move on so IDK if this is really asknig for advice just more of an opinion on what to do you know . Well I had to tell someone so It would stop bothering me. Thanks to whoever is going to actually reafd this
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Ok, instead of breaking up with him and all you should have just told him how you felt about the whole AMANDA situation. If her great grandmother really died then you shouldn't have anything to worry about. You just listned to what everybody else was saying, you probably should have just been there for him if he was going through so much. I will admit the whole skipping school, not calling was shady, but if you have no reason not to trust him then you should trust him. Everyone deserves a second chance, and in this case both of you do. If you love him, fight for him and take him back girl :) Good luck!
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ok, im almost 14, and my bf is 14. We do have sex, but...all my friends are saying that i should tell a councelor or someone, y should i have to tell, i mean its my personall life. me and my bf kinda look goth, i don think that helps any, but yeah. and me and him have been having sex for a while, so...its not new to me or anything. and we havent been with anyone else. so why should i have to tell a councelor??? pleeeez answer. i rate 5's for good answers. (link)
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Um, sincerely you are a little young to be having sex, it's not even legal for either one of you to be having sex. Unless he's forcing you to do it you don't need to tell the councelor. As long as you think you are mentally ok to have sex then it's fine in my opinion. Just make sure you are using the right protection so you don't get pregnant, like a condom or birth control (not pulling out) have a great day!
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I feel numb. I can get out of bed, go to work, joke with people, do things I love, and still feel this way. I just can't seem to shake it off. I feel hollow inside, and I don't really know WHY.
Sometimes I only sleep 2-3 hours a night. Other nights I sleep 12-13 hours. I also do not eat properly anymore, even on my good days. Some days I'll just eat an apple for breakfast/lunch and about 1/3 of my dinner. I just don't feel hungry. But even when I am starving, I fix up a big meal and try to put the food in my mouth, but I have to stop because it makes me feel like vomiting. Believe me, I fix meals every day and try to eat snacks but most of it ends up in the trash or back in the fridge. I don't think I am fat, in fact, I think I am too skinny and wouldn't mind some curves on my body. I think maybe my mind is in such anguish that it wants the body to suffer too.
Please don't be like... just eat something!!! Just be happy!!! Believe me, I TRY. It's not as easy as some people think. I have been down the road of counselling (no help) and meds(made me act ADD) for depression before, but this feeling seems different to me. Just numbness, not really saddness/pain/hopelessness like the depression I felt in the past (about 3 years ago). (link)
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Wow, I just got out of this phase like a month ago. Alright, I'm pretty sure there is a difference betweet counseling and like seeing a real physciatrist(spelling) unless you did that already. I don't want to offend you but are you a Christian? Sometimes you just need faith. Try going to church, or wherever. Bury yourself if friends. That's what I did, just find a group of positive, happy people and hang out with them whenever you need to. Also, write in a journal whenever you are feeling like this. Cry when you need to etcetera. The eating will come along when you become happy, just make sure you drink water at least to keep some nutrition up, eat as much as you feel like eating, if you don't want to eat, don't. I really, sincerely hope you feel better. Good luck.
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last night i went over my friends house for his birthday. the situation is hard to explain but, i really like him. i went out with him before but he broke up with me after 4 days. which i guess hardly counts. but we've been flirting ever since we broke up. i always flirt with him and i've hooked up with him a few times in the last few weeks. i know im not gonna be able to go out with him because of the way he is and cant stick to a commitment. so last night my best friend was cuddling with him on the couch. it was really ticking me off. she knows i like him and always yells at me for flirting with him so much because "im gonna get myself hurt" but last night she was all over him. i think he's mad at me. im not sure though... i wasnt supposed to be out last night. i said i was at a friends house because i wasnt supposed to be over this guys house. i also slept over his best friends house and he was there until 2:30 am before he went home. im sick of being hurt because i like him. and i try to stop liking him but i just cant. can anyone help? (link)
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You can't change your feelings for one. So don't try to, it will just make you feel worse. No, four days doesn't really count. You need to stop hooking up with him because then he knows that any time another girl won't give him what he wants, you will. So you need to make sure you keep it on a friends level with him. Don't flirt as much ,DON'T hookup ,make him jealous if you want to , but not to the point where you look permiscuous. Don't hook up with other people to make him jealous, it will just cause drama. Tell your friend it hurt your feelings that she was all cuddled up with him. I don't know how old you are so I can't tell you the whole "commitment" situation because if your'e in like 9th grade or under commitments don't really exsist. If he doesn't want to be with you, you are wasting your time. I hope I helped. Have a fantastic day :)
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okay so i always tell my best-friend everything. I told her that i liked my ex-boyfriend keenan still. But all 3 of us are in 2nd hour together. I asked keenan if he liked my best-friend and he said yes he made me cry. I tell my bestfriend not to flirt with him in-front of me. And she says its not my business to tell her/him not to flirt with other gurls. He does have a girlfriend and his girlfriend says he cant talk to me because she doesn't like me. Well everytime i tell my best-friend who i like she always goes and flirts with them, and then she gets them to like her. She has a flirting problem and i just want her to stop because i still really like him... the weird thing is is that he knows that i still like him and he likes me but he likes my best-friend also.. does anyone have any advice on how i can get them to stop flirting i talked to keenan and he just said fine i wont talk to her if you think talking to her is flirting. And my best-friend just wont listen. So is there any way i can him to hate her or something or flirt less. Please! (link)
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Wow. First of all you should probably stop being friends with your "best friend" because best friends don't do what she is doing. If she is just too great to let go of then you need to distance yourself from her. Get into something else or make new friends, even get closer to other ones. Saying it's not your business is horrible, becuase you shared your business with her and then she got all into it. Not good. I wouldn't worry about his girlfriend they will probably break up anyway. You need to stop telling your friend who you like. Obviously she has some kind of insecurity and feels like she has to beat you to feel good about herself. Don't let her do that. Keep talking to him if he's talking to you, it's not that big of a deal, but don't throw yourself at him that will just cause more drama. I hope I gave you a good solution. Have a wonderful day!
