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Well he said I love you.....
I waz talkin on da phone with him...& i wuz about to he off....& he said ok iloveyou i paused 4 a min. & i didn`t want to hurt him so i said it back...but i totally didn`t mean it....i take iloveyou very serious!thats not the first time he has said that wut should i do?
~Joyful~
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Just tell him you didnt mean what you said and you just got scarred out of the reaction-trix
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You be honest and say I'm not ready to say that yet. If you say what you don't mean,that leads him on,and leads to a nasty breakup later.
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i had sort of the same problem. i had a boyfreind that told me he loved me everytime i said good bye practicly even though i only knew him for less then 24 hours. that relationship lasted about 5 days. unless you really love him dont say it back. instead say something sexy like " i know", as a joke or something, laugh about it with him and change the subject. then, later if you really feel strongly about him say yes or even tell him first, it will drive him wild hehe.
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well really it kind of depends on ur age
if ur under 16, and he is too, then yall or atleast him don't kno wut the meaning of i love you is
u need to be honest, just say sumthin like i care for u, but im nor ready to say LOVE, it means wanna be wit u forever, it means would die w.o u, it means so much and im not ready to say it
sumthin like that
i take the manin of love serious, but when i say it, whoever i say it to knows that i don't mean LOVE i just mean love, as in CARE ABOUT STRONGLY, like my bf joel, i just say it meaning i truly care, he means it the same way
u could use the small love instead of the BIG LOVE
if u get wut i mean
sry, this seems as if it's really confusin
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be honest and tell him how you feel
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you should have called him back. and been like "i'm sorry but i dont feel that way. i dont want to mislead you or hurt you at all.im sorry."
hope i helped <3 <3 <3
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I think you should be honest. Why lie because when they find out u didnt mean it itll just be worse. Tell him how you feel
ex. "That day you said u loved me and i said it back but i dont think its fair to you that i lie maybe we should be more careful and actually mean what we say but ..."
so just try really hard to explain if he gets mad then he need some time. He might get over it and if he dosent then you should explain what those 3 words mean to you.
-Jacky
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Joyful...Love is something that u dont wanna cross its a very strong word so dont say if u dont mean it cuz if u start sayin it and u guys break up or stop talkin u and him will be sersiously hurting and just tell him that ur not ready to say iloveyu and tell him i dont wanna say it til i mean it good luck
Tracy
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you should talk to him about how you feel
~jessica~
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You should talk to him. Be like "well you know the other night when you said I love you, and I said it back.. well I didnt mean it fully. I ment that I like you a lot. But I dont think we love each other." and just tell him straight up. He should understand. and I doubt he truely ment it as well he probably thinks he loves you but i doubt he really does.
-holly-
hope i helped
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well the next time he tells you he loves you ask him how can he love you what is that makes himm love you and does he really mean it or is he just saying that cause that is what he thinks you want to hear
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If you don't mean it you definately SHOULD NOT say it. I love you means ALOT of different things. You should definitely tell him this makes you uncomfortable. I know you don't want to hurt him. But honesty is the best policy. Just tell him you like him alot and you want to continue dating him but your not ready to say i love you yet. And when you are .. if you are you will say so.
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Well maybe he thinks he Loves you. Just say "wuv" and not Love to him. If he Ask why just say that you think wuv is cute or you just like to say it.
--Julie
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When you're on the phone with him again just be like "I take I LOVE YOU very seriously and when I said it I didn't want to hurt you so I said it back, but I'm not ready to say it yet and when I am then I'll tell you, I hope you understand" Just tell him the truth and how you feel about saying I love you. Good luck and hope this helps!
xoxo Kourtney
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Tell him you arent ready to say i love you yet and tell him that it means something to you and you dont want to say something you dont feel and that you are sorry
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