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i'm sorry if this is kind of long. i've liked this guy since i was five now im turning fifteen in two weeks. we use to go to the same school. but i switched schools for second grade. i went to an all girls school and for sixth grade he went to an all boys school. but most of my guy friends go to all guy schools and the boys from all guy schools are usually the ones that go to all of parties and dances and stuff and the guys that we hang out with after school. so, anyways when i started jr high, in seventh grade, the guy came to all of our dances, so i saw him again at a dance i went to in seventh grade.
in the summer of me going into eighth grade, we started talking. its not like i had never seen a boy in my life just because i go to an all girls school, but he was like the first boy that i started like talking to and stuff. so, he had this best friend. the best friend and i became really close. he would come home from summer school every day and we would talk online and we became the best of friends, until one day he told me that he hated me and he never wanted to speak to me again for the rest of his life and i had no idea why he said that. but now he's talking to me again, but it has never really been the same since he said that to me. why would he have done that to me?
the guy i like was the first boy that ever told me he loved me. it was that summer. but my mom was super overprotective because i guess she was nervous that this was the first boy and i didnt noe what to do so she told me that i had to play hard to get with him. so thats what i did. he would call me every day and we would talk online every night. but i took my mothers advice and then the boy put on his profile: "i don't know who i like" and i've been devastated since the eighth grade. and now he has a girlfriend, and he's bringing her to my quinces cuz they are dj's and they are going to be playing at my quinces!!!
could someone please give me an idea of what to do. please do not say get over him because i really love him and i don't think that i'll ever stop loving him. he is my baby and i'll always love him! but please, what can i do?
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well, as far as the friend guy, he might of been doing it because he likes you too and he might have been trying to push you away because his friend, your love, could have like threatened him or something. and your love, it sounds like he really loves you. believe me!!! he's doing this to make you jealous. right now, just kind of dont worry about it. he'll come to his senses but help him lol try talking to him, not around her but try talking to him online or on the phone. but if he tells you he loves you tell him that you love him back. because you really really do. i can tell. and you have always loved him
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ok i am not going to say to get over him because i went to the same thing too! but what i can say is that he's best friend sounds like he came from a bad day and something that he thought you said made him tipped off and also the boy that you love make him jealous make him want you more than ever let's say more than his gurl we'll what you need his to talk to him more and listen to mom's advice because she is also right too!
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IF you really love this guy you have to talk to him about this. He may really like the girl he is with and love is tuff and he may not love you. Remember it takes to people to love in a relation ship and if he doesn't love you then you need to let him go. There will be so many other boys, that you will say you live in your life
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Goodness Gravy! that is a long one! And tough!
So, let me start with that friend of your "baby", he said he "hated you and never wanted to talk to you," over the internet right? Then, the next day he didn't act like he said anything at all? It was prpbably a hacker or something. Myabe you should bring that up in casual conversation?
About your beef-cake-boy, use your feminen charm to get him back! Also, talk to him a lot, be your sweet self, but be confident as well!
Whatever you do, DO NOT be HIS perfect girl, okay? Be yourself!
Also, it's just a girlfriend, they will break-up soonr or later, -if you've waited this long, you can sertainly wait a little bit more.
Your mom was right though, play hard to get. You know, like, get a life, show him your still interested, but that you have a life out-side of him, -you'll be too clingy if not.
Remember, a guy is just not worth it if he's like, "put out or get out" k?
-auntM.
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.p.s. What's "quinces"?!?!
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