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Long distance
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months, and are head over heals for eachother presently. The only problem is that I see him for a week every 3 months or so... its enough to drive a person crazy... he lives so far away, and now that I'm at college things are really hard... dumping him isn't an option, because we are that close, and its the closest thing to I've every felt if not love itself... I just don't know how to deal sometimes, its so frustrating not being able to see him, and to touch him... basically what I'm asking, is does anyone know of anyway to make this any easier till we can be together again... thanks (I will rate)
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aw long distance relationships are always, tough bu tsince u guys love each other so much you seem to be making it work. All i can suggest is maybe talking on the fone every nite (if you don't already) e-mails..maybe u can email pix of each other everday or a few times a week so you both can have pix of each other. If there is a way, maybe you guys can rearannge your schedules so that you can make it so you can see each other moe often. I hope this helps, best of luck :)
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to relieve the sadness of not seeing each other, write in a journal where you can write how you feel at the moment, the memories you never want to forget, how he makes you feel when your with him or without. that way when you look at it when you miss him, you'll have a satisfaction of knowing all those things. keeping journals has been good for people who need to relieve stress, anxiety or just for pure happiness. this could help you deal with the distance. also make it a constant goal that you talk with him on the phone at least once a week to catch up on things and always have that voice on the other line that will make you feel more comforted. =] -ask_anything
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I'm in a similar situation and I feel that way all the time. I try to keep myself busy with work and friends but they will never be enough. It helps me to remind myself of our future together and that any long distance will eventually be part of our past.
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Well, I was once on the end of a long-distance relationship and it was hard for me too; What I did was wrote him a letter ever time I thought about him and sometimes I sent it sometimes I didn't. I also called him alot, and emailed. It really worked, because I would spill to him in the letters even if I didn't send it. So yeah.
hope I helped...
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ummmm....really there is nothing that you can do, i see my man once or twice a month if I'm lucky, and I have tried to find the same answer but there really is nothing you can do other than what you are doing now. Sorry. Good luck! xoxo
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Hi Sweetie,
Write eachother lettters... better yet a notebook. One of you start of first... write down on this notebook like it was your journal. You'll be preoccupied with that. Then give it to the oter person. He/You will read it and then reply to it and write on it. This system works for me.
Hope someone was of help. Best wishes to both of you! ~Blessed Be...
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