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ok here's the thing i hav this rlly gourgeous sister and everyone tells me omg ur sister's so hot ....... u dont looko like her. i am constantly comparing myself to her like weight and clothes and sports.she is super skinny im not saying im fat or anything cuz im not
but still she can get any guy she wants i can it always seems that she's better than me.
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My friend has the exact same problem. Just remember that everyone is themselves. And it doesnt matter if youre skinny or not, or how many guys you get. You shouldnt compare yourself to other people because you are who you are. so remember that next time =)
Hope I helped you!
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ok first of all shes not better than u r. i no exactly wut u feel like to. just be ur self. just blow everyone who says that stuff to u off. who cares about them any ways....
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dont let it get to you, i bet your a beautiful girl just try and look good, when you grow up hey you may even look like her :)
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noone is better then anyone, just remember that. Tell your sister. Maybe hang out with her more, if it's attention from guys your wantin, but just remember that she isnt better then you, just be yourself the guys will come ;)
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Its kinda like Daria and Quinn, you know the show "Daria"....? Anyhoo, don't keep comparing yourself to her. Admire her for her beauty, but don't be jealous and don't try to imitate her, you are your own person. I'm sure ther are some good qualities about yourself, just let them shine brightly. To get even better advice, watch "Daria", it comes on Noggin, she would know what to do. *lol*
Victoria
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ok i am totally in the same situation and all that you can really do is tough it out because in the end you still know that you have your own friends and that when people bring her up just try to change the subject of like say something like um...do we have to talk about her right now? i hope i helped beause i have the same problem
~jessica~
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Gurl,. y0u need to be y0u,. maybe y0u can be even prettier than her,. Just be yourself- maybe change your style around or whatever. DOnt compare yourself to your sis,. than it will give her the idea that she is better than you,. which anit tru,. maybe she has a flirty attiude with boys ,.. n thats why they like her soo much.. =) good luck!! ratE me.!
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Don't try to be someone your not and that includes your sister. There's a reason why you and your sister and two completely different people because the world doesn't need two of the same person. Just show your indivuality and you'll soon meet that special guy that will love you for who YOU are. .xOx. MaC
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Even the prettiest girl can't get every guy she wants. I'm sure you do look like her, because after all you guys are sisters. People use to say that about me and my sisters. They would say I don't look like them, now all of a sudden I look like them! lol. Its crazy. I don't see it but they do. But, you can't compare yourself to your sister, that won't get you anywhere. And I'm sure you're gorgeous too, you just have to confident in yourself, and put yourself out there. And don't be someone you're not because you don't want a guy to fall in love with someone you're not. So be yourself and if you won't try getting advice from your sister. And she's not better than you either. You just have to be positive and you have to like yourself for who you are. So go out and have fun!! =D Because comparing yourself to your sister won't get you anywhere, you have to have fun in life and meet guys! lol. So don't bring yourself down girl! lol
xoxo Kourtney
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hi, well b thankful wit wut ur mamma gave u ...there are guys that wont think ur sis is hot...n there are guys that will like u more then ur sis...plus looks aint everything...personality is the one that counts more :)....just b u...get ur style...ur own clothes ur everything...b unique...b ur own :) wear somethin u like not something that ur sis likes ;) hope i helped xoxo effy
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*well i think its ok to think that i mean i thought that about my sister* u just have to b proud u have a sister that is pretty and try getting some advices from her*
<3alwayz,
*Anggie*
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ok. u kno wut? shes NOT better than u. she sjust different. and she prob cant get 'everi' guy she wants, cuz no 1 can. i do that to myself all the time to. i compare myself to my best friend. and so wut if she gets alot of guys? ur u. and thats better than being super skinny, or "ggorgeous" or athletic or w/e. im sure u have ur own thing that boys like you for too-- you just dont kno it yet. so dont worry, ur fine. and eventually ull find a guy who perfect for u. i kno it. i hope i helped and if u have ani more problems, im here. lol.
~lizzie
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OMG I know how you feel! But anyways you just gotta know that people will like you for you, and not for trying to look like your sister. Don't be anyone but yourself cuz that's true beauty there! plz rate me and I hope I helped!
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