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ok im 13 and my friend thats 12 and weve been friends ever since like we were 2 and shes a year younger then me n stuff so she used to look up to me and when i was in 7th grade and she was going into 6th she was super scared and so i told her it was no big deal and so ya she did rilly good makin friends n stuff cuz shes like rilly popular so then there is a girl that shes like best friends w/ now and shes like a rilly "bad girl" or however u wanna explain that and she steals drinks n smokes n stuff and shes only 12 too! so then those 2 became rilly good friends n just last weekend she went up to her cabin for a week and my friend since she was w/ her friend got caught stealing drinking and smoking so now im like super mad at her n stuff and shes always like god im sorry it was a mistake and i told her before she went up there to be careful cuz i knew that was gonna happen and it did.. and im super mad at both of them cuz her friend got her into it becuz she told my friend to smoke drink and steal stuff and idk wut to do cuz everytime i try to talk to her about it and try to tell her not to do that ever again and her parents found out and they didnt do anything they just grounded her for a week and then left it at that i mean shes 12 years old and i know shes gonna do it again! and im scared and i dont know wut to do cuz idk how to talk to her if shes gonna tell me not to talk about it.. so wut should i do?! ill rate u for this if u answer this! pleez i need help before she goes n does it again!
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Well just tell her how you feel and how much she means to you and how much it hurts you to know/hear what she is doing to herself and winding herself up in.. and its not good tell her all the bad things weather she wants to listen to you or not-trix
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ok heres what i would say choose jail or freedom and just so you know if she has her heart set on doing these things then she will and no one can stop her but you can still try (i suggest that you do)but if she thinks shes kool doing this stuff shes not i think thats lame not cool
~jessica~
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you should trie smoking, drinkiin and stealing before u judge them.
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Alright these are some words that you should say to your friend .
" You're my friend and all, but we have to talk
about the influence your new friend is having on you . I know she's pretty cool, but she can really get you into trouble, and I'm sorry if I'm acting like a parent who's getting on your nerves but you have to know this . Your new friend shouldn't try to tell you to steal stuff because, you and only you choose to steal stuff not your friend . It's your decision and you could get into serious trouble . You could go to DJJ and spend the rest of your term for Grand Auto Theft in prison . It's not worth it . You have alot more potential but anyway it's up to you what you want to do with your life . I'm your friend and what you want to do with your life is up to you, but even if I am not a 100% down with you , I am there for you when ever you need me . Juat think about it" .
Sometimes your friends have to learn the hard way . If she doesn't listen then and she continues to steal, then she will get caught and she'll pay for her actions and this is nothing to play with . This is something to worry about . If she doesn't stop stealing with her friend, then you NEED TO TALK TO YOUR 12 YEAR OLD FRIENDS PARENTS . SHE MAY NOT UNDERSTAND , BUT LATER SHE WILL AND SHE PROBABLY WILL THANK YOU . IT'S A REBELOIUS PART AND TIME OF HER LIFE, BUT U HAVE THE POWER TO STOP THIS . SO THE QUESTION IS, DO YOU LOVE YOUR FRIEND ENOUGH TO RISK TELLING HER PEARENTS ABOUT THE 12 YEAR OLD GIRL AND HER FRIEND? DO YOU LOVE YOUR FRIEND ENOUGH TO RISK YOUR FRIENDSHIP OR HER GOING TO JAIL WHEN KNOWING YOU CAN STOP THIS BY SIMPLY TELLING HER PARENTS ?
If her parents do nothing about it, then whatever happens is not your fault because, u did whatever was in your power and that girl have to live with stealing and not listening to u for the rest of her life . Think about it . It's complicated but so simple . Talk to her. If that doesn't work then talk to her parents . If that doesn't work , well so let it be .
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ok,calm down!! all i can say is,that if her friend's partent(s)don't no about it,talk to them,and if they do,then tell them that she is dragging other ppl into it.and if they dont straighten things out,then talk to ur parents. see if they can knock some sense into her and her parents,and her friend,and her friends parents.
good luck!!!!! ;)
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if she dusnt want to talk about it with you or anyone else find someone she wants to talk about it with...or find someone she'll talk to about it PERIOD (if its thah bad)...
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