I had sex for the first time last night and I didnt bleed at all. Doesnt every girl bleed? That kinda makes me wonder.. Also, we didnt do it very long or hard so I think thats why? Just making sure Im not strange or messed up..
Bubbles33 answered Friday July 16 2004, 9:47 pm: not all gurls bleed during that if u didnt do it as much and not as hard u didnt bleed...next time u do it harder u might bleed..alot of girls dont bleed the first but alot do..its just how your body works..good luck
Siren_Cytherea answered Friday July 16 2004, 3:51 am: Not every girl bleeds the first time. I know someone who didn't, because she used tampons a lot. Doesn't matter how hard you do it. The first time I had sex, I bled, and my guy was, like, insanely gentle. *Shrug*
You're not strange. You're fine. =) You're lucky, actually. Bleeding isn't fun. Hope I answered your question!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Thursday July 15 2004, 10:46 pm: Your not odd , and no the guy must not of did it hard enough to make you actually bleed
MissJ1414 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 10:02 pm: Well in rare cases you can pop your cherry with a tompond. I didn't bleed my first time so maybe that's what happened. Or it could be that it wasn't hard enough to pop it. But no your not strange or messed up. [ MissJ1414's advice column | Ask MissJ1414 A Question ]
S_C answered Thursday July 15 2004, 9:51 pm: maybe sumhow your cheery didn't pop (your hymen)
or maybe it popped once when u were riding a bike or doin gymnastics, or doin sumthin else
idk if every gurl bleeds, cuz im still a virgin, but there are reasons, there ain't anything wrong wit u!! :):):):):):):):) :P:P:P:P:b:b:b:b [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
xxhotsexycutiexx answered Thursday July 15 2004, 9:02 pm: hahahh gurl...dont mind me loughin...lmao but not everysingel gurl bleeds...n no metter u do it hard or w/e he still popped ur cherry..anyways...lots of gurls pop their cherry by using tampons or while exercizing n some are born without it...its no big! so dont worry bout it ;) xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
marksbitch answered Thursday July 15 2004, 8:59 pm: No, not every girl bleeds. Some girls say it hurts, some say it doesn't, some bleed, some don't. And it's not uncommon to have the first time be short or awkward. It sounds short, but sex (the first time) only lasts about 30 seconds. Trust me, it gets better and longer :) [ marksbitch's advice column | Ask marksbitch A Question ]
xOBaByKaY answered Thursday July 15 2004, 8:57 pm: *Nope, not every girl bleeds! Every girl is different! Your not strange or messed up at all! It's normal not to experience bleeding so don't worry about it!* xOxO Kaela <3 [ xOBaByKaY's advice column | Ask xOBaByKaY A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Thursday July 15 2004, 8:53 pm: You're not strange of messed up at all! It's perfrectly normal not to experience bleeding. Every girl is different... it just varies dependant on the person. Some girls experience slight bleeding, others significant, others none. Perhaps you've broken your hymen yourself. Many people think the hymen is inside the 'private part', actually it's on the outside and can easily be broken during sports, such as soccer and horseback riding. Also, many girls break theirs by incorrectly, or roughly using tampons. You're fine. Enjoy the secks! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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