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ok im 13 and my friend thats 12 and weve been friends ever since like we were 2 and shes a year younger then me n stuff so she used to look up to me and when i was in 7th grade and she was going into 6th she was super scared and so i told her it was no big deal and so ya she did rilly good makin friends n stuff cuz shes like rilly popular so then there is a girl that shes like best friends w/ now and shes like a rilly "bad girl" or however u wanna explain that and she steals drinks n smokes n stuff and shes only 12 too! so then those 2 became rilly good friends n just last weekend she went up to her cabin for a week and my friend since she was w/ her friend got caught stealing drinking and smoking so now im like super mad at her n stuff and shes always like god im sorry it was a mistake and i told her before she went up there to be careful cuz i knew that was gonna happen and it did.. and im super mad at both of them cuz her friend got her into it becuz she told my friend to smoke drink and steal stuff and idk wut to do cuz everytime i try to talk to her about it and try to tell her not to do that ever again and her parents found out and they didnt do anything they just grounded her for a week and then left it at that i mean shes 12 years old and i know shes gonna do it again! and im scared and i dont know wut to do cuz idk how to talk to her if shes gonna tell me not to talk about it.. so wut should i do?! ill rate u for this if u answer this! pleez i need help before she goes n does it again! (link)
ok,calm down!! all i can say is,that if her friend's partent(s)don't no about it,talk to them,and if they do,then tell them that she is dragging other ppl into it.and if they dont straighten things out,then talk to ur parents. see if they can knock some sense into her and her parents,and her friend,and her friends parents.

good luck!!!!! ;)


i want to go on a diet but i dont no how to go about it. please could some one help me


thanx for ya help (link)
um...i think that u should just cut down on the jusnk food.diets aren't exactely the best way to do it. cutting down on different foods (besides junk food) could put u in bad health positions. and diet pills could too. just cut down on the junky/fatty foods,and increase how much u dont eat each day.

if you stick with it,it should work,good luck!

and rate me plz!


Do you think diet pills really work? If so what kind is the best to take? Thanks (link)
um........ i actually dont think that diet pills work,but maybe instead of spending your money on them,mayb just TRY to let go of some of the junky fodd,just a little,then increase how much jusnk you dont eat,day by day.

i hope it works,and i no it will,if you want to do that. just stick with it!


okay so i was in a chat room and out of no where this guy asked me to cyber. i said no cuz i didn't even know him. well he started saying shit anyway and i was just about to say shut up to him and block him when my mom walked up behind me. well she read what he said and now i'm grounded for two weeks! but i didn't even do anything and i tried to explain that to her! what should i do!! (link)
well,what i think you should do is sit down with your mom,and have a good clean talk.i think the best time to do it is right after the two weeks. it might make her mad that u waited so long,but i think that's going to b the best becausemy parents usually tell me when my "grounding time" is up. so then i have her attention,and can can easily talk.

good luck, and
please Rate me!


ok im the girl who had a problem with a guy being....obsessive about my butt. well i hit his hand away and stuff like that did everything that u guys tld me to. i even told on him about i guess sexual harrassment because i was in spanish and we were taking siestas and he came and layed on me. well none of the teachers see it cus hes "slick" so they wont do anything about it. i dont want to go like file a suit and sue him but like i do want him to stop. hes going to my hs so i figured he'd stop because there will b plenty other girls for him to....run after. but i want to kno wut i should do about the school not helping me. (link)
this might b to......extreme,but i think you should go to the guidence office,and talk to them about it,if they say that they cant do anything,then everytime that he comes 3 feet away,move,and if you cant,talk to your mom,dad,of guardian,and talk to them about it.


okay, there are these little boys i babysit for, and they are devils. i always try and to different activities *(crafts, cooking, movies, games)* with them, but they never like my ideas..what can i do with them? (link)
ask then what they want to do. if they dont tell you,go outside and run around with them,little kids like that.


ok i think my friend asked me a question about being anorexic and wut to do. she asked me if i knew who asked the questions and i said no and hen she stopped talking for a bit and then when she did respond she said g2g and signed off. i really want to help her and she is sooo pretty so she doesnt need to lose any weight but how should i bring up the topic?! Help ASAP cus i really would like to help her!!!!
OreoGirl (link)
ok,this is a little thing i picked up from my sister. sometimes,ppl will look at someone, if they're anorexic, and decide that they want to be as skinny as them. so,if your reasonably skinnier wider than her,measure her waist,then measure hers. so ,that way,she can see the difference. myabe it will help.if not,talk to her parents,and if they notice anything,they should call the doctor.

good luck


well theres this friend i have and i always catch her in lies. a lot of my other friends do to, so we all know she lies. i never really wanted to confront her about it, but the other day she got mad at me, and we were fighting so i told her that i noticed that she lied ALL the time, and i even gave her examples, but she still says she didn't lie. well we all know she did, because she tells us all different things. well now we're in a big fight, so i don't even think i should have brought it up in the first place becasue i hate fighting,which is why i never brought it up before. so now what should i do? (link)
i'm thinking what u should do is confront her again. and just b seriouse about it.dont tell her examples or anything,just straight out tell her.if she goofs off about it,then talk to your other friends about it.or,tell her it really bugs u.




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