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torn
I've had this one friend "Helen" since 5th grade. I just met "Sarah" this year, and we became really good friends. For some reason , Helen is being such a mean you-know-what to Sarah. She's called her a h** and said she did something with another kid, which is SOOOOOOO not true. Helen doesn't even know Sarah, and she's talking about her. What am I supposed to do?? I don't want to get caught in the middle of this argument.
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Tell her that you dont like it when people talk behind peoples back and you dont like to her people talk about your friends exspeacially and you would say the same to sarah if she was doing the same to helen-trix
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talk to "helen" and ask her why shes talking bad about "sarah"! don't be mean about it and say that it really hurts sarah and you don't like it too much but you're not madd at her! good luck!
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you should all sit down and talk about why they are fighting because it could be for the better and if the issue isn't resolved then tell them that you dont wanna be stuck in the middle!
~jessica~
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Try talking to Helen (alone) and just telling her that Sarah isn't really like that. Just ask her why she doesn't like her. Helen may be jealous of Sarah because she may think that Sarah is stealing you away from her or something and by being mean to Sarah, you'll realize that Sarah is a H** when really she isn't. So try talking to Helen and seeing whats up with her and why she doesn't like Sarah. Just be like "Do you have something against Sarah?" And then go from there. And after you are done talking to her about it and she still continues to be mean to Sarah, I guess the only thing to do is give her, her own taste of medicine lol. Good luck
xoxo Kourtney
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Sounds to me that she is jealous because maybe your spending more time with sarah than her and she feels rejected so it brings her ate and anger,. spend some time with both of them so you guys wont get in arugments anymore,. hope i helped
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I know this may sound mean, but i would give helen a taste of her own medicine. make her feel how she is making sarah feel. at least let her see how much it hurts. i had the same problem and my best friend turned into a mean person to my new friend. Itold her to stop or she would'nt be my b- friend n e more.so she stoped. i also showed her how she made my new friend feel.
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I think you need to talk to Helen, I know how it is to become good friends with a new person and the other person gets mad. You should tell her that all 3 of you should hang out so she can get to know sarah better. get them to be friends and if things dont work out tell the both of them that you dont want to get caught in the middle.
-holly-
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it sounds like helen is a little jealous of your friendship with sarah. i think you need to confront helen and ask her why she is really doing this. if helen can't be cool with your new friend or at least cool with you being her friend, helen doesn't deserve to have you as a friend still.
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she is jelous dats it ...talk to her n tell her that no metter wut u guys will still b friends...tell her to stop hating...n to respect ur friends just like u respect hers...xoxo effy good luck
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Dear Torn,
It maybe that Helen is afraid of losing you as a friend!! What you need to do is talk to her and tell her that you and her will be friends forever and Sarah will not be a threat to your relationship as friends!! YOU MUST TELL HER THIS!! Let me know what happens!!
From,
Advice Mistress
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Ask "Helen" why she says all that stuff about "Sarah" see what's going on with that.. Tell "Helen" that "Sarah" isn't a bad person and she shouldn't be so mean...
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It's obvious "Helen" is extremely jealous. Have you tried talking to her?? Let her know there's nothing to be jealous of, and there's no reason why she shouldn't be open to getting to know "Sarah".
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