26/m
i don't know what to expect from this but here goes.
everytime i really start liking a woman i always end up being "like a brother", this last time seemed to have taken the life out of me to the point where i start feeling resentfull towards woman and sociaty in general.
I really want a girlfriend, and always try to be just myself, but nobody seems interested, EVER. i've never had a girlfriend, i really can't believe that i'm such a big loser.
I really don't know what to do anymore :(
Speaking from a woman's point of view, I think woman are attracted to and want boyfriends that are real... "menly-men". But once they get in a real relationship, they will aprisiate your sweetness.....hopefully.
My advice is be yourself and all, but...less...girly, maybe???
Best of luck, peace out,
-auntM.
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hey everyone
whats a good song out now?
Are you kidding me! Get a musical life!
That being said....
1. What catagories of music do you like?
2.Go to yahoo.com they have a music section
3.Type in music artists, such as......
Kelly Clarkson
Lonestar
All American Rejects
etc.
Peace out,
-auntM.
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Does anyone know any websites that you can go to give you healthy diets, weight loss suggestions, and other things along those lines?
automatic 5's to ANYTHING that helps!
Do a google! Duh!
Visit my advicenators account, it's auntM
Peace out,
-Miquelie.
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i'm sorry if this is kind of long. i've liked this guy since i was five now im turning fifteen in two weeks. we use to go to the same school. but i switched schools for second grade. i went to an all girls school and for sixth grade he went to an all boys school. but most of my guy friends go to all guy schools and the boys from all guy schools are usually the ones that go to all of parties and dances and stuff and the guys that we hang out with after school. so, anyways when i started jr high, in seventh grade, the guy came to all of our dances, so i saw him again at a dance i went to in seventh grade.
in the summer of me going into eighth grade, we started talking. its not like i had never seen a boy in my life just because i go to an all girls school, but he was like the first boy that i started like talking to and stuff. so, he had this best friend. the best friend and i became really close. he would come home from summer school every day and we would talk online and we became the best of friends, until one day he told me that he hated me and he never wanted to speak to me again for the rest of his life and i had no idea why he said that. but now he's talking to me again, but it has never really been the same since he said that to me. why would he have done that to me?
the guy i like was the first boy that ever told me he loved me. it was that summer. but my mom was super overprotective because i guess she was nervous that this was the first boy and i didnt noe what to do so she told me that i had to play hard to get with him. so thats what i did. he would call me every day and we would talk online every night. but i took my mothers advice and then the boy put on his profile: "i don't know who i like" and i've been devastated since the eighth grade. and now he has a girlfriend, and he's bringing her to my quinces cuz they are dj's and they are going to be playing at my quinces!!!
could someone please give me an idea of what to do. please do not say get over him because i really love him and i don't think that i'll ever stop loving him. he is my baby and i'll always love him! but please, what can i do?
Goodness Gravy! that is a long one! And tough!
So, let me start with that friend of your "baby", he said he "hated you and never wanted to talk to you," over the internet right? Then, the next day he didn't act like he said anything at all? It was prpbably a hacker or something. Myabe you should bring that up in casual conversation?
About your beef-cake-boy, use your feminen charm to get him back! Also, talk to him a lot, be your sweet self, but be confident as well!
Whatever you do, DO NOT be HIS perfect girl, okay? Be yourself!
Also, it's just a girlfriend, they will break-up soonr or later, -if you've waited this long, you can sertainly wait a little bit more.
Your mom was right though, play hard to get. You know, like, get a life, show him your still interested, but that you have a life out-side of him, -you'll be too clingy if not.
Remember, a guy is just not worth it if he's like, "put out or get out" k?
-auntM.
Seach for auntM on advicenators to see more.
.p.s. What's "quinces"?!?!
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my computer speakers are working when i go on AIM - i can here the doors opening & people iming me & me iming other people, however they do not work when ever i try to watch any video clips or play the SIMS. it's weird, i don't here any sound at all, but if i go back to AIM they work! any ideas on why this is & how to fix it? thanks!
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i'm 13 yrs.old and female
i feel really stupid for askng this but, i don't know, i THINK i feel desperate!!! i don't know. i've LIKED ALOT of people in the past and even now!! i think i'm ugly but some people think i'm "pretty"( i THINK ppl. say that because they just wanna boost my self esteem.) no boy ever thought i was pretty. EVER as far as i know. i'm not popular nor am i nerd. i'm in the middle.i want boyz 2 like me, what do i do? i want 2 look better. but i don't wanna be drastic and use some chemicals,i wanna be ALL natural! what do i do about ALL of this??? boyz never even take a 2nd look at me!! HEEEELLLLLPPPP!
First of all, this may sound stuid, but don't feel stupid for asking, you'll never get answers if you don't ask.
Now, that being said, it's a scientific fact that girls mature faster than boys do, and so 13 year old boys don't really...uh...notice/care and they don't really know what they like or think is pretty. okay?
Plus, at your age, your body is still growing, so in a year or two, you could be as beautiful as any modle or whoever is beautiful to you.
Remember, "Man lookith upon the outward appearence, but God lookith upon the heart"
So it DOES matter to people, but it doesn't really matter to God and Jesus.
Peace out.
