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cutting, problem? or not?


Question Posted Friday July 30 2004, 11:58 am

hey, if you have cut yourself on the arm really deep 3 times and your parents found out so you cant do it again, you do on your chest a couple of times because you really need to but it was only a couple of times and you feel like your gonna die if you feel relieved after does it mean ill end up killing myself? is it a major thing? like do i have serious problem here? ive only done it a couple of times but i cant control myself not when i feel like i really need to. help? please? anyone?

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xBlackButt3rflyx answered Thursday August 5 2004, 1:40 pm:
i know what ur going thru. honestly ive done the same..ive gone to the hospital over it too..it can turn into a bad problem. you gotta try and take ur anger/pain out on either a doll, stuffed animal, pillow, or even a punching bag...i know this may not sound good to readers but if u cut n rip them it really helps lol..anways, hope i helped some and plz try n stop....

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LilMia811 answered Friday July 30 2004, 8:03 pm:
Yes you have a problem called self mutilation. It when people cut or burn or hurt themselves as way to relieve another pain or depression they have. And it is a really hard habit to break. You should seek some counceling, and be careful you could end up killing yourself, even if its unintentional.

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AdViCeGrL123 answered Friday July 30 2004, 6:42 pm:
I was a cutter to i cutt my left arm 6 times and on my legs and shoulder but my parents found out and that was the best thing that ever happened now i am in couseling and im doing good and i found other ways to tak eout my anger...thast wat you need to do find other ways to vent your anger you are welcome to IM me anytime and talk my screennames are shleberz1705 and wewonstate03 and crazyweirdo1324 rate me

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sarcasticgal1221 answered Friday July 30 2004, 2:11 pm:
Next time you get the urge to cur yourself, call a friendf you can trust.

STOP CUTTING YOURSELF.

The longer you d it for, the harder it is to stop.

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heya answered Friday July 30 2004, 1:22 pm:
My friend has the same problem. Cutting yourself doesnt mean ur gonna kill urself..for some ppl its a way to relieve stress for others it might lead to killing urself. Yes you do have a serious problem tho...oneday u might cut the wrong thing and bleed to death. You need to go to a therapist...fast.

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i know alot about this..sum of my friends do it..so please feel free to ask me..i kno how it feels..

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XoCrYsTaLoX answered Friday July 30 2004, 1:20 pm:
hey sweetie, this is a really big problem and it can get to be an even bigger problem if you dont try to get help or stop right away!!! and yes you can end up killin yourself (even on an accedent) juss tell one of you really good friends and tell her you really need her to help you! or juss find something else to do in the place if cuttin yourself like get a stuffed animal and whenever you feel you need to cut, juss do it on the stuffed animal!! *i hope you get better :)

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xxshortythugxx69 answered Friday July 30 2004, 1:05 pm:
yes sweetie, cutting is a problem, dont do it, i cut and i regret ever doing it, if you think that you need to, trust me from experience it dosent do anythng for you, you dont NEED to cut, its a mental sickness and if you need to talk im me XoSweetfulsinoX@aol.com just please, if you thenk you need to do it, then get a rubber band and put it around your wrist, erery time you feel the urge, pull the rubber band back and sna it as hard as you need to, just dont cut anymore, plaes?
your friend,
-Shorty Thug
im here if you need to talk <33 xoxo

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ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Friday July 30 2004, 12:59 pm:
It's never good to cut yourself!!!It does sound to me like you need some help when it comes to cutting.Call this number~~> 1-800-DONT-CUT.They can give you more info on cutting and your options for help!Best of luck!!!

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BabiiBubbles answered Friday July 30 2004, 12:45 pm:
My friend had a cutting problem.. It was serious, she went to bed with a knife everynight. This is a serious issue, it might make you feel relieved, but your still hurting yourself, it will leave scars and remind you that you hurt yourself because you are hurt. when your angry, work out or something. Try going to a counselor..They help alot. Everytime you get the need or the urge for it, think of something else immediately, you could kill yourself if you hit a vein

Best Wishes..

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icey0990 answered Friday July 30 2004, 12:23 pm:
ONE time..i cut myself on the arm..only slightly..that wasnt a problem.

What you describes is a poetential problem if you dont stop it right away! Cutting on the chest is serious and this situation can get dangerous quickly. Dont be afraid to get help..it sounds like you only need a little.

its not that serious YET///

and it doesnt always lead to suicide.

I have a friend whos sister cut reeal bad..but she got help and shes fine now.

I really hope i helped..best of luck! <3

-melissa-

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MissJ1414 answered Friday July 30 2004, 12:16 pm:
alot of ppl have this problem and it can lead to attempts of killing yourself but not usually. I would seek a school counsler or a friends mom that you trust and talk to them about it. also get some fitted rubber bands (tight but not so tight they're cutting over you ciculation) and put them on your wrist and everytime you feel the need to cut just pull one of those and pop yourself with it over and over until you feel your need to cut go away.

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Sara8047 answered Friday July 30 2004, 12:15 pm:
Cutting is a bad thing to do but it does relief pain...maybe try seeing a therapist for easier ways to relief pain..Cutting yourself will kill you if you take it to far and keep doing it. Try stopping cuz im shure no one wants you dead..My opinion is it could be a problem..hope i helped` Sara

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XxBabieGurlxX answered Friday July 30 2004, 12:11 pm:
I think you need to see someone about this. Cutting doesn't solve anything. When you do it you feel relieved and everything but you could end up killing yourself if you do it too deep or something and you can bleed to death. And yeah it can be a major thing.

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