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well my friend is like over obssesive. like she always wants to hang out..and well she is my cousin and we hang out like ALL the time. some people think it is pathetic. but i dont know what to do? i wanna go out and meet new people and have fun :) but i just wanna get away from hangin out with her like every weekend! i still wanna hang out with her but i dont wanna like every second of the day. its hard tho becasue she always asks to do something and im never doing anything so im like okay..but lately ive been gettin kinda sick of her..and i dont know i dont have that many other friends..uGh and im not very outgoing either. sucks right? what do you think i should do.
thanks sweetie
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Well just be honest with her tell her how you feel and do it the most nicest way possible ! and tell her that she needs to understand what your talkin about and say i love you to death and all but i think we hang out way too much and also you should try meeting new friends and go to movies with them and stuff and also invite her then that way she wont be anoing when you have other friends around ! hope i helped !
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Hey baby doll.
I'm actually kind of in the same situation as you. I have this friend that I just met not so long ago, and we grew so fast as friends. She constantly wants to hang out with me, and always asks me what I'm doing, and with who I am with. It gets pretty annoying, and whenever I say something about it, she gets really offended. So I try not to mention it anymore. But what I would do in your situation is just tell your cousin you want some space. Be honest with her. Tell her you love her to death, but you want some time to yourself, or the next time she calls and asks to hang out be like ohh I'm kind of tired, maybe another day. You could also say you're not feeling well. Start making some plans with some of your other friends. Invite them to go see a movie with you or just hang out at the mall. If your cousin calls tell her you have plans. Trust me she'll understand.If anything just invite your cousin to come along with you guys. In order to make more friends you have to have confidence. Smile a lot. Show people that you're friendly and a nice person. People are more attracted to people that are friendly, you don't have to be outgoing, just a sweet person. It's okay to be shy, just make sure to keep smiling. Remember a smile goes a long way.
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