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Okay!Well a month ago I broke up with my boyfriend who I am madly in love with. He is in love with me too but it is a long distance relationship, so I thought that he and I being friends would be the best thing for now. Yeah I couldnt see him whenever I wanted but just being able to talk to him made me happy. Our relationship was made up of trust and love. He is so in love with me. I miss him so much. He is now dating a gurl who he loves as a friend not a gf. we havent talked since we broke up bc it is so hard too. I had my friend call him and I grabbed the phone when he picked it up and hung up. Then she called back and talking to him. He wanted to talk to me but i couldnt bc it was too hard. I kno that no matter what he wants to be with me in the future but right now it is to hard. I also kno that no matter what he will never stop loving me. But what I am getting at is that I dont kno what to do without him .I feel so lost and empty. Like he always used to tell me that he loved me before I went to sleep and it was so conforting. I miss that so much. What should I do? he and I have been through so much in the past and its stuff that is unforgettable. Do you think that he and I will be together in the future. BC he said he wants to me and I DO MORE THEN ANYTHING.Its like if u are in love with someone and it is meant to be then it will happpen right? i hope so!
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im sure that if its meant to happen then it will. just spend time with close friends and they will confort u. i kno its not the same and i kno u miss him. keep thinking about him and it will make u happy to know that someday u will proabably be with him again. i hope everything works out! :) ~stef~
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If it's ment to happen then you make it happen!
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I think yall will defintly get back together in the future! I just so got out of one of those and I still love him deeply. Just call him up and tell him how you feel! If u can tell us strangers you can tell him! I think its so cute! and it will eventually work all out ok just go for what your heart says to ok! Rate Me!!
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if you are so in love with this guy, call him up right now and tell him!! you have to because if you don't, something could happen, eliminating any chances of ever having a future together. If you don't talk for a few years, when you finally talk again so many things will have changed, and theres a chance that you will be so different from before that you won't want each other any more. I know you keep saying thaty he'll love you forever, but time moves so fast and you have no idea what will happen or who you'll meet in the future. This advice might have confused you but what im trying to say is that you guys should get back together.
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O.K. I am in the same situation. You have to talk to him about how you feel,because he probably feels the same way. Just tell him everything you just said, and I'm sure the two of you will find a way to deal with the situation. If he loves you then he will know what to do. I mean just go with your feeling. Tell him everything you told me. Just tell him that you miss him, tell him you feel lost and empty. I'm sure it was meant to be.
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If yall are TRUELY in love with eachother, then yall will get back togethor! But for the meantime hun, you gotta get out of the house and have fun with all your girlfriends! I hoped i helped!! :)
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People have different opinions on this question. But here's mine: Yes, I firmly believe that if you are in love with someone and it's meant to be it will happen, and you'll be with this guy again. Keep in mind that it can't be you who only feels you're in love. He has to feel the same way and keep that same love for you his whole life. I know exactly what you're talking about sweetie. My boyfriend of three years and I are in a long distance relationship due to different colleges. But despite the fact that we can't see each other every day it still works out. I don't think that he has to be there for it to work. Just knowing he's out there and thinks about you all of the time is enough to get me through it. But it is so hard not to see him, I just do what I can to move on throughout the day and keep him in my thoughts. But back to you (lol). You need him and probably cry over him because he doesn't say the words that made you feel safe. But if you both keep the love you had and never lose the memories you'll see him again. You probably feel the way I do. I feel incomplete with out my baby when he's not there. And when he is here I feel complete. For now, just do what you can..find new guys just to keep you living. Hang out with your friends, exercise, go to work. Do things to make you feel happy. Even though you aren't together you might not want to find a new guy. But this is your life, and you only get one life so try new things, meet new people. You have that right, and you owe it to yourself. Much luck! It;s okay, you're going to get through this!
Love,
Mandee
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Do you love him or love it's self?
If it's him you love then you should tell him everything you have just put here and hopefully you will get back together. Firstly try to remember the feeling that made you split up because it could happen again and that would be messing him around too much.
Something that worries me though why is he with this other girl?
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he's probably implying that he needs a break and that the long distance thing isnt working out. im sure he really does care about you alot and its probably not easy for him. but yes if you really love someone then everything will happen for a reason and probably later in life you will get back together, once you can drive and stuff and see eachother more (assuming you cant drive yet)
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i hope so too! i think you 2 are lovebirds. this sounds so sad. what u should do is call him and tell him all the stuff u just wrote about him. tell him how u feel and that ur just not ready to let go of him. hope i helped ya!
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umm ok...
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