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Death = Love?
Ok, my dad just died from lung cancer on Tuesday. My friend who me and him have been really really good friend, with some benefits, for almost a year now, asked me to hang out with him yesterday, and he asked me out while we were hanging out. I said yes but Im worried that, 1. hes gonna cheat on me and our friendship is gonna be over (cause he is quite flirty with girls at times) and i dont wanna lose him as a friend cause i really need him around during this time in my life and that 2. idk if he just asked me out cause he feels bad about me because I just lost my dad. HELP!!!
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well first..im sorry tht your dad died..2nd i hadda friend that dad died..this one kkid asked her out and i think it was cuz he felt abd cuz i mean they were close at first but then like he dumped her..i mean like if you go out w/ him..make her hes like really in love..cuz if he not you dont wanna make your lyfe harder then it already is..tell him tht you really need him just to b a best friend and wen things clear uyp..and he still feels the same way..then you guys can go out and then tht will show if he really does like you..
hope i helped!
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First off I'm very sorry about your dad... that's a really tragic thing to have to go through..
Secondly... I really wouldn't worry about the guy cheating on you.. it sounds like you have an awesome friend and boyfriend... He most likely realized how much he cares about you now that he's been helping you through this stuff and he wants to take it to a new level. I would give him the benefit of the doubt for now and just be thankful you have someone like him in your life...
Hope I helped! If you need anymore help with anything just drop me one in my inbox or im me..
~Lana
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tell him u wanna wait a wile cuz of all of the emotions that u have in ur head rite now...if hes ur friend then hell b there to comfort u ne ways...and u neva no when u start to fell betta make it obevous and give him another chance...hope i helped hun
xoxo
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Well you could talk to him and ask him if him asking you out has anything to do with your dad. If he says in some small way then be like ok well you dont need to. tell him how you need someone for emotional suport in your time of need and how you dont want to jeperdise your friendship. if he is a really good bestfriend then you might consider telling him that you dont want things to ever be weird and not take things on that level...well i hope i helped in some small way:)
-Lisa
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first of all im really sorry about your fathers death. maybe u should break up with the boy so you can have time to yourslef and try to make things better and whenu get more used to the situation (aboutu ur father) then u should go out with him. ur family really needs tyou ryte now and i think u need them so just stay friends with the boy because if he does cheat and stuff, then u dont need that on ur mind uve already gone through enough so0 like i said just stay friends with him untill u feel that u are ready to move on and start dating again.
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Sweetie, I'm super sorry about your dad. Right now going out with a guy is NOT going to solve your problems, and I totally agree that you need a good friend in your time of need. I think you need to give him a "Sorry, but this incident has really shook me up. I need sometime alone." If he’s your friend, he'll understand and potentially leave you alone. Hope I helped! ~*Jenni*~
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if your worried that he is qonna cheat on you nd if that is all your qonna think about then you shouldnt be with him and you definitly shouldnt be with him if your afraid of ruininq your friendship .. =) hope i helped
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wow if he even has the nerve to break up with you at this really really really sad part of your life, then he is so LOW its unbelievable. maybe committing to just a friendship is the best thing to do right now. if he cheats on you hes not worth it!
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I think you should talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Tell him that you want an exclusive relationship and if he isn't ready for that then he needs to tell you now.
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Well i doubt he`z just qoinq wit you becuz he feeLsz bad 4 you. Alllll quysz flirt,but at the end of the day they aLwayz thinkin about that One qirl they reaLLy like..i ThinK yOu shOuld qive him a try aNd sinCe yOur reLatiOnshiP' is buiLt oN a frieNdship yOu can bE abLe to ask hiM these ThinqS`z. qOod Luck qirL! -Tiffany
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hey..well since you two are really good friends..talk about it..tell him how your feeling and tell him when you need him or just need some space..he should listen...if he really cares..and dont worrie about the girls...you should know him well enough that he would do that...he a guy..thats someting guys do..but they always come back home...that is if hes not this asshole of a friend..but i would worrie about it..just keep him close and always talk to him about wuts on your mind..the more you to talk about tings then it should all go well..k..well good luck wit it..you naw mean? peace!
--PinoyBoi
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