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they want let me do anything
*15, Female*
my parents want let me ride around w/ my friends that are like 16 17 18...and it makes me mad...i mean when i go to my friends house i ride around w/ them...and my mom doesn't know...and then i feel like a dork when my friends call and ask if i can go and i have to be like *my mom want let me ride w/ ppl* and it jst pisses me off! ahh!
idk...wat can i do to get my mom to let me ride w/ my friends??
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*hey y dont u let ur mom get in the car with one of ur friends so she can feel confident* just get in ur mom's spot for a sec*
<3alwayz,Gg
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tell your parents that your not a little kid and that your plenty old enough to go ride around with friends. And tell her that your friends are good drivers and have never been in any wrekcs or anything like that(if thats whats shes worried about)
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Well, It looks like your mom is overprotective & has some trust issues. Since your friends are just 16, 17, and 18, they havent been driving very long and I can understand your moms deal. build up your moms trust & let her get to know your friends better!
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for at least a couple of day let ur parents ride with u or get to know ur friendz and there parents then stuff will change
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Have your mom meet the people before you go out with them. Im 15, and before I ride in a car with someone my mom has to meet them, and as long as they seem like a nice kid she lets me...g/l!
-Zero
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i think that you should try to convince your parents that you're a responsible teenager. when you explain to them,keep your temper,don't be sarcastic, and dont get to into an attitude.
hope i helped, <3 Niki Lyn (plz rate me!)
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Convince your mother that your friends are totally responsible. Maybe let them talk to your mom and explain to her that they're safe drivers, etc.
Explain to your mom your reasoning for wanting to ride around with your friends - a lot of parents will respond to a logical chat.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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Maybe you should plan a time where your mom can watch them drive and see that they are not as bad of drivers as she thinks. Or explain to her that you guys are going to be very careful and not have alot of distractions so its safter. otherwise, get your mom to take you where everybody else is going!
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Hey. I'm 15 too. I'm not allowed to ride around with my friends in their cars either. But heres the thing. Drivers that are 16-18 havent had much experience at driving. Even if your friends are trustworthy people who don't get into trouble much, your mom is just trying to protect you. I know plenty of good people who have gotten into car accidents, and actually a girl I knew from school was in an accident with her brother in January, and died as a result of injuries. They were good kids and something bad still happened to them. I suggest that you dont ride around with your friends if your mom doesnt know, because if anything ever happened, your parents wouldnt know where to find you. Just give it some time. Eventually you will be free to do what you want to do. Hope I helped!
<3 Amber
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okay, i've been in this position before..many timez..i get where yur parents are coming from because they prolly think tht yur friendz are immature and they just relle care about yew and they dont want anything to happen to you. But yu've got to get yur mom to trust you/your friendz. have your friendz over alot and after time your mom will realize that they arent just a bunch of kids who dont care..and den she'll let you go. while yur doing this dont tell your friendz the reason why. just meet them there and get dropped off or just make up somethyn. hope i helped :)
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