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hey.. my parents r super protective like they wont let me "date" 1 on 1 till im 16 and they have to meet him and all that crap..althou im dating now and its really hard to go out w. him kas i need to have my friends go w. me so my parents dont explode.. what can i do so i can go out w. him but not get in trouble.?
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Well just plan to meet him somewhere or maybe introduce him to your parents cuz you need to start finding out who you like and what not
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Do you have a sibling that did something wrong?
or are you an only child?
Your paresnts are trying not to let you do what they did wrong. They want to protect you from all the creeps that they went out with.
Sit them down..tell them that they have been great paresnts and you are not going to date some creep they do not approve of.
Now..on your part..you have to earn their trust..so dont do anything that will make them feel uneasy about you.
every parent wants to meet the date...so let them meet him..could be after they do..that he might not be as awful as they think.
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talk to ur mom and dad about it. tell them that u are and feel ready to date. tell them that u have a boyfriend u are with and that u really like him and think they will too. then ask ur parents if u could invite him over one day for dinner so they could meet him for themselves. if they still have a problem with u dating him then u should still date him but make sure u guys dont get all that serious and make sure ur mom and dad know that ur dating him still just so they realize how much this person means to u.
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spend the night at a friends house and go to the movies and meet ur boyfriend there
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maybe you should leave with friends but end up yall split up but when the date is over you should all meet up agina or go on a dubble date with a good smart friend so your parents know nothing will happen cause people these day are haveing sex so all they wont to do id keep you safe !
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That is so how my parents are. I didn't tell them I had a boyfriend until we were dating for about 7 months, and by then my parents were like, well that was irresponsible of you not to tell us. So you are going to have to sit and talk with them. Parents don't understand that we children are maturing. I've just turned 14 today, and my parents are like oh no, my daughter will now be into makeup, and all that. I've been wearing makeup since I was 11, and a few times back in 2nd grade (for talent shows) It's crazy. All you can do is talk to them. If not, meet some friends at the mall with him, tell your mom to pick you up around an hour after your friends leave, that way you and your boyfriend can have an hour together. I mean, technically you're still with your friends, so it's not like you are lying. DON'T SNEAK AROUND. You WILL get caught, and then your parents will have proved that you are irresponsible, which probably isn't true.
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Omg, my parents are the exact same way with me! heres what you can do...my friends and i plotted this out...If you want to go on a date say you are going with your friends and meet your friends there or ride with them, then split off from them and meet up with your man;) Like the movies, go see a different movie that ends the same time as your friends. Hope i helped!
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
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i had this problem too. it sucks waiting till 16 so ur parents are all right with it but thats what u have to do.
to go out with him tho- well what i did was lie. i know thats bad but whatever its not to do anything terrible. just say you are going with some friends and just meet him there. or whatever. can you have guy friends just come over to your house?
also what worked for me was id be like oh im talking to my friend ____ (guys name) on the phone right now. then when we got off id be like yah he is just really cool hes becoming like one of my best friends and just be open to talk to your mom about it in that sense. then she might let him come over and stuff. hope i was helpful. any other questions, ask cuz i went through this for many years!!! <3
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sneak out.
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hey! i've been single and double dating and i have found out that double dating is a lot more fun. maybe your parents will let you do that. its not dating 1 on 1, you can have a good time and a lot of fun. hope i helped, peace and love!
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my parents are exactly the same except i cant date 1 on 1 till im 17. anyways, u can always hang out at a mall w/him and ur friends, and then go see a movie after all the parents are gone. that way, u can still hang but ur parents wont care cuz u'll be on a group date. hope i helped ya!
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u could go to the movies with ur friends but then go see a different movies with ur bf. or go to the mall or some sport game and hang out with him when ur parents arent there. good luck..that or u could talk to them about it
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i would say go to the movies with ur friends and ur bf and then just sit in different places in the movie theatre and then get ur moment alone with him then and maybe even sneak off without them knowing and go 2 a resturaunt with him!!
*BeSs*
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