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E-mail: softballchick848@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: texas
Age: 14
AIM: DiPiTLoW040
Member Since: November 1, 2004
Answers: 5
Last Update: November 9, 2004
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I fall for men to quickly and then end up getting hurt. It is usually when you like a guy they don't feel the same way or vice versa. Now, I don't technically like someone right now, but I'd like to find someone I can spend time with and get to know so that I know something will happen. Any adive? I am nice, attractive, open minded, opinionated, spiritual, funny, love sports, love to talk, and just have a good time. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but there has to be something. People are always telling me how beautiful I am, and then they end up asking me why I don't have a BF, and I ask myself the same questions. Thanks!

GiRl..we have all been there and i feel for ya! i really do..i mean honestly its not fair to us to have guys lead u on bout things! ya know? i think everygirl has been there..and u kno what! there is a guy out there for every girl..u just havent found the one that is worthy of u LOL! just look at it that way!!lol!
BuNcHeS oF lOvE~eRiN

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I have liked this guy (we will call him george) for awhile. I never told anyoen so he ended up going out with one of my friends (we will call her katie). So they went out for awhile and for about the last week george has been flirting with me a lot since we were in a play together and we had a lot of rehearsals. Well, katie started to notice that he was flirting with me and then he wouldnt with her. So a few days ago George broke up with katie, katie seemed all excited about it. Then the next day she came up to me and told me i should go out with him. Do you think she is jealous? Or if she really wanted to let go and be set free? i dont want to go out with the guy if its really going to hurt her :-/

~Signed, Friend or Foe?

thats a really sticky situation i have to admit..she obviously relized that u like[ed] him and she was beein a friend! no matter what u always put ur friends first caz they r wat matters most! talk 2 her bout it and tell her that u like him and see how she feels just be a friend!
bunches of love~erin

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theres a girl that im really close to..she used to like me a lot and i love her and we were like /-/ this close to going out, but she stopped liking me..she said she couldnt picture me as her boyfriend (personality wise not looks) and i just dont understand how after we had done so much and gone through a lot together..she cant picture me as her boyfriend and everything..i have told her how i feel, i have made a move, she has been to my house many times, we have gone out on "dates" sorta...and i love her, i just want her to like me again, please tell me how to get her to like me again...oh and she likes a sophomore at my school now and people have told me that she might still like me and shes just confused but i dont think she does...i really want her back, i need her :( if you give me a helping answer then ill rate you a 5 DO NOT TELL ME TO GET OVER HER!!! i have tried and it isnt happening!

k this is what happend girls tend to lose intrest in things..if a guy doesnt like her or if he likes her and doesnt do anything about it she kinda feels let down in a way..if she felt that then she probably told herself to let go of something she couldnt have..but she still wanted to be friends with u..i mean u never want to lose a good friend! let her kno how u feel and ask her what happend to how she felt! it will make it all better..
bunches of love~erin

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Ok this is how it goes...This past friday night this girl, lets say her name is sarah invited me to her house.. I was wit 2 of my friends and we were only gunna go there for a couple minutes..While we were there me n sarah kissed and during us kissing she said she didnt want it to seem like she was leading me on and that we were friends with benifits..i dont really wanna b friends wit benifits and now in her info she has sumthin that says "crushing"...is that about me or about some one else...i asked her and she didnt tell me, idk if it was bc i was wit my friend or wat but i want answers..please help

well let me tell u this..girls have diffrent looks at leading guys on then what guys look at it..but i have to admit that if she did that and didnt like u umm yeah i think everyone really looks at that as leading u on..if it says crushin it might be over u and it might not..girls dont really open up to things like that unless its with her friends! so if she doesnt tell u just ask her if anything is gunna happen between yall and then..its a yes or no answer!
bunches of love~erin

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Last year i was at my mom's friend house and her daughter, a senior at the time, wanted to put blonde highlights in my hair, my hair was dirty blonde at the time. then those started looking bad so i colored it brown. But that is wearing off and i have no idea what to do. I don't really want a big color change but i want to go back to blonde. We can't match the color i have now bc it got really bleached .. i guess you could call it.. from the sun. I'm pretty tan.. and i really want blonde hair.. like back to dirty blonde hair. But i don't want to be another fake blonde. Is being a fake blonde that bad?

ps.. looking back at pictures the color before it was sunned looks soo bad!!! o and sorry for the longness!!!

just dont go dramatic go a little at a time and pick a color that u like the best...

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