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corrine's suicide attempt has got me thinking. I've wanted to for so long. Now my feelings have been re-awakened. ive had too many problems. ive been hurt and abused and harrased and had my heart smashed too many times. ive lived the living hell. its a cycle. it all happens over and over. After everything ive had to go thru and put up with, and all the horrors and violent memories i have had to live with my whole life, it seems perfectly logical. I WANT OUT. i want the end. and with all my pain, i could do it so easliy. ive come close before, but never did because i have too much responsibility in this world and too many people need me. i didnt want to hurt them, but im always thinking about them, never about myself. i want to think about myself for once. i want this for myself. the pain they'd feel from my loss would be nothing compared to the pain ive endured my whole life. i know its selfish, but ive been so selfless. i know its not right, but ive been wronged. i know its not smart, but im losing my mind. the only thing keeping me on this planet is the fact that people love me. but if they love me,theyll let me go. its perfect. i could do it so easily so quickly and so quietly. i wouldnt scream. i wouldnt even feel the pain. im broken. my soul is sick of crying. it needs to be flying. i cant help it-i love you all but i feel like dying. one day ill reach the point of no return. when you least expect it... ill be gone. so love my prescence now, you never know when ill go.
you just try and stop me.
you know me. you know who this is. look at me closely you can see it in my eyes behind the smile. i know you see my motive. i can taste it in your tears.

oh my im so sorry you eel this way . I know god would not want you to bak out now there so many things you can do for your sel think o the wonderful things that are going to hapen to you. Some time what seems to be alot of bad things are really just the being to a great trip. i hope you hold and stay strong god with hold your hand throw everything sometimes it seams like hes not there but he is . i know what its like sumwhat you may not think so but but its true. god bless you

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Hey tori! bffl!!! mmkay lol wow u give awesum advice so i thought id go and babble on ur page lol! aight.i have this *friend* whos goin out w/this guy, and they been going out for bout 3 months. she likes this guy, but as time went on, he hasnt been as nice to her and her hurts her feelings frequently. she is starting to think that this might not be for her, and she feels trapped. she doesnt want 2 break up with him cuz she still likes him(but not as much as she used to)and she doesn wanna hurt him, and both their parnetns r real good pals,so that might make it awkward between them.she feels like she went 2 fast in her relationship. shes a flirty girl by nature, so she feels caged. she has 2 guy friends who like her & r way nicer 2 her and she feels like they deserve her more than her bf.and she also wishes she could have a bf that goes to her skool. she needs support and compassion b/c shes been thru hell and she needs sumone who can comfort her. PLZ help! luv ya babes!!! -reeree-

i say go for what is best for your *friend* that dumping the guy and finding a bf thats nicer and closer hope i helped

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I'm taking a Business Management course abnd I have to make a business plan. I want to make a nail salon. So I was wondering what should I name it. I was thinking either Tips to Toes or Paint. Also what services should I offer? anything you want to give me would be awesome

you could offer
1. nails
2. toes
3. eyebrow waxing
4. upper lip waxing
5. salt scrub
6. sugar scrub and they are not the same thing
7. fake nails many diff types solar ect...
8. nail buffing
9. heat wraps for your legs
AND for the i would go for tips to toes it cute lol or this little piggy like the nursy rhyme with your finger or toes ? lol

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Only answer this if you play an insturment please. I play the violin and after school I always have alot of homework and I can never get practicing in and I'm afraid the teacher thinks horribly of me, but I try on weekends to get some practicing done! Does anyone know a good technique to use so I CAN get some practicing done?

i used to play the tuba but i had to give it up this year for drama .. long story and im trying to help you .
ok try doing this as your daily after school thing
1. get home
2. dont call friends or turn on the tv
3. do hw in a quite place
4. finish and chores or thing your mom wants you to due
5.dinnner
6. 30 mins. practice
7. free time
or you could
1. get home
2. 30 mins pratice
3. hw
4. dinner / help mom what not
5 free time
hope i helped !

