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Hey everyone! I am a junior in high school. It's been 2 years sense the last time I was on this site, and I think it's about time that I start up again. I used to play Soccer, Basketball, snf Softball up until this year. Nowadays I enjoy hanging out with friends, making movies, shopping, working out at 24 hour fitness, and going on road trips. I like to give advice, help people out, or just talk to friendly people. Ask me anything and I'll try to help!
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okay...me and my friend are addicted to stealing. when ever we go somewhere like to the gas station or clothes we steal. we always steal candy and we steal undies. we try to stop and we just cant it is hard. and it is uncontrolable! what should we do?

theives (link)
make a bet with urself thats what i'd do. If you can go a year without stealing we could say. If you do it, the guilt is gone. If you steal someone, you have to tell someone who u really care about, and want to like you, but will have no respect for you,never looking at you the same way, if u told them. so when u go to a store and ur friend steals. put this in ur mind *going up to that person and saying* "hey, i steal, isnt that cool? yeah, id steal from you right now if you werent looking. I stole this shirt im wearing, and that gift i gave you for your birthday. Working hard and earning money to get stuff? pshhh no! im gonna waste my life on stealing!" i had a friend that would steal around me, and running away with him when he did it was fun, but then when one of my friends who i really care about said no i dint


i really want to be a basketball player like soooooo bad and i dont know hoe i can become one i meen im only 12 so its not a big rush now but any ideas would be great!
~*~AlEx~*~ (link)
Make the A team or w/e is the best for ur school and keep practicing. make sure u can be an all around player incase someone might be better then u u can play a diff position. Work on ur free throws, outside shots from all angles, 1 on 1 moves, and your ability to use both hands in dribbling. Only being able to dribble with just your left or your right hand really slows you down in high school because people can gaurd you against your strong hand. Make sure to have strong defence, and keep ur agility up so you can run around a lot. Frustrate whomever you are gaurding so they dont do as well, and make sure not to get frustrated bc it can totally destroy your game. When you play 1 on 1 with friends, try playing taller people, because then you can really get your skill up. I play with my next door neighbor who is a guy, whos really good and about 7 inches taller than me, and im getting a lot better by practicing against him. When you get in hs, make sure you dont give up, its really fun, ima be a sophomore and my freshman year was fun. I play point, but there are a lot of other point guards, so i have to work hard so i can get playing time. once you get really good, senior year, get a scollership, play for your college team, and hopefully you'll get noticed by the WNBA. Good luck, and keep practicing. please rate


me and my best friend got in a fight liek 4 months ago...we hav been best buds for 10 yrs...well we got in a fight bc her dad wouldnt pick me up and they just left me ther alone...after my mom gives her a ride to skool eryday so i got a little mad...but im such a hyper person i dont get mad like alot and so i juss wasnt really hyper around her nemore and hse got mad that i wasnt talking alot but it juss hurt my feelings bc she was hangin out with this new gurl and they would ditch me and then wen that happeend i juss got really hurt...well we stopped talking completely...she wrote stuff bout me on her xanga site n stuff and weve had arguments b4 that lasted like 2 days!! and they wer even WORSE arguments but wed get over them...this one is still going on...she is goin to another h.s nex year and stuff so we dont even c eachother..but i hav her sn and hav talked to her a few times and we juss apologize n she tells me "to remeber her as the gul who lived next door all her life, not the bitch who threw everything away" and we hav s0o many memories and pictures and i just really miss her and im starting to hav alot of bf's now and i juss wish i could share everything with her!! everytime she signs on aim i get really sad and wanna talk to her i htink of excuses like "o u left ur jacket at my house frum a while ago do u wanna come get it sumday" juss to talk toher and see how she is...shuld i tel her how i feel? wat can i say to her? its been so long and im scared tho...we wer BEST FRIENDS...help im so confused (link)
awww im so sorry! I dont see my best friend much ne more but i make sure we stay in touch, even f its been awhile. when u start a convo with her online, does she seem interested in talking to you or is it just the "hey whats up not much you cool" type thing? If u get in good convos, then u should try to get a day where you can hang out. Does she still live by you? This is somehting i'd need more info on, but just try to get back together, and soon, bc if u wait too long, you really might fade and will be harder to connect again. just throw it in the conversation in the middle "hey do u wanna hang out sometime?" she ll most likely say yes. 10 years is a long time. Im sure she cant forget about you that easily. If you need any more help just ask me. please rate


