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Double Trouble
Okay here it goes....Both of my best friends are fighting!! They continually tell me how much they hate each other!! She'll say something about him, and he'll say something about her!!! They won't stop!! I feel like I'm in the middle of this whole thing!! How can I make peace between these people? And how do I make it so I'm not in the middle of things??
Signed,
Stuck-n-Middle
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Tell them to stop talking smack about eachother that s/he happans to be your other best friend and you'd do the same for him/her. And tell them you dont want to be in the middle but maybe you could try to fix it by finding whats wrong and figuring the answer out for them-trix
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Dear
Stuck-n-middle
The same thing happened to me i was stuck in the middle and i hated it so much and then one day i got fedup!! and i told them...this is your guys probuly and i truly dont want to be stuck i the middle and tell them both a good time you guys had and remind them about great times!!
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Onlyme23
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Get them both together and try and solve their differences!
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*Although you want to make peace with the two it may not happen! Don't feel like you have to make this situation better! You can't make them be friends or anything, but all you can do is try to be a friend to both of them! Tell them how you feel and that you don't want to be in the middle! But one of the most important things to do is not take sides and still be friends with both of them no matter what!* xOxO Kaela <3
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tell them that your not taking a side and to get over their fight! its not fair to be stuck in the middle!!
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first off, why are they fighting? is it just a silly arguement or something big. did they used to be best friends too, or are they just mutual friends of yours? i think i would tell both of them that you can't be associated with such malicious people and aren't going to be talking to them until they are civil. seriously, just stay away from both of them.. they'll realize that their dumb fight has caused both of them to lose a friend (temporarily)and will probably try to mend things for your sake.
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ok well..all you have to do is tell each of them that they either need to get along and talk to eachother or stop talkin and not hang out with eachother and if they get mad at you then just well they arent a real good friend anywayz..i have been in this situation before
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hey ! well i know wat your goin thro but i don't think they should do that to you ! tell them how you feel and tell them ur both of there friends and u really hate being in the middle !! <33` hope everything works out ok !! britt
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dear stuck-n-middle , tell them you dont wanna be in their fights you are both my friends and i want to see you guys friends again and if they are still fighting try to make them remember when u were all friends maybe they will just sya sorry to each other
love Ashley , plz rate me
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Yeah this is common! I'm sure we have all been there at some point. So your both best friends are a girl and a guy. So maybe they have a little crush on one another. Bring it up and laugh it off this could be the case. If that isn't then if one says something about the other don't say anything back. They might stop talking to you about one another then.
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