So a few weeks ago i just got dumped, and i really like this guy a lot still. I always ask himif he likes me and sometimes he says kinda and sometimes he says no. He acts really cute to me and stuff when no one else is around, or he will tell me he likes me but then the next day he will say he doesnt then 5minutes later he will tell me that he loves me. I like this guy so much and i would do anything to get him back.
Does he like me? Any ideas to win him back?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Ivy921 answered Saturday December 24 2005, 9:59 am: I think that the best thing you can do will also be the hardest: You have to ignore him for a while. He seems to thrive on playing with your emotions, he probably is just being honest on how he feels about you liking you one minute but not the next... but playing it cool with him, not mean and not chewing him out or being obnoxious or anything, but just being not around him as much and seeming you aren' as interested in him will drive him nuts. Give it a couple of weeks and he will be all over you in no time. But, the question is, do you want to be with someone who is so fickle in his emotions. Why always be on that rollercoaster? the few weeks away from him will also give you time to think about that as well. Good luck and keep me posted. [ Ivy921's advice column | Ask Ivy921 A Question ]
MelikoDee answered Saturday December 24 2005, 9:58 am: He sounds emotionally unstable and I would advise you to keep your distance. People like that can be harmful to others.
xoxo_perfect1 answered Saturday December 24 2005, 3:09 am: get over him. why would you want to be with a guy who can't decide whether or not he likes you? and why would you want to go out with a guy who broke your heart? [ xoxo_perfect1's advice column | Ask xoxo_perfect1 A Question ]
H0LDM3CL0S3 answered Saturday December 24 2005, 1:29 am: once you love someone, that love never compleatly goes away. so keep that in mind! well i think that he does like you but he doesnt want to admit it because he is the one who broke up with you. you said that you always ask him if he likes you... dont do that. he probably feels pressure and wants to give you an answer that will make you happy instead of the truth. maybe he's playing hard to get! you can never really know. just give it time and if he loves you back, he will ask you back! but make sure that he knows how you feel about him, he might think that you dont love him anymore and move on. so just make sure that he knows that you still care for him. if youre the one who normally calls him or im's him, dont; see if he im's you.
ButtUglyChicken answered Saturday December 24 2005, 12:41 am: He probably likes you. He is probably trying to deny it since you're his ex, and it'd seem pathetic to come back to you with his tail hanging between his legs. I would sit him down and ask plain and simply how he feels about you. Peer pressure may be another factor in his behavior. Hope that helps. [ ButtUglyChicken's advice column | Ask ButtUglyChicken A Question ]
the_haha_boat answered Friday December 23 2005, 11:02 pm: give him time. he sounds pretty confused er somethingg. try not hanging out with him for a while. then you will figure out if you miss him and he wil find out if he misses you. ...or else youll miss him and he wont miss you...and i probably just messed up the rest of your life
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