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Ok this is going to be sorta long so if your not ging to read it all then dont read it! Ill rate a 5 to whoever deserves it!
Ok so heres my tale......
One month ago today was the greatest day of my life my x boyfriend asked me out and I said yes! well heres how I met him
I am in R.O.T.C. and so is he Im a freshman hes a senior. Well I went to do colorguard and hes colorguard commander and he said I was hot asked me out and I turned him down. Well 2 weeks later I noticed he was hot and sweet and was destinded to be with me! well on thursday the 27 of September there was a dance and I asked him to meet me there at the school. He shows up 2 hrs late with this grl and I thought it was his sister. He leaves after like 45 minutes and when he comes to hug me he looks at me and I wouldnt let go. Well eventually I did
Well that frieday I went to colorguard to see him present the colors for the football game. after he did I ran down the bleechers w/ my friend so I ciould go see him. Well when I finally got down and he came back from the R.O.T.C. room I saw him leave.... with the girl from the dance AMANDA!! They were holding hands so I assume they were datimg blah blah blah I cried got over it the next day and went to the campus clean up. That Sunday I went to church and saw him in the morning bc I went out to eat and he was worknig. WellI acted asd if I didnt know him. That night my mom decides to go get some food from there and he wasstill working. My sister recognized him and she started to tslk to ihm. My mom went up to him gave him my # and told him to call me that night to make me fel better. He did and all he did was ay I like you and I will eventually go out with you but Amanda this and AMANDA that. So I said whatever and sucked it all up. Well later On thursday 06 he asked me out after drill practice. I said yes duh! So everything was great until the friday befor Halloween. We never ever got to pend time alone latly bc my mom and my sis or his mom and his bro were always in his room. Well finally we were alone and my mom calls to pick me up an hr early. H alloween come we go trick or treating w/ my sis and his bro and were mad bc we have to kkep going and cant be alone. Mymom come to pick us all up and we go back to his house. 15 min later my mom takes me home. Then tuesday it started to get weird
Tuesday AMANDA'S great great grandmother died and he went to the funeral he didnt call me at all and was w/ AMANDA and I trust him but not when he doesnt call. So Wedndsay comes and he doesnt call me at all. He told me he went to Karate and then to church and didnt get home till 10. So I belived him. Funny though that AMANDA goes to the same church. Thursday is when it got really bad. He was acting all distant at school and said he was skipping school Friday. Well Thursday we disdnt talk at all after school and he said he was to sick to talk. Friday he doesnt come to school so I call him after. He picks up and I asked him about his day well he went and me up w. AMANDA and a buch of other friends and he said hes in a depression to where he wanted to break up w/ me but didnt. So we hung up I cried blah blah blah. Yesterday I tried to call him but he was at soccer tournaments so no pick up. Well I went to my sisters first soccer game and say 3 of my friends there who saw Dustin earlier. They sad him and AMANDA have been really close latly. So I was so pissed that we left and I drove over to his house to gobreak up w/ him for cheating plus his bro thold me too. Well when I got there AMANDA'S car was there his lights were off so I knocked as hard as I colud he finaly came out and I broke up with him and me and my mom left. I said so much and dont talke anybacck. But what sux is that I love him sooo bad and I just dont know how to get over him. He tried to tell me he wasnt cheating and all and school is tomorrow and I have to sse him and I dont know how Im gonig to hold up whrn i odp see him! So I really want to hear your oppinion and tell me should I trey and listen if he talks to me should I talk to ihm? What sholud I do? What really gets me is she treats him like crap and she breaks up w/ him and he had it soo good w/ me my fam loved hima nd I was always happy and now Isee him like everperiod bc he used to trat me so well and I dont know how to move on so IDK if this is really asknig for advice just more of an opinion on what to do you know . Well I had to tell someone so It would stop bothering me. Thanks to whoever is going to actually reafd this
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Bianca
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Hey Bianca.
Hon, if i were you, i'd listen to what he's gonna say. Here's a thing that might help you: if he doesn't keep eye contact and starts rubbing his hands together, that means he's lying. If he chuckles and goes like 'what do you mean?', he's lying. If he sighs and looks at something behind you, he's lying.
I hope it all works out. *me = a freshman too!*
Best of luck.
Kay
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Hey hun!
I'm so sorry! That's horrible! If I were you, I would just do a lot of things that make you very happy so your not constantly thinking about him. I don't think you should give him a chance by talking to him at all, because if he had any respect for you at all, he wouldn't have cheated on you. That was very wrong of him to do. You seem like a very nice girl, and you definitely do not deserve that. Someday you'll find a very sweet guy, and you'll know he's worth your time because he will not cheat on you. In the meantime, you can go shopping, take walks around the block, read, hang out with really close friends, do things with your family like go out to eat, go on the internet, paint your nails, and do lots of school work. When you see him in school, you should just try to ignore him. Don't have any eye contact with him, and he'll know your very pissed off at him for cheating on you. Don't waste your time on this guy. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have any other questions, just leave them in my inbox. Good luck! Let me know how everything goes. I hope you feel better.:)
<3 KiMmY
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* I know you're hurting inside, everyone has been through this. But, sorry sweetie, he treats you horribly! Try to get over him, keep yourself busy, make plans with other boys, do whatever it takes to keep him off of your mind. Don't attempt to talk to him, he's a jerk. I'm here for ya! *
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Well...
Amanda needed to mind her own buniess for 1.. and 2nd... you should listen to what this boy has to say. it could be important for you to know what he has to say.
if he doesnt talk to you.. then maybe you need 2 talk to him.
tell him how you feel && how angry you are.
listen to EVERYTHING he has to say. kuz if he has the heart to talk to you, then he must kare.
but you should move on, even though you will be caught behind for a while, try to move on, && eventually you will.
this boy seems like he meant some what to you. so dont let him go that easy.
you kan let him go, but make sure you know what yer letting go.
i hope i helped!
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Ok, instead of breaking up with him and all you should have just told him how you felt about the whole AMANDA situation. If her great grandmother really died then you shouldn't have anything to worry about. You just listned to what everybody else was saying, you probably should have just been there for him if he was going through so much. I will admit the whole skipping school, not calling was shady, but if you have no reason not to trust him then you should trust him. Everyone deserves a second chance, and in this case both of you do. If you love him, fight for him and take him back girl :) Good luck!
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You should give him a 2nd chance and observe him to see if he's cheating. If he is, Dump him. Ask him to hang out with you sometimes. Ask him if you could hang out with him and amanda, and if he sounds uncomfortable, hes probably cheating.
--Caden--
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I can see where you would get annoyed with the Amanda stuff. But since I don't know how long they were actually together, I can't help you out much. It's respectful of him to go to her relative's funeral, and although I would have been pissed too if he didn't call me that day, just think how Amanda would feel if he called his girlfriend on her day of mourning? Amanda needs people to have feelings for her since she just went through this loss.
Anywho, I think you should definitley talk to him if he approaches you. Hear his side of things, and take that wherever it goes. Just go into the conversation with a good attitude and don't shoot down everything he says. Best of luck!
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