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Friend or Foe?
I have liked this guy (we will call him george) for awhile. I never told anyoen so he ended up going out with one of my friends (we will call her katie). So they went out for awhile and for about the last week george has been flirting with me a lot since we were in a play together and we had a lot of rehearsals. Well, katie started to notice that he was flirting with me and then he wouldnt with her. So a few days ago George broke up with katie, katie seemed all excited about it. Then the next day she came up to me and told me i should go out with him. Do you think she is jealous? Or if she really wanted to let go and be set free? i dont want to go out with the guy if its really going to hurt her :-/
~Signed, Friend or Foe?
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talk to her and ask her if this would upset her... ask her y she wants him to go out with him after they just broke up. see what shes feeling. maybe she never did like him as more than a friend...?? i think shes trying to be a friend... a good 1 at that. hope i helped ~stef~
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you should do what your heart tells you to do !
i mean if she is jelos she would have not told you to go with him!even if she is she will get over it because i am going out with my bestfriends x and at frist she may act all jelos but then she will find someone elas !
write me back and tell what happens !
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thats a really sticky situation i have to admit..she obviously relized that u like[ed] him and she was beein a friend! no matter what u always put ur friends first caz they r wat matters most! talk 2 her bout it and tell her that u like him and see how she feels just be a friend!
bunches of love~erin
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i think that if your best firend is telling you thqt you shpould go out with a guy, go for it., she won't be mad at you because she told you to do it. I don't think she jelous, she probab;y jrealized that her are george weren't good together and that you and george would be better
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Hi Sweetie,
Well do you want a guy that flirts with other girls when you're going out with him? ...And um then breaks up with you so he can flirt more with other chicks? (If your answered is no, then you'll know what to do, if your answer is yes then read on.)
Another thing... this "Katie" girl. It's sooo uncool to date your friend's exboyfriend. BUT sometimes under some circumstances and in some situations no one is of fault and it seems like there's nothing wrong with it.
Well if you really like this guy... and he likes you back... and you want to go for it... then go for it. Just don'tbe too couppe-ly in front of Katie. She may be okay with you and George going out but it may just be too weird for her and him and all of you.
Another thing! Maybe George won't ask you out because you're Katie's friend. (But he did flirt with you, huh?) Wait and see what his move his. Unless you have an impulse LET IT OUT (by asking HIM out or something).
Hope you find your answers. Best wishes to all three of you! ~Blessed Be...
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Just ask her... say would you be hurt if i did end up going out with "george" because I'd never want to do something that'd hurt you.. I'm sure she'll answer you honestly, and if she seemed excited she probably doesn't like him anymore.. Good Luck!
Hope I helped!
~Lana
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If she told you to go out with him and you really like him then go for it, she needs to stop beating around the bush if she doesn't want you to go out with him. If yall go out and she gets mad it's her fault not yours. But if you do go out try to lay low with your boy for a minute and try not to rub it in her face you know? Just make sure she's cool with it. But if she's over him then she shouldn't have a problem with it. I have always had this theory that your friends shouldn't keep you from going out with someone just because they went out with him and broke up. I hope I helped! xoxo
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Hmmm... hard to tell... Ask Katie if it's alright for you to go out with him... if she says yes then ask George out! But if she says no... then i would try not to get so atached with George... I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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