OK, me and my best guy friend went out a few months ago and he broke up with me and we went out again like 2 weeks ago n i found out he had two other girlfriends and had sex with someone else..so i broke up with him. Now, we're just friends but, we're having sex. I want the relationship to be more than just screwing around because i love him so much. But, he's a player. I don't know what to do. I mean we like each other but I don't wanna go out with him and I don't really like us just being friends with benifits. I don't know what to do. Should I stop this and just be best friends like we used to be or keep messing around with him?? -cOnFuSeD**
*Honestly you need to stop whats going on because if you keep this going its only going to hurt you more and more! I understand you like him a lot and i know its hard to let go when you love someone but you need to! You just need to go back with being best friends! If hes a player and he cheated on you then its really not even worth trying to keep starting over because more then likely the same thing will happen and you will just get hurt! If he really liked you he wouldnt cheat on you and hurt you because thats not even right to do and you dont deserve that! And since your giving in he might only be saying he likes you because you are having sex with him and thats what he wants! Im not saying thats what it is for sure but that might be a possibility! I think the best thing for you is just to be friends again because it will be better for you in the long run and will stop you a lot of heart break! hOpE i HeLpEd! =)* xOxO Kaela
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ok well i just wana know how you make out wit someone, like my friends tould me that it comes natural but would if i mess up? i dont know so please HELP me!
thanxs a bunch!
*Theres not really any right way to make out with someone! Like your friends said it just comes natural! All you do is massage your tounge with the other persons and follow the lead of them! Don't worry about messing up! Theres no right or wrong way to make out! gOoD lUcK* xOxO Kaela
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me and my bf have been goin out for 4 months and like ive kissed him numerous just on the cheek cuz im afraid if i kiss him on the lips he wont kiss me back and ive talked to him about it and he says he doesnt know why he told me he loves me-and i really think he means it and doesnt kiss me...he just doesnt...and hes kissed all his other gf....and i really REALLY do love him- *I RATE*
*Just take chances and go for it! Guys aren't always the ones to make the first move! And sometimes they like the girl to make the first move! He might be just as shy as you! Maybe just peck him and don't do anything else just yet! If he kisses you back then that's awesome, but if not then don't worry about it but ask him why! Eventually it will happen, so don't worry about it! gOoD lUcK!* xOxO Kaela
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i love you Kay!!
xOxO Angelina
*I love you too Angelina =)* xOxO Kaela
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major problem! my best friend(3 years) hates my boyfriend(2 years)it just happend she just started hating him...he thinks she has to much drama in her life..and she hates how he has an attitude...she gets mad that he doesnt let me go 2 partys with her..but i mean i dont blame him what should i do i can so tell shes really starting to hate him shes always talking about him to me like that makes me feel really bad
*It's wrong that your boyfriend doesn't let you go to parties with your best friend so i understand why shes upset! You shouldn't put your boyfriend before your friend because guys just come and go and friends last forever! They may not like eachother, but they have to respect you! You can hang out with who ever you want to and they have to accept that! Maybe you should tell them how you feel about this situation and tell them how they are acting! If you wanna hang out with your best friend then do it and if you wanna hang out with your boyfriend do it! You can hang out with whoever you want to!* xOxO Kaela
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Well im 16 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together for 14 months and our love for each other is stronger than you could ever believe. Around our 11 month anniversary we lost our virginity to each other. I honestly don't regret it but im starting to believe that we are too young. I love him more than anything and it scares me how much i love him sometimes. Do you think we are too young to have this kind of relationship ?
