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Friend troubles!
I have this one friend who is always flirting with my friends boyfriends, and even mine. We get mad at her all the time, and she tries to make us forgive her by giving us presents and stuff. We're sick of her! Whenever we get in fights with her she gets her mom involved too. It's starting to get on everyones nerves. Also, she always thinks we're talking about her behind her back, but we're not! HELP! ASAP!-Bethany
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Well, maybe this friend that you have is having some jealosy problems. Maybe just trying to stay out of fights and things will keep you guys fresh. Love, You favorite sister katie
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she sounds annoying. lol tell her to fight her own battles or else nothing will get solved and her apologies wont be worth your trouble. stop inviting were to hang out with u n ur bfs, or bring a single one for her to flirt with so she leaves urs alone er something.
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Hey Bethany! I think EVERYONE has a friend like this and for me it was one of my BEST FRIENDS! I had just gotten a new boyfriend and after a month of being together, she started to like him and invite him to places, she was so sneaky like that. It was innocent places too, like church or she would invite herself to a party he was at while I was out of town! I got so mad at my boyfriend (of 8 months now) and my old best friend but we sat down and had a heart-to-heart talk and really worked things out. A few weeks later, we stopped being friends but I think the time we did spend together was alot of fun and now we can move on with our lives! Good luck hun!!
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Okay, your friend sounds like a real piece of work. Try to avoid her as much as possible; and when you can't just try to ignore her completely. I have a friend sort of like this too and the only reason she flirts with me and my friends boyfriends is cause she is jealous and she knows that she can't get a good boyfriend for herself. You said that she always gets her mom involved; well, it sounds like she can't fight her own battles.
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Bethany,
sounds like your friend is not a ture friend and you should tell her to stop fliring with your girl's boyfirends. Just tell her that she is not a ture friend would not flirt with your boyfriend and that you are not talking crap about her behind her back and she needs to get her story stright hope this all works out for you
*~*Crystal*~*
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Ok, firstly i think she probably knows it isnt right to be flirting with your friends boyfriends maybe this is why she tries to buy you off with presents afterwards! Your just going to have to spell it out to your friend that you arent talking about her even though she may think so!
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l0l.. if ur not talkyn about her behind her bak.. then how do you kno tha other grls feel tha same and its getting on ALL OF yalls nerves.. ? o wells.. i thynk you shuud just tell ur friend that its buggin yall.. ya kno? and she miite stop.. and if shes flirtyn with ur man.. as long as you kno he aint flirtyn bak.. then its all good.. :)
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Haha sound like my friend... im not saying her name because alot of my friends do check this but the best way we tried to handle things with "Ella" was by just telling her mom that she is starting things... she learned quick from that... if she wants her mom involved so be it... her mom understood and same with the bf thing... she always tried to take my x away from me which pissed me off at the time but if your guy's bf's like you enough they will push her away and as far as she goes ... i'd talk to her and put it on the line that you've had enough... use hand jestures that sometimes help get the point across-trix
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This friend is a flirt; She knows it, you know it and your friends know it. Do YOU still want to be friends with her? If yes, then tell her that you will no longer accept her apologies and gifts as a peace offering when she makes you mad by flirting with your boyfriend(s). If you want to be friends, but you know she won't listen to you, then do things with her that don't involve hanging around boys together. Stick to movies, shopping, or hanging out at each others' houses (without boys). This way, you can enjoy each others' company and there won't be any rivalry over males between the two of you. Now if you have simply had enough and want to end the friendship, then don't invite her to do things with you or over to your house anymore. Put some space between the two of you. After a while, she will know that you want the friendship to end.
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