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My girl broke up with me..


Question Posted Sunday November 7 2004, 11:47 am

Last night,I was at a hockey game with my dad and my girl (ex girlfriend now) called me and started cursing me out. She said somebody called her house and cursed her mom out,and her mom said it sounded like me,when it wasn't me who really did it. So she broke up with me and Heidi (my ex) is punished for a very long time. Her mom took away her cell phone,and a bunch of other crap,and Heidi simply refuses to speak a word to me. I don't know what to do. Should I:

1) Give her a couple of days and hope she'll listen to me when I try to explain to her it wasn't me that called her house (I have my dad as proof.)
OR
2) Just move on with my life

This girl means everything to me,and I would do anything to get her back,no matter what extremes I would have to take. I love this girl with all my heart and I really want her back. Please help me out. Thanks


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Additional info, added Sunday November 7 2004, 12:07 pm:
On a side note,her mom is prejudice against me b/c I go to an all black school and I'm white..

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday November 9 2004, 2:30 pm:
I would go with 1. I know this is late {sorry} but go with one you should have the right to say what you want and tell her the truth weher she pays alot of attention or not

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PrEtTyKiTtY0428 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 9:54 pm:
ok if u know it wasnt u who pranked her house then u have nothing to worry about. why dont u wait a few days and then go to her house with ur dad to talk to her and her parents. if they realize it wasnt u and that u really are willing to do anything for their daughter then maybe shell give u a second chance and maybe her parents will respect you so much more.

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dragon3 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 8:41 pm:
Don't stress too bad and give her time.

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HuGzNKisSeZ69 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 6:30 pm:
Well, if she doesn't truly believe you then she might not 100% love you. I would just move on. I mean she called you and totally accused you, pretty rude if you ask me.

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K3587 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 5:41 pm:
Regardless of whether or not she will take you back, you need to set the record straight. You did not make the call; therefore, you should not take the blame. Forget what her mom thinks; her feelings toward you should not affect either of your decisions.

Then again, she may not feel the same way you do, and could have used all this as an excuse just to get out of it. But if you truly believe in your relationship, give it a shot.

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LoLo2454 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 5:29 pm:
aw...go with 1. If you love her then talk to her. If you didnt do it then she should understand, and im sure she will regret breaking up with you and will realize what she lost. so give it a few days then talk it out. Hope i helped :)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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P4TH3T1Cx1426 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 4:06 pm:
get over iTT.

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frenchy answered Sunday November 7 2004, 3:36 pm:
hey! if Heidi loves you the way you do, then she will come to her senses and will want to here your side of the story. but do give her a couple days, girls tend to get mad and then theyc ant stop thinking about it, and then they think clear and come to a decision. what she thought happened probably really hurt her and she probably didnt know what to do so she called you and yelled at you. whatever you do, forgive her for acting this way and let her know that you'll love her no matter what it takes. make her feel wanted, but wait a couple days, maybe even 1-2 weeks for her to think things over. if you wanna talk more, drop a message, peace and love!

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jazz82289 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 3:19 pm:
Do the best you can to get her to talk to you for a minute, tell her to give you one minute, don't do it on the phone because she can put it down, or hang up on you. Talk to you Dad about it and go to her house (with him) and tell her you apologize for it happening to her but you didn't call her and cus her out. Give your girl some flowers, (i know i use that one a lot but it works!) tell her that she means the world to you and that you would never do anything to hurt her especially her and her mom. Good luck man. xx

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superstar10 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 3:13 pm:
see if ur dad will talk to her mom. or u talk to her mom. or something cuz thatreally sux..good luck! let me know how it turns out!

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Sunday November 7 2004, 2:18 pm:
Give her a couple of days... than try to explain yourself... if she still doesn't listen than u should move on cuz she's not worth ur time...

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