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Men are a Disgrace-Should I quit now?
I fall for men to quickly and then end up getting hurt. It is usually when you like a guy they don't feel the same way or vice versa. Now, I don't technically like someone right now, but I'd like to find someone I can spend time with and get to know so that I know something will happen. Any adive? I am nice, attractive, open minded, opinionated, spiritual, funny, love sports, love to talk, and just have a good time. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but there has to be something. People are always telling me how beautiful I am, and then they end up asking me why I don't have a BF, and I ask myself the same questions. Thanks!
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falling for a guy isnt gonna help that much at this moment for you. trust me that has happened to me plenty of times but i have realized that i sould wait for that one that will like me for me and all of that good stuff. let me tell you one thing tho...you will know who the right guy for you is. so keep being yourself and your guy will come sooner or later.
dont give up
~sammie~
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I used to do the same exact thing, but now I'm a cold hearted bitch, but that's for other reasons. I too fall hard for guys, but now I've learned to not believe a word they say to me. I keep them at a distance at first and get to know them before I make up my mind. Rather than sit and think about how perfect of a couple we'd make I think about his faults and how I'd be able to deal with them. If you fall too quickly, next time you meet a guy concentrate more on his flaws than his attributes, it'll keep your mind a little clearer. After you get to know him, if you see those flaws really aren't so big, and also that he sees no major flaws in you, then you might be able to work somethng out. If a guy off the bat makes any critical comments about you...whether it be intelligence, attractiveness...etc. whatever, be cautious. He might not say it outright but he'll give you clues and if that happens it means the odds of the relationship lasting longer are very slim. :) I also like to give guys a speech before we start "dating" sort of a warning. TElling them that if they lie or hurt me in any way they'll be castrated. Its best to keep guys on their toes. I really am a great gf and totally devoted, but he has to know how things work and I can get a bit of his character before I fall for him. I have a serious of mind games I play with them before i decide if I can continue dating them. About getting guys, honestly if you are all those things you say you are, they should come to you. It's difficult to find the right guy, but just give it some time and he'll come along. Slap the next person who asks why you don't have a boyfriend. :) or tell them you like your freedom. I hopee I could help some. Take care and good luck.
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well if you are falling for the wrong guy..then that is why you do not have a b/f. It is always like that..but soon you will meet a guy that digs you the same way. I would chekc out guys doing the same stuff that I like to do ..that way I know that we have some things in commom. Like aclub or an activity.
You will ahve a bf/ and it will be the right onwe..not the wrong one.
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Just relax, and keep being sweet and friendly... the right guy will come along eventually! Good luck!
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well mirs techno..idk. maybe u should ask ur friends about it... lol
xxmanda hope i helped
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ur a concieted bitch who's lonely. not my fault!
hmmm, cowgirl. doesnt sound too great to me! haha, u thk yu look good. and i also dont care what yu look like, cause i 4 one, and gorgeous. and yes, i am concieted. and thats y i'm popular, cause its the onlii way rich ppl these days can b. so yu thk i dont kno the real world huh? i have onlii traveled all my life, and oh look! i am going 2 hawaii in 10 days, oh my! fag...
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GiRl..we have all been there and i feel for ya! i really do..i mean honestly its not fair to us to have guys lead u on bout things! ya know? i think everygirl has been there..and u kno what! there is a guy out there for every girl..u just havent found the one that is worthy of u LOL! just look at it that way!!lol!
BuNcHeS oF lOvE~eRiN
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You just need to meet people through friends, at partys, and mostly, in school. Think about the guys in your classes..are any of them worth getting to know better? If yeah, go for it and if your not attracted to them that way..you can be friends. You need to be patient too, your time will come!
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