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well i want u to know that i told my mom about john on thursday after school. i knew she had to pick up my brother so i told i had to tell her something important when she came back and she asked me if it was good or bad...and i said good.

My mom just said that i better be careful with him since it's considered rape. But other than that my mom was ok with it. But my dad on the other hand was kinda like he better not hurt u or anything so basically my dad is being very protective of me right now. So my parents are happy for me and arent forbidding me to not see him. so i figured id let u know what happened since gave me advice.


thanx much!!!

Crystal

thats qood im qlad it all went ok =) qood luck with him hun

your very welcome xo
KaTiE

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Hi!
ok, so i've liked this guy for over a year. he's a grade older than me.we're not friends or anything...just like one of those *loving him from afar* things. (I'm like best friends with his neighbor tho) he knows i like him and i know he doesnt like me, but i cant help but still like him... one of my friends told him hi for me(i really didnt tell them to but it was ok)and he said "oh no not her again". what do you think i should do? i cant stop liking him...i think about him all of the time!
hope you can help!

if i were you i would start talken to this kid who knows maybe he will start to fall for you too.. if he doesnt then find someone else theres plenty of quys out there who knows this miqht not be the quy for you for riqht now =) qood luck

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When you go into a tanning booth is there anything you can use ( like sunscreen ) that protects you but still lets you get tanned ?
Thanx in advance!

yeh they should have it at the place ..

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does toothpaste really work on pimples? what is the best thing to do to ur pimples, or what is the best product to use? please hellp!

use neutroqena face wash .. it works really qood but if you cnt qet that then if you have just popped a pimple you can put rubbinq alcohol on it usinq a q-tip and it dries it up really quick =)

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Ok, my dad just died from lung cancer on Tuesday. My friend who me and him have been really really good friend, with some benefits, for almost a year now, asked me to hang out with him yesterday, and he asked me out while we were hanging out. I said yes but Im worried that, 1. hes gonna cheat on me and our friendship is gonna be over (cause he is quite flirty with girls at times) and i dont wanna lose him as a friend cause i really need him around during this time in my life and that 2. idk if he just asked me out cause he feels bad about me because I just lost my dad. HELP!!!

if your worried that he is qonna cheat on you nd if that is all your qonna think about then you shouldnt be with him and you definitly shouldnt be with him if your afraid of ruininq your friendship .. =) hope i helped

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Ok! Well I have to go to the doctor tuesday with my mom to get birth control. Im just really stressing out about the papsmear. I shave down there and Im not sure whether or not I want my mom in the room when they do that. They also have to ask you if your sexually active and I really dont want my mom knowing all that either! Any info, advice, etc.?

tell your mom that you want to talk to the doctor alone and if she says no then tell her that you want privacy and that your old enough to go in to the office alone.

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I have chin lenghth brownish-blondish hair. on wed. i am getting a cut and color... i know i want my hair more blonde. but i want 2 colors. what colors should i get and does anybody have any idea for a good cut? or websites i want it shorter but not way shorter and lots of layers! i rate 5's all around!

you should qet 2 different color blondes put in your hair .. and for the cut - qet lonq layers and qet it anqled =)

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should I be proud of what i am?

yes and dnt ever let anyone convince you otherwise =)

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well i have this prob with the boy im goin oout with ...we've beem goin out for about 5 days now..or more...but the thing is that he never calls me and ..he always has me callin him...im not afard to ask him why its just i dont know how .....so plz help me

maybe hes afraid to call your house bcuz your parents or sister//brother miqht answer and he doesnt wanna be like '`is _____ there'` lol or maybe he doesnt know how to start a conversation - who knows talk to him about it ..

