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ugly.......pretty?
i'm 13 yrs.old and female
i feel really stupid for askng this but, i don't know, i THINK i feel desperate!!! i don't know. i've LIKED ALOT of people in the past and even now!! i think i'm ugly but some people think i'm "pretty"( i THINK ppl. say that because they just wanna boost my self esteem.) no boy ever thought i was pretty. EVER as far as i know. i'm not popular nor am i nerd. i'm in the middle.i want boyz 2 like me, what do i do? i want 2 look better. but i don't wanna be drastic and use some chemicals,i wanna be ALL natural! what do i do about ALL of this??? boyz never even take a 2nd look at me!! HEEEELLLLLPPPP!
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A lot of people have this problem, and maybe you're overreacting. If people say you're pretty, they probably think you are. But back to your question.
Clothes-wise, you basically want stuff that looks good on you (yeah like that helps lol). Try stores like Forever 21, they have the cutest tops. Hollister, Abercrombie, and American Eagle are really good, if you have the money. Try aeropastel, they have really nice jeans for good prices.
Makeup. Right, you want CVS. They have EVERYTHING. Don't use too much makeup, it's scary. Just go for eyeliner, mascara, some blush (unless you have naturally rosy cheeks then stay away from it), lip gloss, and concealer if you need it (do not overuse, it can be bad)
As for hair, most people look really good with their hair straightened. It can take up to 1 1/2 hours, and you might have to get up really early, but it's worth it. Especially if you have a really good straightener. They have good ones also at CVS, probably for about $35. Scrunch it (get scrunching gel, i'm not really sure where to get it), or put it in a ponytail with a bow (the ones from build a bear lol), it looks really cute.
Try to be confident. Walk with your head up and swish your hips a little. Be a little flirty. And don't worry so much!!! Sorry this is so long...lol.
!~*Becca*~!
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well you should probably not take drastic measures and just have fun with people.doing stuff
or else the time bomb will stop tick i n g and you will be a ugly FOURTEEN year old
with no bf.
just keep being yourself.being origianl is admirable
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First of all, this may sound stuid, but don't feel stupid for asking, you'll never get answers if you don't ask.
Now, that being said, it's a scientific fact that girls mature faster than boys do, and so 13 year old boys don't really...uh...notice/care and they don't really know what they like or think is pretty. okay?
Plus, at your age, your body is still growing, so in a year or two, you could be as beautiful as any modle or whoever is beautiful to you.
Remember, "Man lookith upon the outward appearence, but God lookith upon the heart"
So it DOES matter to people, but it doesn't really matter to God and Jesus.
Peace out.
-auntM. (aka Miquelie)
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be yourself. the boy who can look deeper than just beauty is the boy worth your time. a lot of really pretty girls are used for their looks..the guy is attracted to the girls looks..and they are like eye candy to them. thats what one girl told me anyway *one of my pretty friends* So look being average and not glamerous has its advantages..you knwo when a guy comes along hes really into you..and isnt using you for your model looks or whatever. your only 13..a lot of people dont have relationships until 15,16,17 and they are good looking people ..so dont get down on yourself..there will be many dating opportunities to come your way
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