hey im jessica and i just thought it would be a good idea to give advice because i like it when i need advice and someone is there to help me out and im sure i can answer most questions i hope my advice helps!
Gender: Female
Age: 13
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alright. for about two years i have been cutting myself. and at first it was very innocent (little scratches with saftey pins... butter knifes, things like that) then one day i ginaed access to a really sharp razor blade and cut extremely deep. and for a year and a half thats how i have been doing it, because it is so addictive. more than once a day, and so i can go to sleep at night. most of my friends found out, one way or another and eventually my best friend got me to tell the guidance counselor. my dad now knows, and so does my psychiatrist (whom i have been seeing since I was 8 and my mom died). but i know he doesnt want me doing it, and niether do my friends. so latelyt i havent. but things got worse. im always pissed off at everyone, and lash out. also, i have been thinking about suicide more and more. i always considered it before but never like this. but when i talk to my friends, all the do is beg and pleed with me to stop. I CANT. when i was on the bus, i started tasting blood in my mouth, and noticed I had been bitting a chunk of my lip off as a pain reliever involuntarily. last night, I cut again and felt SOOO much better. but im so afraid someone will find out and be angry. im on medicine, and everything, it just sux. snapping rubberbands, and all that doesnt help. I know this is long, but im so upset with myself, I just dont know.
I rate 5s.
Manda. (link)
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im sorry if this sounds mean but thats horrible....im not trying to sound like your friends and all but you need to stop!!!i dont know what to say to you to try and get you to stop...my friend used to do that and i know how your friends probibly feel and i know its like well....i cant talk to my friends about this because they just nag at me but you are keeping all of your emotions inside and that only makes it worse but if you need someone to talk to im here i wont nag at you either i just think its easier to talk to someone you dont know because i wont judge me...you dont have to rate me 5 if my advice wasnt good.
~!jessica!~
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My dad can be kinda strict about things like paintball.i really want an aerosal gun(like a bb gun,but shoots plastic pellet),but they are more dangerous than paintball guns.but lately my dad has been letting me do that stuff, but he was kinda angry about me watching a movie with nudity.how should i ask him for an aerosal gun?should i even ask? (link)
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well ok i think you should just try to act more responsible around him and dont break the rules!good luck!!
~!jessica!~
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how can i give up the foods i love like ice cream, dots, and soda. i've tried so hard but i cant, whats an easy way? (link)
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maybe you can try eating more healthier foods without auctually giving them up totally or try finding better foods that are healthier for you and try getting hooked on those
~jessica~
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im 11 and i way 120 puonds. its really hard for me to keep up a normal body wait especially in the summer. all my friends are skinny and ive been really self concious lately. is there any way that i can loose15 or 25 pounds by september??
thanx
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that is exactaly what happed to me you need to eat right ant exiersize
~jessica~
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What are some good snacks? I'm trying to stay away from packaged snacks or sugary snacks. (link)
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ice cream! lol jkjk like sald or sumthing heathy
~jessica~
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My friend just told me today.. that she ALWAYS throws up after she eats. As much as I'd love to help her, I just dunno what to say. Cuz she might get mad. I don't want anything bad to happen to her. The past couple days shes been telling me that shes been haveing bad stomach pains and she feels sick ALL THE TIME. I wanna help her, I don't wanna make her mad and say the wrong thing though. Should I just forget about it, and let her live her life the way she wants it? What would you do? Please I need help.. =(
*amYy.. my AIM sn is NaInErZzZ (link)
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i dont think its very safe to just forget about it because um like she could die so like i think u should tell some one
~jessica~
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i really dont know if i should go out with the guy alex ok he asked me out on the last day of school and i said yes cause iREALLY REALLY like him and he just moved t myfriends old house and now he moved closer to my dad and i havent talked to him all summer because he wasnt aloud to giveout his number and he didnt have a computer i jus saw him a couple days ago and im going to be moving and i really dont wanna dump him and i dont know if i should stay with him when i move i wanna stay with him whats your advice
*~your friend~* Brianna (link)
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i tink its better to break up with him sooner than later because then it wil hurt less and it dosent seem to serious
~jessica
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im 11 and i way 110 puonds. its really hard for me to keep up a normal body wait especially in the summer. all my friends are skinny and ive been really self concious lately. is there any way that i can loose10 or 15 pounds by september??
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ok i think you should start exiersizeing more and i thought i was fat but the only reason i think that is because i have sway back so i do wall squats ad sit ups a push ups and go to the gym and work out and maybe you should eat right
~jessica~
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I'm having some troubles getting guys to come up to me and start a conversation. How do I get them to start talking to me more?
Signed,
Guy Troubles (link)
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i think that you should go up to them and start talking!