-auntM. (aka Miquelie)
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Is gatorade healthier/better than water?
Gatoraid replaces your electrolights, water hydrates you.
Peace out.
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my friend is currently dating someone who is depressed. hes recently started having feelings for someone else but he needs to sort out things with his girlfriend first. its tearing him apart. what advice should i give him?
Oh boy! That's tough!
I think he should make a list, and try and figure out wich one he likes better. But I see your point, if his girlfriend is depressed already, oh boy! I really don't know what to tell you, sry man. Just be there for him, and try not to critisise him too much.
Peace out, 1991,
-auntM
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13/F I have a BIG problem I have no idea what I want for Christmas. I have a $300 dollar limit and already have this stuff:
Clothes
Make-up
Body Sets (with lotion,shower gel, etc.)
Bed sheets
&
A new digital camera (which is only $30(but I might change that to one with a printer))
Please help me I'll rate you...
I think, since you obviessly already have and already asked for everything you wanted and want, you should ask for the remaining money as just money, and give it to a local good cause! I mean, do you honestly think your the only one who wants things in life? Trust me, you'll feel great, and you'll still get everything you wanted too!
Peace out, 1991,
-auntM.
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can someone give me the lyrics to swich foot "stars"
hahhahahahahahahahahahah!!!!!!!!!!!
........................................
I have no idea.............................
.................yeah.........................
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okay this friday i'm going to hangout with this boy, lets call him charlie. I want to become FWBs(friends with beninfits) but i dont know how to make the 1st move or get him to make one. any suggestions? ill be in a hot tub and walking around with some other people (i rate high)
Dear FWB,
yeah........wow....uh.....yeah.....just flirt I guess! Or tell him, or maybe just do what the other adviceanators told you to do. I'm 14 too, and....uh....yeah.
AuntM.
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Ok, well I came home from school today and found my cat behind one of our landscaping trees, so I called his name, and he kind of looked up, but didn't come, which was REALLY unusual, so I knew something was wrong. Well, I took him inside, and kind of checked him out, to see if he was ok. I think I found what's wrong: in his right ear, I can see a little blood, and there's also a bit of dried blood below his ears on his fur. When I tried to touch it, he flinched, but when I touched his other ear, he was fine. So I'm pretty sure it's his ear. But he won't eat or move much at all. Right now, he's behind the rocking chair in the corner, not really moving. I'm scared, because I've had him for about 9 years, and I recently lost a dog who was only 7, and I can't bear to lose my other pet. I'm thinking he either got in a fight or got attacked by another animal. (he's an outdoor cat). My question is, does anyone know what's wrong with him? Is it really bad that he hurt his ear? I'm taking my dog to the vet tomorrow to get her sutures (sp?) removed, should I take my cat too? I tried calling both my parents, but they didn't answer. I'm really scared, what should I do? Please help me.
Dear Cat,
Usually, just a scrape is nothing at all, but being so old, your cat is probably just taking it worse. Wait for your parents, they'll know what to do. Meanwhile, pet him, make him feel comfortable, he'll be feeling better in no time! He probably just got into a fight.
P.S. Sorry about your dog.
Sincerly,
Aunt M.
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ok my hair is so boring and I have the PERFECT cut in mind I just need opinions on how it would look on me... ok my hair is brown with blonde and deep red highlights, my face is round/heart shaped, skin is an olive tan color and my hair is half way down my back.. ok this is what I want done: I want to get a lot of layers, take some length off of it, side sweep bangs, and spikey things at the top (kinda like a faux hawk but not that short) If you need details just IM me on my AIM sn: funnyfunkestuff
(if that hair wouldn't look good then give some suggestions) : ) sorry so long
Dear Perfect hair,
Okay, I guess it really matters on how you feel in you hair cut. But that being said, girl, long hair is 'IN', okay?! You sound beautiful, what I would do is go ahead with the layers, sounds great, but don't die it, and don't cut it super short! Take out the red high-lights, put in some black ones to go with that beautiful skin of yours! ;-) And don't forget, the right clothes and exseseries, (not expensive ones) will pull together anything!!!!
Censerly,
Aunt M.
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Well ive been cruching on this guy for like EVER! well tonight i finally told him. and we didn't get to talk anymore about it b/c someone walkied around the corner. but i just want to know if it was stupid of me to tell him or not? he is like always staring at me and what not, or he was idk if he still is but i need help!
Dear Dumb,
First of all, your not dumb. How would you ever know if he likes you or not if you don't ask? Guys won't tell you! Besides, if he likes you, it was a great idea. And if he dosen't, well it's great that you found out now, instead of wasting even more time on him!
And hey! There are other lobsters in the pot!
Cincerly,
Aunt M.
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How Do You Like Makeout With Some One I Never Have Before So I'm Like Scared I'll Do IT Wrong.... Ummm soo whoever knows give me some feedback please i rate high, and dont give me the b.s like oo practice on your hand lol ok thanks
Dear "How do you kiss,"
Okay, hold on! I'm a teenager myself, and as such, let me tell you to just...slow down! There is nothing wrong with kissing, but when you do, whomever is kissing you will probably like you no matter what. Besides, did you ever think that he/she might be feeling the same way?
If you really like this person, you will know what to do.
Cencerly,
Aunt M.
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