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okay so i was in a chat room and out of no where this guy asked me to cyber. i said no cuz i didn't even know him. well he started saying shit anyway and i was just about to say shut up to him and block him when my mom walked up behind me. well she read what he said and now i'm grounded for two weeks! but i didn't even do anything and i tried to explain that to her! what should i do!!
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U r stuck with that punishment and personally i think u deserve it beecuz u shouldn't b talkin' 2 people u don't know. It is really dangerous and if that other guy started it u should've blocked him rite away! U shouldn't have even told him no cuz then if u even respond they can get a lot of info from u. Just remember that ur mom just really cares about u and she doesn't want u 2 get hurt. She isn't trying to make ur lyfe miserable. Trust me. Parents don't do that.
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Tell her what happened! Thats the only thing to do. If you dont want her to think you cyber online all the time then tell her that you said no but he started it anyway.
good luck
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Sit your mother down and tell the full truth to her. Say that you were going to block him but he kept saying horrible things. If it doesn't work I am truely sorry, but at least you know you told her the truth and are not lying to her. A wordof advice if a stranger asks or says something to make you feel uncomfortable or hurt block them or leave that chat room right after he says something nasty or anything even if it is one of your closest friends. Try to make sure it never happens again.
Hope it works out for the best!! Sincerely,
**Bridgette**
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I think you need to tell your mom what happened, tell her and be like why would i do that! and just tell her, ask her to trust you because she should it so wasnt your fault! Good luck and i hope you get ungrounded
-holly-
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just try reasoning with her tell her that you really didnt do anything wrong!!if u need to talk more im at iaintnobarbie91
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well,what i think you should do is sit down with your mom,and have a good clean talk.i think the best time to do it is right after the two weeks. it might make her mad that u waited so long,but i think that's going to b the best becausemy parents usually tell me when my "grounding time" is up. so then i have her attention,and can can easily talk.
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OMG! That happened to me too! What my mom did to me is took the internet away. What you should do is try to find things to do around the house so that your mom might let you off a little earlier than expected.
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well what did you say that made you get in trouble with your mom?Are you even allowed to be in chat rooms?Give me more info.on this question and maybe I can answer it okay?Bye!
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heu hun,
well, your mom must think you've gone behind her back, doing something you know sher doesnt approve of-when really it was all the guys fault. Sit your mom down, and tell her FLAT OUT! be mature about this though, because if you arent she might think that you're lying. Be honost too, don't start up another story saying somehting like he wanted oyur nukmber, because if she finds out you were lying about that, then she'll think u lied twice.
<333 Alyssa
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uhh how bout you DONT go into Chatroom's anymore!that juss might help
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first of all try talking to your mom again, if that don't work write her a note telling her the whole story. it worked for my bff so it should work for u.
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i kno, parents are so UNFAIR, once my brother was on the comp cyberin to this gurl, she was sayin realy nasty stuff, and my dad was cummin upstairs, and i tried to warn my bro, and i made him get off so i could quickly X outta everything 4 him, and i got caught and even when my bro admitted it was him, my parents were like o dont stick up for ur sis, it was her mistake
but if she read wut it said, wouldn't she have read that u said NO, shouldn't she be happy that u said NO... weird the way our parents minds work, it's almost as if she's disappointed u didn't cyber(jk, not makin ur mom out as a bad person or anything..ONLY a JOKE)
Parents just don't understand!!...thats a good song by will smith hehe sry random
well that doesn't seem like it was much help, but i hope it was, it's just parents dont understand, they are old weirdos lol
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there is nothing to do but sit her down and tell her that you need her to listen and tell her what happend.
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That could be tricky since you don't have prove that you didn't do anything. All I can say is sit your mom down and have a serious conversation about what happened. I hope she lets up on your grounding. Good luck!!
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ur first problem is that ur reason for not cybering means u would have cybered with him neways if u did know him... see thats just weird u should be grounded... you sicko
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Well even though it sucks.. whats done is done there is no proof. so for next time im thinking u should get one of those loggs they read what u and the other person types and its saved right in ur computer. other wise stay out of chatrooms
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Okay, First Of All Chat Rooms arent exactly the best thing to be in especially if you dont know anybody. If somebody asks you to Cyber you should immediatly block them and not answer them. Your
mom should be able to trust that you would never
do that unless you've done things lyk that b4. you should try esplaining wat happened and explain
to her that you would NEVER do anything lyk that.
If that doesnt work then your moms not giving you the trust she should.
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Well if you already told her what happaned then i would re-try that again and tell her she should have looked at the whole conversation before she jumped to conclusions-trix
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Tell her the truth, say that "i was just about to block him,, & why should i be grounded for things he says, it's not my fault, and i can't control him. when he asked me to cyber, i said no.. i could have said yes but i didnt, because i didnt even know him & i would nevr do that and its not fair for me to be grounded when i can't help what someone else says to me."
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Well im sorry but there isnt much you can do but try to explain t her that it wasnt you cybering. And that he wanted you to but you said "no" if she still doesnt beleive you then promise her that you wont ever chat in them rooms again. This happend to me but not the same situation and i did it and i got off grouding i was grounded from the pc for a month. And i got off early and she didnt even tell my dad. So if that dont work im sorry that i didnt help much. Well i hope i did help at least a little and dont be afraid to write back.
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Short N Punky
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Well if you know your not supposed to be in chat rooms then you shouldn't. But if your allowed thats your moms fault. I mean if she really cares that much about you bein in one then she shouldnt let you at all. My mom most likely wouldnt ground me for that but if she did i would try to exsplain myself and tell her exactly what she is doing is wrong that I know she is my mom but she should trust me! Hope I Helped!
-Stephanie
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the moment he is bothering u, dont say shut up just block him. 4 ur mom just tell her wat happened and that it wont happen again
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