~jessica~
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another poem yall
I look in the mirror
But what do I see
The person I look at
Isn’t the real me
No one knows
What I want to see
Someone that loves
Some one that hates
Someone who isn’t just the someone
That everyone thinks is me
another
Who is louder our hearts or our minds
When it comes time to decide what do we find
We listen closely but it is hard to tell
Almost as if they are two little bells
But which one masks the other
It is so hard to hear
Why should we even bother
It will only cause a tear
another
I shiver in the heat of the day
I wish I could just get away
I have these dreams at night
I don’t even try to fight
For this feeling isn’t something I can escape
Now my heart is out of shape
I can’t run of hide
From these thoughts inside
You will stay there forever
Giving up never
You torture me day and night
Because this will never be right
one more
I shiver in the heat of the day
I wish I could just get away
I have these dreams at night
I don’t even try to fight
For this feeling isn’t something I can escape
Now my heart is out of shape
I can’t run of hide
From these thoughts inside
You will stay there forever
Giving up never
You torture me day and night
Because this will never be right
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that was good you definately have talent!
~jessica~
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well my frend.. she likes my boii frend.. but she got uss toghether.. and now she wants to breakuss up!! and even tho my boiifrend sed that hell love me 4 ever and that he wont cut me cuz of her.. im still afraid what shood i do/?? 4give my frend.. or hate her for ever
*i rate*
Xoo.HEL:P ME!! (link)
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ok well i think you should talk to her and if all goes well then you should forgive her
~jessica~
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I waz talkin on da phone with him...& i wuz about to he off....& he said ok iloveyou i paused 4 a min. & i didn`t want to hurt him so i said it back...but i totally didn`t mean it....i take iloveyou very serious!thats not the first time he has said that wut should i do?
~Joyful~ (link)
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you should talk to him about how you feel
~jessica~
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Ok, Well, my hamster Cocoa is acting very sick latley. I love him so much and would do and thing for him. He seems to be shaking almost and sneezing/sqeaking and i think he might even be trying to cough! He is now forming this crust around his nose and just a lil around his nose. I'm so worried about him, does any one know what sickness this could be or how i should handle this? (link)
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you should definately take him to the vet because its better to be sure than not know
~jessica~
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me and my bf have been goin out for 4 months and like ive kissed him numerous just on the cheek cuz im afraid if i kiss him on the lips he wont kiss me back and ive talked to him about it and he says he doesnt know why he told me he loves me-and i really think he means it and doesnt kiss me...he just doesnt...and hes kissed all his other gf....and i really REALLY do love him- *I RATE* (link)
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ink that you shoukld go for t becauseyou never knowtill you try!
~jessica~
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i got my belly button periced 2 weeks ago . well i was cleaning it last night and this morning and i noticed white puss coming out of it . i dont know if this is normal , so can anyone who actually knows about this sorta stuff help me . thanx so much (link)
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its fine because when my sister got hers done it pussed alot too and my mom (woh has hers pierced also)said that that was normal and not to worry just to let it like heal
~jessica~
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my neighbor and i are really really good frineds and everytime i am around him i feel like the world has just stopped and i get this werid feelin inside of me do u think i like him (link)
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i think you like him
~jessica~
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I just moved into my new house and I want my room to be really cute! Do you have any ideas on decorating it? ThAnKs! (link)
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put alot of color into it and just be yourself when you are decorating because then you will like it better because its more you then cool
~jessica~
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ok here's the thing i hav this rlly gourgeous sister and everyone tells me omg ur sister's so hot ....... u dont looko like her. i am constantly comparing myself to her like weight and clothes and sports.she is super skinny im not saying im fat or anything cuz im not
but still she can get any guy she wants i can it always seems that she's better than me. (link)
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ok i am totally in the same situation and all that you can really do is tough it out because in the end you still know that you have your own friends and that when people bring her up just try to change the subject of like say something like um...do we have to talk about her right now? i hope i helped beause i have the same problem
~jessica~
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hey, i asked a question earlier today about weight loss and i got seme really awesome answers... but most of them said to try doing crunches... but i don't know how to do them. (link)
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crunches are just half sit ups where your hands are behind your head
~jessica~ rate me please?
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I've had this one friend "Helen" since 5th grade. I just met "Sarah" this year, and we became really good friends. For some reason , Helen is being such a mean you-know-what to Sarah. She's called her a h** and said she did something with another kid, which is SOOOOOOO not true. Helen doesn't even know Sarah, and she's talking about her. What am I supposed to do?? I don't want to get caught in the middle of this argument. (link)
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you should all sit down and talk about why they are fighting because it could be for the better and if the issue isn't resolved then tell them that you dont wanna be stuck in the middle!
~jessica~
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