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ok well muh ex bf juss broke up with me last night. we went out for 3 weeks but we been talkin since da first week of school. and we talked a lot PRETTY much every night n in school. after he broke up with me i cried for about 20 min or so but now i dont really care dat we're not together or do I? bcuz da nite he broke up with me he went out n he was talking to this girl but she thinks hes just cute thats all they know each other bout 5 yrs now. but im so jelous EVEN THOUGHT THEY R JUS FRIENDS. im reali upset dat me n him wont talk as much anymore. i have to see him at school and same lunch table AUGH! BUT EVEN though it seems i have a lot of feelings for him still BUT I DONT! so do u think im right for being jelous and what should i do if he stops talking to me as much? (link)
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Being jealous is something that is normal. If you are jealous you still have feelings for him, they may not be huge feelings, but feelings nontheless. He probably won't talk to you as much as he did, but let him know that you would still like to be cool even though you aren't together. If he doesn't want that then you don't need him. Make sure that you don't show you're jealous. Don't be mean or ignore the other girl if you are ever around her. It's pretty natural for guys who have girlfriends to stop talking to thier old ones as much, so don't worry about that, involve yourself in other things like school, or your favorite hobby. Now that you and him aren't together anymore this is your opportunity to give 100% to something else. I hope I helped. Good luck!
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do u think that i could lose 3 pounds in 5 days
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thanx for de advise
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You could totally do it! All you have to do is eat straight vegatables, like avacodoes, celery, tomatoes, eat it with some fat free dressing then make sure you drink at least 4 or 5 glasses of water,(if you drink too much you will have water wieight. Then exercise for about 30 minutes everyday, make sure you get the right amount of sleep and you should be good! Good luck! xoxo
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hey- i like this guy. and i was talkin to him the other day on aim and he asked me if i had a bf, i said no. then he asked me who i liked. i told him that i wasnt gonna tell. when i asked him who he liked, he said he wasnt gonna tell either. so i asked him how many classes he had with this girl. and he said one(i am in only one of his classes). then i asked him which period, and it was the period that i have with him. and i narrowed it down and i think that it might be me bc he says that he wont tell me UNTIL I TELL HIM FIRST! should i tell him that i like him and hope for the best, or not say anythign at all? help me!
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You should absolutely tell him! I mean you have nothing to lose, it's kind of obvious that it is you. Tell him how you feel! GO for it! Good luck xoxo
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Last night,I was at a hockey game with my dad and my girl (ex girlfriend now) called me and started cursing me out. She said somebody called her house and cursed her mom out,and her mom said it sounded like me,when it wasn't me who really did it. So she broke up with me and Heidi (my ex) is punished for a very long time. Her mom took away her cell phone,and a bunch of other crap,and Heidi simply refuses to speak a word to me. I don't know what to do. Should I:
1) Give her a couple of days and hope she'll listen to me when I try to explain to her it wasn't me that called her house (I have my dad as proof.)
