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Should I go to the Party or not??
my friend Jay invited me to this party saturday night then a few mins later he said that I might not be able to go bc this girl that I don't along with will be there. But if i did wanna go I will have to ask this other kid. But me and this other kid aren't really friends. he's just planning it and the party is at jay's. So should I go?? Jay is afraid the girl will start stuff with me and there will be a huge fight. sry if this is confusing but thanx for the help
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well what you could try to do is stay away form her and if she kept bugging her just tell her that u dont want to argue cuz yur havin a good time. and if she keeps at it you could just havea plan B, like get a friend to agree that if she started crap up with u to leave with u, that way when u leave u still have someone to hang out with. but i would say try not to let her get to you
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i would try to avoid this "girl" and if she starts stuff with you, try not to react in the stupid way she is. and if she insults you, then say "thanks" or "i know" in a non sarcastic way
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i've been dea before `nd let me tell you right now avoiding this girl is not going to help yew. Just go to the party `nd have fun! dont worry about dis girl. If she relle wanted to fight yew she wuld have done it alreadii. Most likely she wont sai nething to yew unless yew give her a mean look or start wid her first. She`s prolly putting on a show to act all tough n everything. Whoever yu are , yew got dis. So dont even worry. Just have fun! GooD lUCk :)
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If you really think there might be problems with this girl, then you probably shouldn't go, because you don't want to contribute to an akward situation at that kids party, or Jays house, but if you think you can get through the night without any problems then go for it!
hope I helped!
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girl dont let another person get in the way of you having fun!!!! you should go!!!
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You need to tell Jay that despite the other girl you wanna come and party.. hes probably a cool guy if he made sure you knew your enemy or whatever was gunna be there. But what you should ask him is why he told you not to come instead of her.. thats hurtful! If you do go, be mature, if she talks to you or comments rude things turn around and IGNORE it. Please.. dont let her know anything is getting you down.. it would only feed her ambition. You can prove to anyone that your not a hot head like her... and people will like you so much better if you dont fight with her. She may not even say anything.
Hope I helped
Have fun!
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if you want to go to the party then just go! no one is stopping you... just avoid the girl for the night and if she starts anything just walk away. if she continues to say things to you then just tell her to leave you alone and if she doesn't then just leave. but really no one should stop you from having a good time... so i say go and have fun
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WELL dont go if u think a fight will start tell ur friend jay that u really wanna go but u would rather stay home and wacth a movie then get the crap beaten outta u but its ur choice dont listen to but if i were u i wouldent go
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who cares about if u and her dont get along?! it dont matter. dont let her keep u frum having a good time! i think you should go and have a good time. hope i helped, <3 Niki Lyn (plz rate me!)
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I think you should go. If you don't, then the person that you don't like will think that she can push you around and that you are scared of her. I think that when you go, you should try to avoid her. If you do end up having to talk to her, just try to put aside your differences for a day so that you don't ruin Jay's party. If she tries to fight you, then just walk away.
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