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Can Anyone Help Me?
I'm having some troubles getting guys to come up to me and start a conversation. How do I get them to start talking to me more?
Signed,
Guy Troubles
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hi....well u need to dress up more sexy...put some make up..fix ur hair like everyday :) give dat perfect look out more often ;) xoxo effy
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Be confident in yourself... make eye contact and smile :)
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Guys are kind of weird. A lot of the time they are really shy! And they wait for YOU to come up to them first. Maybe after they get comfortable talking to you they will start coming to you instead of you going to them... Sometimes us girls just gotta take charge! Good luck
-holly-
Hope i helped
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If you feel comftorble with guys being around you then just walk up to them and say like a joke or start talking about something he just says. Try and find out what he likes to do. If you don't really like approching guys then just be yourself talk to your friends just wait they will approch you. If you are scared of apporching them don't worry they are just guys.. they wont bite.. well some of them won't! I hope it works.. good luck <3 JessaMaria
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i think that you should go up to them and start talking!
~jessica~
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why are you waiting for them to come up to you? why dont you just talk to them. if you make the first move, you show them that you are confident and that is majorly hot.
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i think the easiest way to start talking to a guy (especially one you don't know) is to be outgoing, even if it's by acting a little weird cuz it'll at least give you something to talk about ~ for example, one time i went up to a guy and told him he had the same shoes as my brother; another example is to get the guys opinion on something ~ like if me and my friend are arguing about which movie is better i'll go up and ask him "isn't zoolander waaaay better than the goonies?" lol
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I'm not answering this because I want to get rated lol. But, when you notice a hot guy or whatever. Just look at them and just smile and give them that look or whatever. And keep looking over there so they get the hint for them to come over and start a conversation. Just give them that like flirty look or whatever. Hope this helped. Good luck!
xoxo Kourtney
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well if they dont come to you then you couls always go to them .. then maybe after a while they will come and start talking to you
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make eye contact and smile at them so they can tell you noticed them. if he cant seem to start up the conversation then you should go ahead and go for it. Just ask him typicall questions and find out what are his intrests.
*hope i helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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Make yourself really hott..be at like every event..act wild..and w/e you do don't got up to a guy and flit and don't go up to um and make convosation...trust me girl all the guys be tryin to getcha
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make people laugh!!!! strike up a conversation...but dont be shy whatever you do!!!!! otherwise guys will think your weird or something and we both know your not!! hehe....just whatever you hear them talking about kinda chime in and also do stuff to grab their attention....were cute clothes and just kinda flirt!! hehe
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I would say definitely make good eye contact. Once they see you...smile and then look away. Every so often look back and glance away. Show that your interested and you won't reject them if they come up to you. I'm sure they'll start a conversation with you! hope i helped xo
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dear guy troubles,
it seems like guys are shy around you. that's good that gives you an edge. lol. you just have to make the first move. be assertive! just go up and start chattin. they will come around.
GOOD LUCK *~~~shana~~~*
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Catch their eye and smile so they know you've noticed them, and sometimes they'll come over and introduce themselves and start talking.
Or, *you* could start up a conversation with one of them if you're brave. =o)
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