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okay so i always tell my best-friend everything. I told her that i liked my ex-boyfriend keenan still. But all 3 of us are in 2nd hour together. I asked keenan if he liked my best-friend and he said yes he made me cry. I tell my bestfriend not to flirt with him in-front of me. And she says its not my business to tell her/him not to flirt with other gurls. He does have a girlfriend and his girlfriend says he cant talk to me because she doesn't like me. Well everytime i tell my best-friend who i like she always goes and flirts with them, and then she gets them to like her. She has a flirting problem and i just want her to stop because i still really like him... the weird thing is is that he knows that i still like him and he likes me but he likes my best-friend also.. does anyone have any advice on how i can get them to stop flirting i talked to keenan and he just said fine i wont talk to her if you think talking to her is flirting. And my best-friend just wont listen. So is there any way i can him to hate her or something or flirt less. Please!
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Your best friend is being really immature to you, which is why you should stop telling her who you like from now on. I know you need someone to talk to about it, but you'll have to confide in a friend who won't try to go after a guy you like. Your friend doesn't have just a flirting problem, she knows exactly what shes doing to you. About Keenan, if his girlfriend doesn't want him talking to you, then don't talk to him first, if he is ok with having a overprotecting controlling girlfriend, then let him be. Your friend is really rude for doing what she is doing, and the next time she tries to tell you how it's not your place to tell who not to flirt with who, you just say, "I'm not telling who should flirt with who, I thought I could trust you enough to tell you that I liked someone, but here you are going after the guy I like when you know I like him." You can't get people to stop flirting, Keenan sounds like a guy that needs to make a decision, and you should just leave him without you as a choice, because this is a big mess, leave your friend and him, and his girlfriend clean it up. Truly, they don't sound worth talking to, none of them do. I suggest that you get yourself out of it so that you can get on with your life and find some new guys, your friend is just going to have to live without your secrets.
-TheTeenGirl
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okay... no offence to yer best friend...but what a slut! well its not that she's a slut..but she's a man stealer. how could she do that to you? you guys are supposed to be best friends. best friends DONT do that. maybe you should have a serious talk with her and make sure she knows that yer not alrite with it. and if that doesnt work, juss say you dont like the people you like so she wont flirt with them then you'll have them...and she wont!
i hope i helped!
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Wow. First of all you should probably stop being friends with your "best friend" because best friends don't do what she is doing. If she is just too great to let go of then you need to distance yourself from her. Get into something else or make new friends, even get closer to other ones. Saying it's not your business is horrible, becuase you shared your business with her and then she got all into it. Not good. I wouldn't worry about his girlfriend they will probably break up anyway. You need to stop telling your friend who you like. Obviously she has some kind of insecurity and feels like she has to beat you to feel good about herself. Don't let her do that. Keep talking to him if he's talking to you, it's not that big of a deal, but don't throw yourself at him that will just cause more drama. I hope I gave you a good solution. Have a wonderful day!
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