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ok, im almost 14, and my bf is 14. We do have sex, but...all my friends are saying that i should tell a councelor or someone, y should i have to tell, i mean its my personall life. me and my bf kinda look goth, i don think that helps any, but yeah. and me and him have been having sex for a while, so...its not new to me or anything. and we havent been with anyone else. so why should i have to tell a councelor??? pleeeez answer. i rate 5's for good answers.
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yer rite... it is yer personal life.. but telling a counselor could be a good thing. they could test you guys for AIDS//STDS. which could help save yer life.
and.. having sex maybe not be a big deal to you.. but yer friends are worried about you && they want the best for you.
if you && yer boyfriend dont tell a counselor, make sure you guys use protection.
i hope i helped.
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It is your personal decision if you want to tell a counsler or not. I think that's stupid because it's your choice if you want to have sex or not!
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Um, sincerely you are a little young to be having sex, it's not even legal for either one of you to be having sex. Unless he's forcing you to do it you don't need to tell the councelor. As long as you think you are mentally ok to have sex then it's fine in my opinion. Just make sure you are using the right protection so you don't get pregnant, like a condom or birth control (not pulling out) have a great day!
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I agree with you. Really, who's business is it that you have sex but your own? Sure, you are a little young but at least you're dating the guy. It's no one's business. If you were to tell a counselor they'd tell your parents and then your parents would forbid you from seeing him ever again.
It's no one's business. Don't tell anyone what goes on in your personal life. I don't tell anyone about my personal life unless they ask me.
But I do advise you to be extremely careful. Because if you don't want anyone to know about your personal life, you better make sure he's not silly and puts some rubber on his willy. If you don't want any miniature versions of the two of you running around any time soon.
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You shouldn`t have to tell a concelor.. You have nothing wrong with you in my opinon.. maybe keep your personal life between you and your boyfriend so these so called friends won`t recommend you seein and talkin to someone.. ♥ Dez
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you should tell a councelor because at 14, its quite likely there are things you dont know, not saying thats the case, just saying its possible. things like birth control and STDs, as well as what to do if you are using a condom and it breaks.
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