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OK. Anyone out there have "Irish twins"(basically babies born within a year of each other.)Well, my wife is pregnant with #2!Is it easier or more difficult with the second child?

It is much difficult with the second child because if he's never been with the first brother he has no-one to look up to and he'll blaim you for just meeting his brother when he's much more mature.

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how do you get the star fading thing when you leave someone's column? can you please tell me the site??
thanks so much
xo0x adriana

It's called a star transition but you'll get over it.

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OKay...well i have this frined and shes goin out with this boy ..and this boy seems to like me more becasue i trust him alot more and everythin and she dont ...but he wants to brake up with her and he is..but hes gonna ask me out..and then ma frined is gunna find out ..and me an her are like sistas it seems..so now i either have to say no or just to talk to him about it ..but idk i really like this boy too an i really wanna go out with him really bad..so plz help..ill rate you and write advice ..PLEASE HELp

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Boys Probs

ok listen just tell him no if theres anything more than a boy it's your friend. trust me if u go with him your friend will leave you. and then after that you'll feel guilty whenever you come around her with him especially. and then soon enough he'll find a new girl that he thinks looks better than you and he'll dump you you'll feel even worst and then you'll have no friend and no boyfriend. before you ask me another question talk to yourself and think what will happen in the future?

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how can i make homecoming extra fun?

listen you can go to www.aj.com. or listen you can make a night in paris type of homecoming do a dance and make everything like paris it will be ok.

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Ok, recently, I've been telling a lot of lies. I've always had a good imagination so it's easy for me to make up a story or excuse very quickly. I noticed at the end of August that if I was asked a question, I said the first thing that came to my mind without really thinking about it. I ended up saying some pretty stupid stuff that wasn't really true. However, I despise being put on the spot so I just let it go. In the past couple of weeks though, I have been making up all sorts of stuff without even thinking twice. I don't do it on purpose, but when someone asks me a question I automatically tell them what they WANT to hear, even if it's not the truth. I hate myself after I do it, but because it's already out there, I just let it be. I don't know if this is a mental issue or not, but it seems like it is, since I don't seem to have much control over what I say anymore. Last week, I was sick and out of school for three days. My teacher asked me if I was so sick I was throwing up, because thats what she thinks of as sick. Automatically I just said yes and then continued to tell her that I was so horribly sick that I barely got out of bed for the whole time I was gone. I didn't mean to say it. I'm close to this teacher and I usually tell her the truth no matter what the case. I've even lied to my mom and my friends. I am scared I am losing it. I don't know what to do. What do you think I should do?

listen basically your following the story pinnochio so what your doing is keep on lying and now you can't stop. basically the only thing to do is to start telling the truth again. get someone like a friend and have them keep asking you questions until you finally start thinking on track again and start telling the truth again. or u can go to www.aj.com hes very mature and can help you and meanwhile i just gave you a high school answer so if your in high school then perfect.try joining a business program, it will help you with everything.

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ok last monday i fell off my bike cuz the chain broke. i hurt my elbow badly. its been getting better, so today i was watching a movie in my room. i was leaninng on my elbow pretty hard, when all of a sudden i felt this gigantic pain and felt like my elbow was about to crack. what do you think happened? im soo confused rite now and my elbow is aching. please help me and i'll rate you in return :)

listen i know that u had an accident on your bike but even when it started getting better u should had at least waited two weeks or gotten a response from your doctor before putting pressure on it. listen what u should do is go and get a cast and next time u want to lean on your elbow lean on a soft pillow first ok.

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Me and my Boyfriend (are in our early 20's) have been together for 2 years now. We are complete opposites. (in everyway) But I cant be more the 50 miles from my mother and he wants to move back to Philly. (I live in Nevada) We love eachother but I am lost as to what to do. I will not be happy so far from family and he isnt happy here. We just want to be happy! What do I do?

The girl with the short embilicalcord!

ok if u have nothing in commen why go out with him. if he wants you to move back to Philedalphia with him why go(1) u have nothing in commen.(2) why move somewhere where u don't want to go. listen if u love him that much just discuss to him how u feel and try and move somewhere near philly but not in kinda like the border of it.

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okay, if someone has been smoking pot for 3 years, normally how hard is it and how long will it take for them to quit? and when htey do try to quit, what are soem withdrawal syptoms that me, as his girlfriend, could face with him? and how can i help him through it and be supportive of him without being super pushy. will i have to keep a close eye on him and ask him all the time how he's doing? i have never helpoed anyone over an addiction...so i really dont know what to expect...soem one please help me

hey i think i can help u ok, this is what u do u ask him as his girlfriend how he's doing and if he responds in a negative way just tell him that your concerned and if he still doesn't bother just let it go and it is your decision to dump him because if not he will or could give you a disease if u kiss him or have sex with him but it is true believe me or not. Better yet why don't u go to this website aj.com he will answer your questions and is very mature for his age.

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