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Well. . .i dun have a pic so im 16 shortii Florida i have long blond hair and dark green eyes im bout 5' 4" and i think thats bout it. . .love yall
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ok, i tried thr rubber band thing a while ago and that hurt, but didnt relieve any pain, i tried cutting a stuffed animal and that did absolutly nothing... i no i need to stop but i dont no how else to do it, i tried school consul, i felt better but onlyl like until the end of the day, maybe, and i cant go everyday (weekends) and my parents no i did that one time on my arm with three deep slits. it did leave a scar. but mentally to altho i have a hiden swiss army knife in my room, in a trophy, and ive used wear no one can see it. i feel better after, but guilty cuz i no wut im doing, but do it anyway. help? please? thanx a ton. bye. (link)
sweetie. . .i know EXACTLY how you feel. . .unfourtnatley, it is hard to stop, and i havent had much luck with it, if you think you know the problem, then think it thru if its just anger, then ask your mom to see a professional phsycoligst to give you anti-depressants...i hope im helping you and feel free to ask me anything you need!


hey, if you have cut yourself on the arm really deep 3 times and your parents found out so you cant do it again, you do on your chest a couple of times because you really need to but it was only a couple of times and you feel like your gonna die if you feel relieved after does it mean ill end up killing myself? is it a major thing? like do i have serious problem here? ive only done it a couple of times but i cant control myself not when i feel like i really need to. help? please? anyone? (link)
yes sweetie, cutting is a problem, dont do it, i cut and i regret ever doing it, if you think that you need to, trust me from experience it dosent do anythng for you, you dont NEED to cut, its a mental sickness and if you need to talk im me XoSweetfulsinoX@aol.com just please, if you thenk you need to do it, then get a rubber band and put it around your wrist, erery time you feel the urge, pull the rubber band back and sna it as hard as you need to, just dont cut anymore, plaes?
your friend,
-Shorty Thug
im here if you need to talk


i need to lose weight ASAP!!!!!!!! i have to go swimming in late july hurry i need help! (link)
If you eat healthy, exercise regurally, i suggest running for about half hour at least 4 times a week will help you lose weight, also if you swim,bike,rollerblade etc. then you can lose weight foods you can eat that help you lose weight is non-carbohydrate foods and eat a lot of acedic foods like Grape-fruits, eating a half a grape friut a day for breakfast helps you burn many carbs and you also need plenty of protien to keep a steady diet, if youy do:
exercise daily/regurarly
healthy diet. . .the one i suggested
and take care of yourself that should be able to help. hope i helped ya please rate me and good luc!! =D
xoxo
-shirty thuq-


There is this guy I really like. Today I found out that he cuts himself. The only thing is, he doesn't know that I know. How can I bring it up and tell him to stop without sounding all maternal? (link)
Well, you cant just "stop" him from cutting, there is a problem in his life, or was and thats why he started cutting in the first place and its not something someone can just "stop" doing, they feel that they did somethig wrong or was treated badly so lets their anger out by inflicting pain on themselves, you may want to talk to him, but what you have to realize, this is just not a habit, it is a desise and a very deliate situation, this could also mean he has a low self-esteem or thinks very low of himself, so, be gentle, and dont force him to talk about anything he dosent seem to want to. . .theres my advice i hope it helped good luck and please rate me! =D
xoxo
-Shorty Thuq-


my brest are a 34a and im 16 do u think that i should get inplants if so y or if not y?? (link)
Definatley not, if someone dosent like you for you or your brest size, then they dont like you, you shouldnt have to change yourself for other people to acctept you
hope i helped


is it normal for girls 2 masturbate becuz its normal for guys?? (link)
yes, it is as normal and healthy for girls as it is for boys i hope i helpled please rate me
=D xoxo
-Shirty Thuq-


What is the point of fingering a girl? I heard it was to 'stretch them out' for sex. What is fingering supposed to do? Bring them to orgasm?

Also are handjobs supposed to be done to bring your partner to orgasm?

I am 13, female, and I just wanted to know why you do these things (orgasm, pleasure, stretching, etc.). Thanks! (link)
well, youre 13, and i hope, for you as a person that youre not considering doing these things just yet, but the point of fingering a girl, is to feel them and know just how and where their body reacts the strongest to pleasure, fingering CAN bring a girl to oragsm and it could also be used to "strech" a girl out but it isnt quite affective, and as for handjobs, they are a way to bring guys to an orgasm and the same for the girls, know how they like it ex:fast,rough,slow,gentle etc. and an orgasm is the body reacting to the amount of pleasure it is holding, and it ejects a liquid (cum) out of the body, and is known to prove satisfaction =D
i hope i helped and ask me for more advice if u need it
please rate me and good luck
xoxo


is it ok to date online (link)
in my opinion, i dont belive in dating online, some one who you think is cute, and sweet, and your age, could possibly be some peadfile looking for young adults to hurt, if you date them online, that's fine but if they start to pressure you into meeting them, back off a little and consider how much you know this person good luck!
hope i helped, please rate me =D
xoxo


does it hurt the first time u have sex becuz my boyfriend and i wanna but im not sure becuz im afraid that it will hurt 2 bad (link)
Well, i hope youre of age, if you think your ready, and you think youre responsible enough to have to deal with pregnancy scares, STD's, or him pressuring you to ave sex, the youre ready. . .i guess but also make sure you know this boy and please please, if youre under the age of 17 rethink about it, becasue losing it to just anyone isnt worth it, but if you love and know this boy, and youre sure he wont make any wrong choices, then you can, and yes, the first time it will hurt, especially in your inner thighs but, yhis is just my opinion =D good luck!
soso


how do u kno if ur chery popped??? becuz i juss had sex for the first time and im not sure if it did (link)
Well, if you popped your "cherry" then there were excess amounts of blood while you and your partner were having sex. . .you dont always pop it the first time you have sex but your "Cherry" can be popped in other ways riding a horse, bike, using a tampon etc. so if youre worried about your mom finding out by your "cherry" being popped, dont becasue it is it popped easily, so if you didnt have large amounts of blood while you were having sex, then most likley you have popped it another way, unnoticing good luck
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xoxo


Hey..
I know this is an awkward question..but I just shaved "down there" after receiving advice from others to do so before swimming season..and I was wondering how often u have to shave it? Are there any negatives/positives for doing so? Thanks (link)
Well if you just started shaving, its gona itch a little but then hwen it grows back it itches a lil too, dont shave it as soon as you see it start to grow back because then you can get painfull razor burn and it will itch even worse, shave it about once a week and afterwords put some lotion on the spot you shaved, it will be fine just dont shave it too often.
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Xx Shortii thuq 4 lyf xX


Hi im michelle, and i am 9 years old, i have found my true love (hes ten) and i know for a fact i am going to marry this boy, i have had prolly 10 boyfriends my whole life but i mean he is the one! i even went to a psychic persin. Well anyways i think we are totally ready for sex, i have already gave him head and he ate me out 6 times and has fingered me 3 times...do you think we are ready? (link)
I dont think that it is responsible at 9&10 to have sex, YOURE DEFINATLEY NOT READY nor is it safe and does not make any sense i have a 10 year old sister. . .i would hope she isnt thinking about sex. . for a long time and about giving head and him fingering you, you shuld learn more about the cautions of exchanging body fluids, and at 9? hun, im sorry youre too young, so my advice. . .forget about it, its pointless.


WHAT is up with all these questions "like omg omg" thats not cool (link)
i dun knoe what their problem is but they need to cut it out. . .its gay




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