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cant find anyone
i cant find any guys that like me so i have a very low self esteem even tho i dont let anybody really see that. how do i find a guy i can cuddle with and talk to and to kiss me and like me for me? any ideas? let me no.
p.s. i am mature for my age so most guys MY age seem imature and idotic. maybe if i could get my self to stop thinking that i could see them better, they still dont see me tho.
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omg sounds like me .. i can't find anyone for me .. and i think of myself as a ugly freak .. but you gotta wait for the right guy ... and y'cant really rush love ^_-
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just cuz some guys dun like u doesnt mean u should feel bad. guys r very interestin beings n u cant always understand what goes on in their heads. some guys may like u but r just afraid 2 express their feelins. u shouldnt worry bout that stuff neway. u should just b like here i am this is me if u dun like me then u dun like me me. u shouldnt go lookin 4 the guys, the guys should come lookin 4 u.
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If you can't stand guys your age, look up. (Older). I mean, I'm mature for my age - god knows I can't handle sixteen year old guys. They're all moronic (no offense guys), which is why my boyfriend is 18...Lol.
If you wanna find a guy, look everywhere. Forget about their age and start looking at their personality.
Older guys are also more likely to look at a girl's personality as well as the way she looks, whereas younger guys go for looks first, then maybe personality if the girl's hot.
Just be patient - don't settle for a guy you don't really want. A good guy will come along.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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go for an older guy to make your esteem go up put on your favorite outfit do your makeup then go out with a few friends to the movies and start flirting with the older guys and im sure they will be checking you out
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First of all you can't have a low self esteem. People can see right through that. A guy doesn't want a girl who has no confidence. You can't make anyone like you, they either do or don't. And you have to like yourself, before someone else can like you, and you have to love yourself before someone else can love you. And to be honest you don't need a guy to make you happy, you have yourslef for that.But, I can understand that you just want someone to show you some affection, we all do. Is there a specific guy that you like, if so, maybe you can try talking to him on the phone or computer, and then maybe chilling with him one day. And maybe you should go after a little bit older guy, if I knew how old you were I would know like what age to tell you, but maybe your thing isn't guys your age, because I know for a fact that guys are less mature than girls. Maybe if you got with someone a little bit older, you could find things to relate to with him. Hope I helped and feel free to ask me for advice anytime! Good Luck! :)
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Go for the older guys (they tend to be more mature but .. want more if u catch my drift) and just be yourself .. a guy will come around sooner or later. But you don't need one in your life riiiight now. They don't make you happy trust me. But just be yourself and don't over do it because then they will get to know *you*
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hahahha -most guys MY age seem imature and idotic- I agree with you and most of my girl friends too! girls mature first so its normal to find guys of our age -immature- try dating guys a bit older than you and see if things work out. Older guys are usually total players or romantic freaks so try that ..hahh ... good luck..!
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Well are you quiet? Most guys don't like quiet girls. Try and be a little more friendly, like at a party socialize a little more and then a guy will notice you. Guys like to cuddle and kiss with are kind of rare. You need to find some as mature as you. Not someone that's immature ecspecially if you mature. Hope I helped. Good Luck <3
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Just be pacient. You'll find the guy for you with time. Your not the only one that doesn't have someone.
P.S. Most guys are imature and idotic until they are out of college, and sometimes even longer! So if you really want a meaningful relationship, you may have to wait until you are out of at least highschool.
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