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BFFL?
im 14/f nd im having pblms wit my best friend of 9 years, "trish". we r both in eighth grade nd in the same classes together.i recently had some problems with my sister whose on drugs moving back into the house and stirring up much trouble for my mom nd me. she moved out nd we are piecing our lives back together. anyways, this past june i got into a fight with some gurl at the movies and i got arrested. from then on, trish's mom has not trusted us together she wont let trish and i go anywhere together, the movies, football games, or the mall! trish told me that he mother thinks i will have a bad influence on her. I WONT. ive really straightened out my life and ive stopped getting into fights. Her mom still wont let us hang out tho! its really bothering me.nd i cant prove myself to her mom because she wont let us go n e where! nd last night trish and her other friend who doesnt get into trouble, we'll call her "megan", went to the movies together. i havnt confronted her about it, i dont know if i should. im kind of mad at trish nd i know i shouldnt be but she doesnt do anything to defend me! im soo confused pleasee help me =) thnx
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dont be mad at trish. if there is someone to be mad at, its ur sister. she messed up ur regular life. maybe if you could get ur mom 2 tell trishs mom that ur really a good kid then trishs mom would trust u. trish should really do something to defend u and u should confront her about that. if no one will believe u, then next time trish goes someplace like to the mall, then just meet her there and tell her not to tell her mom. hope i helped ya!
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Hi Sweetie,
I've been in similar situations... except we were both bad influences for each other.... but I was the only one who actually wanted to get bettter... and my mom didn't like my friend at all... (I don't know what her mom thought of me.... I don't want to know)
What I did (and I'm a bitch for it) was leave my closest friends behind and started over. Maybe Trish wants to do this because she feels awkward or she's afraid you'll pressure her to doing something that will get her in trouble.
Or maybe her mom really doesn't like you. Period. If this is the case there's very litle you can do. Only Trish can try to convince her mom you're a good person. You can try doing better (getting good grades... being polite.... that kind of crap) and see if Trish's mom notices.
I'm so sorry about your situation. I really do wish the best for you and Trish. ~Blessed Be...
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well first of all i dont think you would be a bad influence on hur bc u seem to want to be her best friend again maybe "trish" moved on and maybe you should too. this happened to me my bestfriend moved in a diff. city and she still thinks were best friends but truly i moved on but i still am her friend.
hope i helped
x'z n o'z
peace
Lia
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