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Woah... I usually GIVE advice here but now I'm asking for it. Because I don't know what to do. See... I started going out with this guy, Chris, on September 1. And I've known him since the first day of school (which was August 23). And I never really thought about it until I saw a picture of his family yesterday, but he's half Mexican (I'm white). And I don't have a problem with it, but my mom has this thing about interracial relationships. And she asked if he was white and I told her he was (that was before I saw a picture of his family -- he looks like a real dark-skinned white guy). Then my mom decided she wants to meet Chris, and she wants me to invite him to our Labor Day picnic/cookout thing. I don't know what to do... I'd love him to come here but I'm afraid my mom's going to say something about his race or she's going to make me break up with him or something. What should I do?

i think cris should go just make sure to ...
~tell cris about your mom befor he gose and that your not like your mom
~ sum wat tell your mom he comes from a "mixed" past but not to say ANUTHING pleas / or not say anything befor the party and say sumthing after
both ways she needs to know
w/e ur mom says she cant make you dump him if you love him ur going to have to go throw this stuff in the long run might as well start now. in the long run it will make you to grow stronger together

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WHAT THE im so not austine !!!

umm ok
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i see you in the halls and you make me all happy inside i love when i spend time with you and want to be around you all the time .
you are my sun and without you my days would be soo dark i love you
will you forever be mine ?

aww how sweet if this is how i think it is your getting some cows very soon ... and u said you were not romantic *austin*

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Today I was sitting in class and I just picked up this needle thing and started running it up and down my arm. I don't know why but then I started scratching myself with it really badly so that I had marks all over my arm. After school, my boyfriend saw but he made a joke of it. I think I did it because I want attention because my parents don't really give me any. I was really upset that my boyfriend didn't care, does it show that he doesn't care about me? Everybody that saw what I had done just ignored me.

mabey your friends are scared of what this could mean or could happen in the later on
try talking to ur bf about and tell him y ur doing that
if u need to talk im me
dramdol1

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ok, heres the deal. i have long, straight blonde hair. i was wondering how can i get my hair into ringlets cause i think they look so cool, but nothing seems to work! please help, it has gotten to my LAST nerve.

hey i have the same problem
you could do i of 2 things
1. get a you hair permatly curly
2. when you go 2 curl it and pull out on strand of hair hair spray it majorly
hope i helped

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Ok I know that this is really long, and I'm sorry, but if you can please answer that would be soo cool. Ok so I have liked this guy who is kind of a dork for about a year and a half. I haven't told any1 except 1 friend because its really embarrassing. This guy's name is Jamie. Jamie thinks he's really popular but he's really not popular at all and most people think that he's really annoying. He used to like me last year for a while and a lot of people still think that he does but he tells everybody that he likes this girl named Jillian who is PeRfEcT and I mean it she is pretty, nice, funny, athletic and most guys do like her. The problem is he is leaving to go to Hong Kong to stay! I'm not sure if I should tell him that I like him or not because he is the type that would go around telling everybody. I was thinking that I could tell him at the end of his last day but then if he likes me it would suck....If u guys can help me that would be so cool! i rate really well!

im soo srry for your problem i bet it really suxs..
but i mean the best thing i can say to do is tell him that you like him and if he dose great/ suxs and not suxs/suxs but eater way you wont rethink anything when hes gone then you can start moving on to another guy
hope i helped

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Hey,
theres this guy that always flirts with me, always talks not stop, and he even called me sweet. He taps my foot all the time and we end up getting into a flirty footwar, lol. I think hes gonna ask me out, but i really like him as a friend. What are some ways to turn a guy down nicely so that he doesnt hate u forever?
Signed,
girl under an attack of unwanted predator

one way you could say it im really busy right now and dont have time for a bf right now it would not be fair for both of us

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can i have you you sexy thang

no way buddy

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ok i'm 15...n i meet this guy the other nite n he was so0o0o awesome i mean...he was so prefect for me n everything..well he looked about 15 (he also told me he was) well i called up my friend Chris n was talking to him about it n he was like dude that boy is n 7th grade his like friends w/ my lil bro! n i was like wtf...omg! yeah it was crazy...so i talked to him last nite n iwas like y didn't you tell me blah blah...then i was like so how old are you really n his only 14..n idk wat to do...cuz his so cool n his so awesome n everything...n his suppose to come to my house on firday to hang out...idk...wat n the world should i do




*plZe don't delete!*

Well i know it was strange to find out and stuff but when he comes over on friday you can try being just friend and what not .. then its ont so wrong to go out with a younger guy you can creat your perfict date plus when your in collage it dose not matter.

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Ok. My cat Zoey will not stop pooping on the floor! She has a litter box and all she does is poop on the floor right next to it. She's not a baby, shes almost 4 yrs. old and she's always used the litter box fine, just recently she has started doing this, her litter box is clean because i clean it at least once every two days and i dont know what to do with her anymore, she has done this at least 10 times. I know that like putting their nose in it and saying no works on dogs but does it work od cats? Please if anyone knows anything i can do then tell me! Thanks in advance!

Ok i dont really know what to do but heres 3 things you can try
1) did you get a new brand of litter ? if so try going back to the old brand
2) what typ of cleaner did you use is it new?
3) the only thing that makes sumwhat since is that there is a new smell in the box that she dose not like hope it helps !

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