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well i have this prob with the boy im goin oout with ...we've beem goin out for about 5 days now..or more...but the thing is that he never calls me and ..he always has me callin him...im not afard to ask him why its just i dont know how .....so plz help me
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umm i cant tell you why he wouldnt do it but my boyfriends bestfriend broke up with his girlfriend because she never called him and he would always have to call her ..he said it should be 50-50..just be like "hey why am i always callin you..it makes me happy when you call me" or some shit like that ..lol..not soo corny tho
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First off, he's a guy. The last thing that guys wants to do is be on the phone. Second off, he's probably cheap, in other words his family has a crappy phone plan and it costs money for him to call people. Guys HATE being on the phone. Well at least all of the ones I know. Try this, don't call him for a day or two and see what happens. If he calls you and asks "Why haven't you called?" say, "Why haven't YOU called?" Then he'll have to explain to you why he hasn't called. Problem solved. Hope this helped.
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MAYBE HE THINKS THAT IT WILL AGRIVATE U IF HE CALLS U SO HE DONT BOTHER. ANOTHER THING THAT IS HARD TO ACCEPT ISS THAT HE ISNT THAT INTEREDTED IN YOU(NOT TRYING TO BE MEAN BBUT IT COULD BNE POSSIBLE) SO JUST TLAK TO HIM AND TELL HIM THAT U WANT TO HEAR FROM HIM MORE INSTEAD OF YOU MAKING ALL THE EFFORT TO GET IN TOUCH WITH HIM, IF YOU DONT CUMMUNICATE WITH THE BOY THEN HE WONT KNOW THAT SOMETHINGS WRONG SO JUST TLK TO HIM!!
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he probaly has something going on
just tell him from your heart and he'll tell you
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maybe hes afraid to call your house bcuz your parents or sister//brother miqht answer and he doesnt wanna be like '`is _____ there'` lol or maybe he doesnt know how to start a conversation - who knows talk to him about it ..
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Nex time he brings up that he wants to you to call him tell him that you are busy and you'll probably get distracted with what your doing, and that he should call you when he gets a chance. Or another approach is that next time he tells you to call him jokingly make a comment about it but have some seriousness to it, so he gets the idea but its not too harsh. i hope this helped :)
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if he tells u to call him again just say..u call me this time but dont say it in a mean way
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Nex time he brings up that he wants to you to call him tell him that you are busy and you'll probably get distracted with what your doing, and that he should call you when he gets a chance. Or another approach is that next time he tells you to call him jokingly make a comment about it but have some seriousness to it, so he gets the idea but its not too harsh. i hope this helped :)
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maybe he just wants you to call cuz he's afraid to start a conversation or just doesn't know how to start one! but ask him the next time u call him y he doesn't call u!
*BeSs*
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Well instead of asking him why he doesnt, be like "Hey, can you call me today" and if he doesnt call then ask him why hes not calling. Maybe he thinks he doesnt need to call cuz u'll call him.
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