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Member Since: July 10, 2004
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Last Update: July 15, 2004
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okay. well i just moved out into my own apartment and i'd like to get a pet. the problem is i don't know what kind. i'd like something that doesn't require a TON of care, but something that i can also play with..can you help? (link)
I think you should get a hamster


I've always strived for straight hair.. but it never seems to stay straightened.. when ever i flat iron it.. it always goes back to its natural fall.. and when ever i blow dry it straight.. its all poofy.. and i can't get rid of it.. any suggestions on how to get my hair to stay straightened? (link)
Go to a beauty parlor and get it permanently straitened


Am i considered fat if i am 5 foot 4 and i weigh 195 lbs? i know i dont look it and i do have a lot of muscle in ym arms and legs from playing sports. Am i considered over wieght or not? (link)
Yes


Are you damaging your eyelashes by using an eyelasher curler?? And what if you do it everyday?? Is this risky and damaging?? Thanks! (link)
I don't think it is damaging your eyelashes. If they made it for your eye lashes then it should't harm them.


well my dad and me where never close and when my parents spilt up i went with my mom i want to see my dad agian but i dont know how to act around him should i hate him or should i be nice? He told me he never loved me and i dont understand how you cant love your child.. (link)
I think you should hate him!


hey, i went out with this girl for all of my freshman year, and last year we broke up, and ive dated other people since then, but now things are heating back up with my ex, and i need to know the difference between her just trying to be nice, and flirting with me again....any help? (link)
Just see and ask if she's flirting with you. And if so you should go back out with her.


I had sex for the first time last night and I didnt bleed at all. Doesnt every girl bleed? That kinda makes me wonder.. Also, we didnt do it very long or hard so I think thats why? Just making sure Im not strange or messed up.. (link)
Sorry, I can't help you.


My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom? (link)
No, I don't think you are acting like an over protective mom. Tell him that your relationship could be ending soon if things don't stop.


I went out with this guy for a month n 3 weeks I was happi but this is what happened we went out beofre but I dumped him to go out w some other guy which I didnt n abotu a month later my ex got a new gf n it did make me upset bc I did still like him so later his gf dumped him bc she kissed his friend then two days later he asked me out again n I said yes but this one day he had a girl over at his house "just friends" that is n he told me that she was their bc she was waiting for a ride but the thing was when my bfs friend got their we all hung out then he left n she went w him, when she was suppose to be waiting for her ride then another day we were in his room n hes liek are you a virgan n I said yes n then I asked him n hes like no I just did it w one girl n I was like okai n was about to talk about some other stuff until he started talking about the girl he fucked n told me her name n all, wat bf tells his gf wat the girl who he fucked name was? Last my friend called me one day n we were talkin then she told me my bf went to her house w his 2 friends n my friends friend was their (kati) n my bf was saying " i love you kati dont leave me kati bc I love you" then I called him to ask wat that was about n he said he was "fooling" around but I dont see why his friends werent doing that too then n later he told me "shes was just my friend on the first day i got to school" which is soo not true then hes like "I dont give a fuck if you beleive me or not beleive ur friend n not me" So am I like totally OVER-REACTING or WHAT SHOULD I DO? someone pelase help me I dont wanna be w the wrong person n not know it thank you... (link)
I really don't think you should go out with this guy anymore.


my friend is upsessed with my cousin and im like really upsessed with her families friends son. and she gos to his bcuz her cousins best friends with him and he goes ova hers, wen i go to my cousins i always ask if she wants to come, she always brags a bout like noing him and the whole house thing,and i never brag about my cuz..sooo

SiGnEd--WUT SHOULD I DO IT BOTHERS ME?? (link)
I can't read what you typed sorry!


me n my gf always have nothing to do any ideas where we could go together we r gettin bored of movies, bowlin, n playin pool wut else can we do together? (link)
Maybe you guys could go out for a bike ride.


I like this guy at camp. My friend is his good friend and she likes him too. In a matter of fact so does my step sister...alot of people do. Hes nice though. Not like a jock er anything. I want to ask him out, but knowing myself, I wont. I might invite him to voluunteer with me and my sister at the pet shelter. Hey ill get to be his closer friend. What else could I do to get closer to him? Or how should I ask him out? (link)
You should slowly start coming on to him and maybe then he will get the clue that you like him... or, if that doesn't work, just be a big flirt! LOL


I am learning to play the drums... is there anyway i could play All my life by KC and JOJO on the drums? (link)
I think anything is possible if you ask the right people.


HELP ! I've got chosen for the school MUSICAL , and my voice isn't that great . Not only that , but my crush is in there too ! do you have any idea how i should practice singing ? (link)
You should practice singing by going up and down the scale as far as you can, and then if you keep doing that your voice will get stronger so you'll be able to sing better.


when u clear history on ur computer, doz that mean that like no1 can fid the sites u were on, like if i cleared my history, my dad wouldn't see that i was on advicenators or sumthin

i kno it's a dumb Q, but i was JW (link)
Why wouldn't your dad like you being on advicenators? If so then why are you on here? Tell your parents that you are giving people advice. And, yes... if you do clear the history on your computer it will take away the sites that you don't want on there.


okay, well i have a question..it says on the site that if you have a rating of over four *(which i do)* and you've been rated more than five times(i've been rated 11) that you are a level one moderator, but on my screen it says that i'm not one. does like someone hafta do something to make me a moderator?? please help! (link)
I have no idea what that means, so I cannot help you right now.


heyy!! uhh i no this has nuttin 2 do with sex or anything but im new to this site can sum1 plz explain to me like...a few things about it like how to get ppl to like post ?s for u on ur column or w/e!! lol i dunno im just a lil confused!! thanx so0o much!! (link)
Sorry, I don't have any way to help you. I'm new to this site too.


okay so i was in a chat room and out of no where this guy asked me to cyber. i said no cuz i didn't even know him. well he started saying shit anyway and i was just about to say shut up to him and block him when my mom walked up behind me. well she read what he said and now i'm grounded for two weeks! but i didn't even do anything and i tried to explain that to her! what should i do!! (link)
OMG! That happened to me too! What my mom did to me is took the internet away. What you should do is try to find things to do around the house so that your mom might let you off a little earlier than expected.


I have this one friend who is always flirting with my friends boyfriends, and even mine. We get mad at her all the time, and she tries to make us forgive her by giving us presents and stuff. We're sick of her! Whenever we get in fights with her she gets her mom involved too. It's starting to get on everyones nerves. Also, she always thinks we're talking about her behind her back, but we're not! HELP! ASAP!-Bethany (link)
Well, maybe this friend that you have is having some jealosy problems. Maybe just trying to stay out of fights and things will keep you guys fresh. Love, You favorite sister katie




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