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anorexic
ok i think my friend asked me a question about being anorexic and wut to do. she asked me if i knew who asked the questions and i said no and hen she stopped talking for a bit and then when she did respond she said g2g and signed off. i really want to help her and she is sooo pretty so she doesnt need to lose any weight but how should i bring up the topic?! Help ASAP cus i really would like to help her!!!!
OreoGirl
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well call her she shouldnt hang up on u? tell her that this is really important! and when u do talk to her tell her that i am ur friend rite? well friends are supposed to help other friends n i thynk that u need help! first of all ur not fat... u kno wat u wanna say well say it n if she does not listen then thats not a tru friend. tru friends listen!
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I think you just need to talk to her. Just maybe be like i guess you can say a little white lie, you can say something like "a year ago i thought of being anorexic, have you ever thought or been anorexic" But your not 100% sure she is so you can just jump on her back. Just comfort her and be nice as possible... possibly watch what she eats... that might give you little hints and clues
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ok,this is a little thing i picked up from my sister. sometimes,ppl will look at someone, if they're anorexic, and decide that they want to be as skinny as them. so,if your reasonably skinnier wider than her,measure her waist,then measure hers. so ,that way,she can see the difference. myabe it will help.if not,talk to her parents,and if they notice anything,they should call the doctor.
good luck
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ok well u just need to blunt with her and flat out ask her! Tell her you care and that if there is something wrong with her you will stick by herside to help her! But this isnt something you can just play around with.,.if she doesnt admit maybe talk to her mom about it and see if she has been acting normal and eating ok good luck and i hope she is ok xoxo
*~MALLY~*
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Just tell her your concerned of the whole fact of when she brought it up to you... thats what friends are for... they care about eachother-trix
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Yeah, you definitely should tell her quickly because she could be starting right now. I would just kind of start out with " I'm really worried about you lately, and I am very concerned because I think you are putting your life at risk." Then hopefully she should get the idea of what you are talking about. But sweetie, don't worry about whether she will get mad at you for it or not..she is going to kill herself if she does this. You really should talk to her about it as much as possible, make her listen to you. She is probably in a position where she is very unhappy with her self image even if she is pretty. Have a serious conversation with her because you're right she should come to you whenever she needs it, but sometimes when she is in a state of insecureness you have to come to her. Do whatever you can for your friend. You could save her life! Good luck, I seriously hoep she is okay. Love you! -Mandee
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I think you should bring it up by saying "What were you saying bout anerexia?" and just go from there. And just make sure that she knows that you'll always be there for her and stuff. I hope that kinda helps if you need any more help just ask. If you get any more info. on it and still need some more help I'll be glad to help, my one friend was anderexic.
xoxo Kourtney
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well my next door neibor babay sits...and shes 16 and she only weighs about 100 pounds...she is so skinny...i sometimes worry about her...but im 12 and shes 16...wellshe never eats and when she eats she always get sick..so she has something wrong with her....well i wouild just ask her and bring it up in person...not on line..:)hope you guys get help or she tells you the truth
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