*Nope, your never to young to be in love! Age is just a number! It's great that you love someone so much and you have no regrets about losing your virginity! I understand that your scared because of how much you love him, but thats natural! Just don't worry about anything!* xOxO Kaela
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my best friend is a guy and we've gone out twice but i've been talking to him alot and i'm starting to like him again but after we broke up last time i told my self we would just be friends but i don't know now. what should i do should i tell him try to forget about it or what
*If he is your best friend it should be pretty easy to talk to him! Just tell him how you feel! If you don't later in life you might regret it! It is okay to go for a guy several times! A lot of times some of your best boyfriends start out by being your best friends! You apparently really like him and have feelings for him so just give it another shot! If thinks don't work out then they don't, but everything has a reason for happening! Just follow your heart* xOxO Kaela
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i still love this guy very much..we went out for a year then broke up b/c things werent working out at the time... and now he might be dating my best friend. she told him she doesnt like me now,some freind huh? i still like him so much.. i never knew how much until he was gone.. i only broke up with him b/c he gave me lots of attitude sometimes, and he hung out with his freinds more then he did with me.. i felt like i was a nobody. we barely ever saw eachother and he called me like only like once every 2 weeks..and i got sick of it...but now i regret doing it..we used to so alot of things together.. i dont know why i love him so much.. and it pisses me off so much b/c him and my best freind... i love him.. :-( now him and my best freind are gonna hit it off, i just feel so bad and upset.. i never knew how much i really liked him.. he told me later in the future we would work it out.. but i don't see that happening.. they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.. he loved me soo much he claimed, and even his mom told me..but all those little things added up and made me break up with him... can u help me out?? i dont know what to do? your prolly gonna tell me to get over it but i cant.. he is all i think about 24/7 and i get depressed.. well thanks alot...
*Your best friend is not a friend at all! She's a total backstabber so just forget about her and find a new best friend that wouldn't do that to you because that is not right at all! Now about your ex boyfriend, I know it's hard to get over someone so i'm not going to tell you to do that! You need to tell him how you feel about this situation though! and try to do anything that you can to get him back! Start off by being friends and work your way up from there, and hopefully you guys will have a relationship! Make him want you back! If it doesn't work you might have to move on, even though i know it's a hard thing to do! But if you have to move on, you'll end up finding someone better!* xOxO Kaela
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im IN LOVE with a guy and i realli want him to like me to but he doesnt seem to care about me the way i care about him even tho he says i love u and stuff i mean i cant take it i have loved him for 2 yrs he liked me b4 but we never told eachother and i neeeeeeed him i love him soo much i cry at nite for him and everything but i dont think he gets it and im too shy to talk to him ....wut can i do?
*I know it might be hard to tell him how you feel, but if you really like this guy you need to tell him! If you don't later in life you might regret it! The only way anything will happen between you guys is if you tell him! He might be just as insecure as you! Guys don't always make the first move and he may be afraid to tell you how he feels cause he might think you don't feel the same way! It sounds like you guys like eachother but you need to find a way to talk to him about it and not be shy! You need to do this soon though before it's too late!* xOxO Kaela
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my brother just hit me so bad and it was for like no reason my whole face started bleeading he took a shoe and started hiting me with it and started pulling my hair i hate him so much..i was so close 2 calling the cops but i just couldnt wat should i do i really started hating him!
*Tell your parents right away! You don't deserve to be treated like that! What he is doing is wrong and illegal! If you don't tell someone he might think its okay to do it again, and it's not! If it happens again you might want to call the cops because if you don't you might be in a lot of danger and something serious could happen to you! I know it might be hard to do since he is your brother and all but its for the best! gOoD lUcK!!!* xOxO Kaela
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I had sex for the first time last night and I didnt bleed at all. Doesnt every girl bleed? That kinda makes me wonder.. Also, we didnt do it very long or hard so I think thats why? Just making sure Im not strange or messed up..
*Nope, not every girl bleeds! Every girl is different! Your not strange or messed up at all! It's normal not to experience bleeding so don't worry about it!* xOxO Kaela
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My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom?
*Yeah he is old enough to make his own decisions and you've gotta accept that! He should respect you for what you think, but you can't make him quit smoking or drinking because that is his choice! You aren't really being overprotective your just trying to look out for him! Just tell him how you feel and maybe he will stop for you, but if not your just going to have to accept it! GoOd LuCk* xOxO Kaela
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well theres this friend i have and i always catch her in lies. a lot of my other friends do to, so we all know she lies. i never really wanted to confront her about it, but the other day she got mad at me, and we were fighting so i told her that i noticed that she lied ALL the time, and i even gave her examples, but she still says she didn't lie. well we all know she did, because she tells us all different things. well now we're in a big fight, so i don't even think i should have brought it up in the first place becasue i hate fighting,which is why i never brought it up before. so now what should i do?
