School is about to start and I know homecoming dance comes soon after that. I'm going into my second year of high school and I skipped the dance last year. I don't have any trouble getting dates or anything like that, I just feel really uncomfortable on the dance floor. My friends have seen me dance and say I'm not bad for a white guy, but I still feel really uncomfortable. Any suggestions?
OreoGirl answered Sunday July 25 2004, 10:24 pm: i kno wut u mean. im a girl and i dont feel comfortable dancing in front of ppl. it just feels like i do bad. this is kinda wierd but i taped myself and then watched it and i wasnt bad at all. also when ur at dances no1 is watching each other dance. it'll b a big crowd and they r into dancing with their friends not judging other ppl so just let loose and have fun! [ OreoGirl's advice column | Ask OreoGirl A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Sunday July 25 2004, 9:01 pm: Joke around.. dance bad on purpose.. get people to laugh. Laughing is good... lol and ask some guys who now how to dance for tips. Or you dont HAVE to dance its not mandatory...
Lizzy answered Sunday July 25 2004, 8:36 pm: Just have fun! I know that sorts corny and everything but if you look at everyone else on the dance floor, most of them don't have a care in the world. and if you are a good dancer, then dance your little heart out and just have fun
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BigBadAdViCeGiVrKT answered Sunday July 25 2004, 8:29 pm: Well first off you have to be comfortable with yourself before you can be comfortable with other people, so start off with finding something to wear that youre comfortable in, and shoes and hair etc...
Then once youve done that find a guy (if you want a date) that you feel comfortable around and you feel you would be able to dance with. Sometime when im unconfortable doing things i just have to stick it out if i know i really wanna do something, and once youre getting into it, it will get better and you'll feel way more comfortable and you'll be dancing with all the guys! Trust me, once your out there and you start dancing and having a good time with your friends you'll feel great! You'll have a blast, you might be a little nervous at first but that will fade! Have fun! [ BigBadAdViCeGiVrKT's advice column | Ask BigBadAdViCeGiVrKT A Question ]
ABull answered Sunday July 25 2004, 8:27 pm: Just move the way you think is good. and if they say that you are bad. then just keep dancing. just feel comfortable with your self!!! just go out and have fun. [ ABull's advice column | Ask ABull A Question ]
HollyAnn2282 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 8:26 pm: Ahh dont feel uncomfortable no ones watching you! :) Just go have fun.. And maybe you can dance around infront of a mirror so you can watch yourself or something! Or maybe have some of your guy friends teach you a few moves! Good luck
-holly-
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