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I met this guy that my friend j and her fiance r wanted me to met. so i was ok it couldn't hurt so i ended meeting him september 19th. He's 21 and i'm 17. so we all ended up going bowling. I talked i him a little bit.
that next week we all went to roger's house to watch movies. J and i ended up getting there by 7pm and we did our homework until 8-8:30pm. We finally started watching movies at about 8:30-9pm. We watched star wars. John(the guy i met) started explaining the movie(s) of star wars since i had never seen any of them before. Which was very sweet of him to do? anyway i didn't get home until almost midnight. This time i got to actually talk to john more and flirt with him cuz i was much more comfortable with him. Do u think we're dating, seeing each other, or being friends? What do u think about the age difference(17 and 21)? should i tell my parents about him (i haven't told them anything yet!)? how do u think the relationships going? should i tell my parent's about john even though we're not dating or seeing each other just friends? Because john and i have seen each other twice now and so should i tell my parent about him let me know? if john ever became my boyfriend in the future he was be my first boyfriend ever? should i still let them know about us?

today also jeni was telling me that john really needs some help and i was like me 2; but j's like he doesn't have anybody. and later on i was feeling so stressed out i was like i really need him; but it seems like he needs someone too. so help me out here. she also think that we would make a great couple. I actually trust him a lot more cuz my friend set me up with him.

also john didn't start dating until he was out of high school


wow this seems really complicated .. but ima do myh best to help you out with it - i think you need to spend a little bit more time with him before you make the decision to start seeinq him exclusively .. i think that riqht now you and him are just beinq friends - to me aqe doesnt really matter talk to him about that one .. i wouldnt worry to much about it its not that biq of an aqe difference id be worried if he was like 25 and you were like 15 lol .. i dnt think your parents need to know about him myh parents still dnt noe about half of myh boyfriends its up to you if you want to tell them or not .. qood luck with this hunn nd if you need anymore help drop one in myh box =)

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I read the advice you gave to someone about giving your mom a locket with a pic of both of you in it do you know where I could get something like that at and how to put the pics in there and like how u get them small enough to fit in there.

thanx

XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21

you can qet one at like wal*mart there like 25$ nd there really preddie nd there real .. to qet the pics in there you use a picture that your faces are small in and cut them out nd i shaped mine into little hearts nd made them a size that would fit into the locket then you just put them in it =)

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ok so im goin to a halloween party thrown by one of my friends from a different school.so all the ppl from her school r goin and they are all like slutty ppl. (REALLY HOT GUUYS!) so i want to dress like them this once. So i was wondering if any of yall had some sexy costume ideas?(i dont have a lot of money so i was gonna use mostly my stuff) THNKS

wear a minny skirt nd a tube top nd curl your hair nd do your make up really qood nd wear fishnet stockinqs nd stilletos - thats what im doen nd evryone sed its a qood idea =)

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me and my bf recently slept together and now i fink i mite be pregnant but im wondering can somebody under 16 have an abortion whitout their parents knowind thanx

you need to see if your preqnant first nd if you are then no you cnt qet one without them knowinq you have to be 18 for them not to know .. qood luck

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what gets nail polish off besides nail polish remover. lol

you can use rubbinq alcohol .. or put clear over it nd rub it off riqht away =)

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My friend and i used to be really close but lately shes been ignoreing me alot and its really hurtin my feelings.. what should i do!

tell her you need to talk to her .. call her ; IM her ; or do it in person - tell her whats on your mind - you 2 need to talk about it - hope i helped =)

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how do you clear an entire memory stick on most digital cameras? how can i get to it? i have a Sony Cyber Shot (if that matters)

i have the same camera - qo to menu ; delete ; delete all ; yes =) leave one in the box if you need anythinq else =)

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what is the difference between seeing some one and being boyfriend girlfriend with them?

the difference is that when your seeinq someone you havent made the decision to be with that person exclusively that means you can qo on dates with other people nd it wouldnt be cheatinq nd beinq someones boyfriend//qirlfriend would mean that you are with that person only =) hope i helped

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i usually get my period around the 19, 20, 21st. 2days teh 22nd nd i ahvent gotten it yet, im sure i will ne day noww, -ima virgin if tha helps= my ? is bcuz im sick i ahvea cold can that effect your perios? nd what other factors can cause ur period 2 come on differnt days?

dnt worry about it .. sometimes mine doesnt come for up to 2 months seriously theres nothinq to worry about =)

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ok how do you get your hair to look like wet but wavy or well not wavy but i dont know! well if you have any idea on what i'm talking about how do you get your hair to look liek that? thanx!

ok you qet outta the shower - towel dry your hair so its damp nd you use mouse . qel . hairspray nd you like use your hands to i quess scrunch your hair nd it makes it look wet nd curly =)

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Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody...

hookinq up can be like qoen out with a boyy .. or it could mean havinq sex

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