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2) Just move on with my life
This girl means everything to me,and I would do anything to get her back,no matter what extremes I would have to take. I love this girl with all my heart and I really want her back. Please help me out. Thanks (link)
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Do the best you can to get her to talk to you for a minute, tell her to give you one minute, don't do it on the phone because she can put it down, or hang up on you. Talk to you Dad about it and go to her house (with him) and tell her you apologize for it happening to her but you didn't call her and cus her out. Give your girl some flowers, (i know i use that one a lot but it works!) tell her that she means the world to you and that you would never do anything to hurt her especially her and her mom. Good luck man. xx
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theres a girl that im really close to..she used to like me a lot and i love her and we were like /-/ this close to going out, but she stopped liking me..she said she couldnt picture me as her boyfriend (personality wise not looks) and i just dont understand how after we had done so much and gone through a lot together..she cant picture me as her boyfriend and everything..i have told her how i feel, i have made a move, she has been to my house many times, we have gone out on "dates" sorta...and i love her, i just want her to like me again, please tell me how to get her to like me again...oh and she likes a sophomore at my school now and people have told me that she might still like me and shes just confused but i dont think she does...i really want her back, i need her :( if you give me a helping answer then ill rate you a 5 DO NOT TELL ME TO GET OVER HER!!! i have tried and it isnt happening! (link)
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Tell her how you feel, be sweet about it, give her some flowers, write her a poem, girls love that kind of stuff, if she acts like she doens't like that, ignore her and just focus on something else.That will drive her crazy, and then she will come back to you, then if you start going out be sweet, and treat her like the princess she is.
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how do i lose weight if i always say im going to go on a diet but i never do because when i try to go on a diet somehow so many yummy junk foods come around.. i wanna not eat at all so i can be as skinny as mary kate olsen but i dont know how!? heelpp!! (link)
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Eat what you want in moderation and do some workouts, try only eating, Breakfast, Lunch, and dinner, Being like Mary Kate could kill you she "had" and eating disorder, being that skinny might lead you to the last week of your life, Good luck! xoxox
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Ok this is how it goes...This past friday night this girl, lets say her name is sarah invited me to her house.. I was wit 2 of my friends and we were only gunna go there for a couple minutes..While we were there me n sarah kissed and during us kissing she said she didnt want it to seem like she was leading me on and that we were friends with benifits..i dont really wanna b friends wit benifits and now in her info she has sumthin that says "crushing"...is that about me or about some one else...i asked her and she didnt tell me, idk if it was bc i was wit my friend or wat but i want answers..please help (link)
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Yeh, she's probably crushing on you, I wouldn't worry about it. I mean do you like her? And if you do, don't make it such a big deal, just tell her you like her, if you don't STAY AWAY lol hope I helped, Good luck
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Does anyone know where i can get some great clothes for low prices? (Im really into jeans, sweatshirts, long sleeve shirts, knee high socks and accecories!)
14/f
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hollister, it's not as expensive as abercrombie and forever 21, they have REALLY good prices, american eagle, old navy, and target, hope I helped xxx
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I was thinking...do any of you agree with the saying, the right guy will come when you stop looking? (link)
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Absolutely.
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Is it normal 4 a high school junior girl who is 17 years old to go out with a guy who is a freshmen in college and who is about 19or 20 years old? (link)
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Well, if he's 19 it's cool, if he's 20 technically it's illegal
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months, and are head over heals for eachother presently. The only problem is that I see him for a week every 3 months or so... its enough to drive a person crazy... he lives so far away, and now that I'm at college things are really hard... dumping him isn't an option, because we are that close, and its the closest thing to I've every felt if not love itself... I just don't know how to deal sometimes, its so frustrating not being able to see him, and to touch him... basically what I'm asking, is does anyone know of anyway to make this any easier till we can be together again... thanks (I will rate) (link)
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ummmm....really there is nothing that you can do, i see my man once or twice a month if I'm lucky, and I have tried to find the same answer but there really is nothing you can do other than what you are doing now. Sorry. Good luck! xoxo
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Okay!Well a month ago I broke up with my boyfriend who I am madly in love with. He is in love with me too but it is a long distance relationship, so I thought that he and I being friends would be the best thing for now. Yeah I couldnt see him whenever I wanted but just being able to talk to him made me happy. Our relationship was made up of trust and love. He is so in love with me. I miss him so much. He is now dating a gurl who he loves as a friend not a gf. we havent talked since we broke up bc it is so hard too. I had my friend call him and I grabbed the phone when he picked it up and hung up. Then she called back and talking to him. He wanted to talk to me but i couldnt bc it was too hard. I kno that no matter what he wants to be with me in the future but right now it is to hard. I also kno that no matter what he will never stop loving me. But what I am getting at is that I dont kno what to do without him .I feel so lost and empty. Like he always used to tell me that he loved me before I went to sleep and it was so conforting. I miss that so much. What should I do? he and I have been through so much in the past and its stuff that is unforgettable. Do you think that he and I will be together in the future. BC he said he wants to me and I DO MORE THEN ANYTHING.Its like if u are in love with someone and it is meant to be then it will happpen right? i hope so!
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O.K. I am in the same situation. You have to talk to him about how you feel,because he probably feels the same way. Just tell him everything you just said, and I'm sure the two of you will find a way to deal with the situation. If he loves you then he will know what to do. I mean just go with your feeling. Tell him everything you told me. Just tell him that you miss him, tell him you feel lost and empty. I'm sure it was meant to be.
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