i have had a best friend for 3 years now...we have gone throught everything together...are 1st kisses..are ex friends...are heart breaks...u no all the best friends type of things...i recenetly got back with my ex...we have been togheter for 2 years on and off..but now its been 3 months str8..and i stil hang out with my best friend..just now i have less time since i have him and all..it seems like sometimes she gets jealous cause she says "come on u dont need ot hang out with him, he gets so annoying, how annoying u hang out with all couples" like i no if she got with the love of her life she would do the same wat should i do? i feel so bad (link)
hang out with her more. with the guys, theres 2 choices. U ll prolly break up with him, so he wont be there forever, but she always will. shes ur best friend. And if u Do think this is true love, and u ll be with him forever, then u should have plenty of time, your whole life, to be with him, so spend time with her, b4 she finds her man and leaves u too. My best friend is moving in a month, and so i try to hang out with her as much as i can b4 she leaves, but she just got a bf, and i barely get to see her, which hurts. Trade off ur time er something, because you shouldnt let a guy get in the way of your friendship.
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see i have this friend who i leave lots of messages on the phone but never calls back is she my friend

-bubba78

P.S.i am just a girl who needs advise! (link)
you shouldnt question something like that until u get more of the facts. I know people that dont even check their machine. I just learned how to check my cell phone and i had messages from friends to go to Oaks park and i wanted to go but it was too late. Some people just dont like returning calls, and just expect the person to call when they are there so they can talk in person, so instead of leaving a message, keep calling until they are home, and talk. If they seem interesed in talking to you, then you know. Plz rate


Hey see I knew this boyfor about 8 years now and he went away when we was10 years old then he finally shows up yesturday and expects us to re be friends...... and I hardly even reconize him.!
so what should I do?? PLZ HELP (link)
Whats wrong with being friends again? Get to know him again he might be really cool now u cant get hurt with just a friend, and can never have too many


im 14/f and i REally like this boy he is soo cute, and we alway stare at each other, i know he likes me to,and im older then him by 2years.is that bad?im just 2 shy to tell him how i feel.HELP MEH!!! (link)
u should let him know. if u dont he might think u dont like him and move on. Good luck!


I have this one friend who is always flirting with my friends boyfriends, and even mine. We get mad at her all the time, and she tries to make us forgive her by giving us presents and stuff. We're sick of her! Whenever we get in fights with her she gets her mom involved too. It's starting to get on everyones nerves. Also, she always thinks we're talking about her behind her back, but we're not! HELP! ASAP!-Bethany (link)
she sounds annoying. lol tell her to fight her own battles or else nothing will get solved and her apologies wont be worth your trouble. stop inviting were to hang out with u n ur bfs, or bring a single one for her to flirt with so she leaves urs alone er something.


ok i am going to this basketball camp for like 4 days and i am going with one of my freinds that i dont really know that well and she has other freinds there so what do i do? because i dont want it to be a boring time and i dont want to end up getting ditched.. (link)
its kind of late to help you, but how was bball camp?


My bf has this friend brit and i am almost positive she likes him and like he asked me would you be mad if i saw a girl in a swimsuit and she was biking and i was to and i went up to talk to her? and i said umm no..? and he said o cuz i saw brit. and another time he went to her house and he is like brit wants us to go over to her house 8 or 9 in the morning but he didnt go so thats good. idk she is just prettier then me and skinnier then me .. thats when we sorta got in a bad situation i told him i thought i didnt meet up to his standards and he said in otherwards you think you arent good enough for me? and i said yeah and he said well if anything your to good for me but that was awhile ago .. so what should i do or even tell him?! we communicate just fine.. we see eachother alot... so im guess im not completely worried about it all but brit.. thats what im worried about..
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it seems to me like hes an honest guy, with telling you that he saw a girl in a swim suit and when hes going to a girls house, so there doesnt seem like theres much to worry about. Of course guys do seem to give in easy to girls so ur prolly afraid she'll make him do something with her. You should talk about it with him. Not just randomly bringing it up so you dont seem paranoid and controlling, but next time he talks about her, bring up the subject, and see where it goes.


Okay well there is this girl Regina and a while ago before i met her me and her bf Ben was reallie close friends and i told him taht i dunt tink u two are going to last and then ben told her now and me and ben havent talked for two months or so and now regina is gunna tell tyler something and tyler said he would never break up with me and all:-\and yea he tells me he loves me with everything and I reallie dont think he will believe her but regina told me I was a horriable person and that I backstabbed her by saying that and that is before I evening knew her so what do you think I should do?Should I keep trying to call my boyfriend and get to him before she gets to him and start a story or what.Im reallie confused and need help!Please help me!Thanxs!
x0x0-baBee (link)
How well does Regina know you? If you know she doesn't have anything on you, then tell Tyler that she barley knows you and nto to believe what she says to him. If she does know you well enough, try talking to her and see if she can forgive you so you dont get introuble with Tyler. Just make sure you don't act like a "horrible person" so what she says isnt true and she sees that.




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