Question Posted Wednesday November 16 2005, 6:56 pm
okay this friday i'm going to hangout with this boy, lets call him charlie. I want to become FWBs(friends with beninfits) but i dont know how to make the 1st move or get him to make one. any suggestions? ill be in a hot tub and walking around with some other people (i rate high)
<3always carla 14/f
angelfire2708 answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 9:04 pm: friends w/benefits is really lame. I have to agree with other people on that. Why would you want to be used like that. Your only gonna eventually get a name. Either get a bf or just stay true friends! Friends with benefits only wrecks what you have with that person.
jazz82289 answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 8:41 pm: Haha, umm pretty much just go for it, just be like "how many people have you made out with in a hot tub?" and then he'll answer and then just be like "wanna add to that number?" i dunno with stuff like that you just have to go for it, i hope i helped! [ jazz82289's advice column | Ask jazz82289 A Question ]
caden answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 8:34 pm: Just be yourself and trust your heart. Flirt with him and talk to him. Asked open ended questions to him, because if you do, he will think your interseted in him. Like lets say, you talk to this shy kid and ask an open ended question, he wont be as shy around you. [ caden's advice column | Ask caden A Question ]
bubblesamin answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 8:12 pm: Dear FWB,
I say to just go for it the only way your really loosing a guy is if you don't go after it. If it's not you then tomarrow who know another girl could be scamming on your future boyfriend but always remember to trust your heart it'll tell you what's right. Always remember you don't have to bend over backwards and do all these tricks to get a guy to like you guys just love girls who play hard to get. All you have to do is just keep a good head on your shoulders, sit back and let the guys come to you!!!
auntM answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 7:10 pm: Dear FWB,
yeah........wow....uh.....yeah.....just flirt I guess! Or tell him, or maybe just do what the other adviceanators told you to do. I'm 14 too, and....uh....yeah.
AuntM. [ auntM's advice column | Ask auntM A Question ]
cjAdvice answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 7:07 pm: get some of your friends to go over to him and tell him that you like him..... thats how it always works for me! hope this helps! [ cjAdvice's advice column | Ask cjAdvice A Question ]
smertbloond14 answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 7:04 pm: Were something cute! make him Pant! lol well just do that and like sit next to him and ruffle his hair and smile and laugh alot! and touch his hand if he grab's it hold it. If he pulls away be like "O sorry" it always works for me! well I hope I helped!
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