me and my bf have been goin out for 4 months and like ive kissed him numerous just on the cheek cuz im afraid if i kiss him on the lips he wont kiss me back and ive talked to him about it and he says he doesnt know why he told me he loves me-and i really think he means it and doesnt kiss me...he just doesnt...and hes kissed all his other gf....and i really REALLY do love him- *I RATE*
xOBaByKaY answered Friday July 16 2004, 10:06 pm: *Just take chances and go for it! Guys aren't always the ones to make the first move! And sometimes they like the girl to make the first move! He might be just as shy as you! Maybe just peck him and don't do anything else just yet! If he kisses you back then that's awesome, but if not then don't worry about it but ask him why! Eventually it will happen, so don't worry about it! gOoD lUcK!* xOxO Kaela <3 [ xOBaByKaY's advice column | Ask xOBaByKaY A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Friday July 16 2004, 10:04 pm: Well maybe he dosent want to lose you as a girlfriend so he is scared if he kisses u .. you will get mad
sxyxbabii answered Friday July 16 2004, 7:22 pm: hmm.. well maybe you should just go for it!! take a chance.. if he doesn't kiss you back ask him why he didn't if hes kissed all his other girlfriends.. hopefully this helps! [ sxyxbabii's advice column | Ask sxyxbabii A Question ]
katie315 answered Friday July 16 2004, 7:22 pm: well i would just kiss him on the lips. i mean if he really likes u then he will kiss u back. and if he doesnt then it wasnt meant to be. srry. if he doesnt want to kiss u on the lips than i dont think that u 2 shouldnt be together.
*good luck*
~katie~ [ katie315's advice column | Ask katie315 A Question ]
Ashley answered Friday July 16 2004, 7:16 pm: Awww, So cute! I think he is totally shy and wants to take it slow to make this work. I think he totally cares about you. I would just take it slow. Plus if you think of it when you both do kiss you will want to do it even more. [ Ashley's advice column | Ask Ashley A Question ]
only_the_best answered Friday July 16 2004, 7:13 pm: i think that you should go in for the kill .. the guy doesnt ALWAYS have to be the one who makes the move .. just do what your heart tells you .. but dont do anyhting you dont want to. [ only_the_best's advice column | Ask only_the_best A Question ]
kelli7956 answered Friday July 16 2004, 7:03 pm: Well maybe he thinks more of you. The longer you wait the better it is when you finally do kiss. Maybe with his other girl friends he didnt really love them.(rate me) **Kelli** [ kelli7956's advice column | Ask kelli7956 A Question ]
cowsoink answered Friday July 16 2004, 6:54 pm: Maybe he's just shy around girls. And maybe he likes u more and doesn't wanna do ne thing that will upset u. Don't rush him into ne thing and let him come to you. I really hope this helped, o and u don't have to rate me, i just love giving advice.Thanx, much!
~Chelsea~ [ cowsoink's advice column | Ask cowsoink A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday July 16 2004, 6:54 pm: Maybe he wants to take it 1 step at a time and make this relationship last because im moving slow with nathan to make sure everything is perfect i mean we've at least kissed on the lips and he always kisses back but maybe he is just either a lil slow processed and taking things slow and just wants the relationship to last.. ask him if he is comfortable-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
KateStar1011 answered Friday July 16 2004, 6:52 pm: Maybe he is really shy like you are. Maybe he wants to take it slow instead of all of his others. Just give yourself and him some time. Both of you will come around some time. Good luck, and just live life. :) Both of ya'll seem very cute w/ eachother! <3Have a good night hun [ KateStar1011's advice column | Ask KateStar1011 A Question ]
sexichickxoxo answered Friday July 16 2004, 6:52 pm: maybe u he never acutally made out before so he might be scared that u wont think hes good or something so next time just go in for it and like try it.....and if not just kiss him on the lips cuase i mean if he loves u as much as he says he should be passionate wit u and if not then ur wasting ur time
HollyAnn2282 answered Friday July 16 2004, 6:33 pm: Maybe he wants to take it slow or something. I'm sure if you kiss him he'll kiss you back!! Got to take risks. Cuz if you dont you'll never know! Good luck!
-holly-
hope i helped [ HollyAnn2282's advice column | Ask HollyAnn2282 A Question ]
S_C answered Friday July 16 2004, 6:31 pm: well u've already talked to him, maybe on ur 5 month anniversary, yall could go for a picnic in a park, or sumthin REALLY romantic, and see what it leads to. I know this isn't really helpful, but if i think of sumthin else then ill add it in!! [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
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