*It is a good thing that you confronted her because she needed to know how you felt! If she was a friend, she wouldn't lie to you, but maybe thats just how she is! Whenever she lies and you know it just kind of go along with it! But if you still want to be friends with her maybe you and some of your friends should talk to her about it and tell her how you feel! And if she keeps up with it just try to stay some what distant and don't hang out with her that much! She needs to realize that she doesn't need to lie and what shes doing is wrong!* xOxO Kaela
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Okay here it goes....Both of my best friends are fighting!! They continually tell me how much they hate each other!! She'll say something about him, and he'll say something about her!!! They won't stop!! I feel like I'm in the middle of this whole thing!! How can I make peace between these people? And how do I make it so I'm not in the middle of things??
Signed,
Stuck-n-Middle
*Although you want to make peace with the two it may not happen! Don't feel like you have to make this situation better! You can't make them be friends or anything, but all you can do is try to be a friend to both of them! Tell them how you feel and that you don't want to be in the middle! But one of the most important things to do is not take sides and still be friends with both of them no matter what!* xOxO Kaela
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my friend steals small things like keychains and stuff and i dont really care but she stole from me twice! i dont kno wat 2 do i dont wanna confront her cuz its been a while and i dont want her 2 get mad at me cuz she is a really good friend except for the stealing from ur friends thing... so wat should i do?
*Confront her!! If she really is your friend she shouldn't be stealing stuff from you! Even though they are just small things, it's still wrong! Friends don't steal from eachother!* xOxO Kaela
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Please tell me what you think: What is better, the truth that brings a tear? Or a lie that brings a smile?
hmm...
*The truth that brings a tear! Cause a lie that brings a smile could eventually turn into the truth and then bring tears* xOxO Kaela
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Okay.. well Ive been with my boyfriend for 16 months (on wednesday) Anyways.. he got drunk last night and cheated on me with his ex.. and he said that he didnt even mean to, he was just drunk.. and that he loved me he just wanted to take a break.. and he came back online, and we were talking.. and it was like.. we were still together.. i mean he still called me "babygirl" and said I love you when he had to leave.. what should i do? :/ Thanks!~
*Well if you really love him then stay with him! You guys have been together for 16 months, and thats a really long time! If he said he didn't mean to then more then likely he didn't! He made a mistake and we all do it! Everyone deserves at least a second chance, so just give him another chance and see what happens! But if he messes up again then you might want to leave him! Maybe you guys should take a break and see other people! If you guys were meant to be in the end you will end up back with eachother* xOxO Kaela
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Hi hey how do I get over a xbf, when I still am in love with him and he sorta likes me??? Thanks PLZ help , My life will be ruined if I dont get It. PLZ HELP THANKS
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NEed help gurl
*If he likes you and you still love him then why did you guys break up? Maybe you should try to hook back up with him and give it a 2nd chance! You guys could hang out sometime and see what happens! But if you really want to get over him then put away anything hes ever gave you and just go out and have fun with your friends! I know getting over someone is a hard thing to do, but everything will work out for the best! Don't get your self too hung up on him right now though, just let him come to you! If he comes back to you then you guys were meant to be, but if not then just move on! Don't just sit and wait for him though, go out and have fun!* xOxO Kaela
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well out of all my friends i am the only virgin. they all tell me I should lose but I am not confortible with my body and hate people seeing it i mean I am skinny but its like skin and bones. and I don't know if I am ready. I am only 15 I want to find the right guy firts but I do want to lose it everyone talks about it and i have nothing to talk about I get teased and all the stuff should i lose it and get it over with or wait tell I find Mr right please help
Signed,
VIrgin GIrl
*Don't let your friends pressure you into something that you aren't ready to do! If these people tease you they aren't your true friends anyways! Don't just go out and have sex cause everyone else is doing it! Wait for that special someone to come into your life! and wait til you are comfortable! Having sex is a big step in life so just wait til you are ready* xOxO Kaela
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ok this question doesnt really fit under the category but anyways, when you are kissing like with you tongue are you supposed be moving your lips too?
*Yeah a little bit =)* xOxO Kaela
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