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my best friend and me fighting...im confused...
me and my best friend got in a fight liek 4 months ago...we hav been best buds for 10 yrs...well we got in a fight bc her dad wouldnt pick me up and they just left me ther alone...after my mom gives her a ride to skool eryday so i got a little mad...but im such a hyper person i dont get mad like alot and so i juss wasnt really hyper around her nemore and hse got mad that i wasnt talking alot but it juss hurt my feelings bc she was hangin out with this new gurl and they would ditch me and then wen that happeend i juss got really hurt...well we stopped talking completely...she wrote stuff bout me on her xanga site n stuff and weve had arguments b4 that lasted like 2 days!! and they wer even WORSE arguments but wed get over them...this one is still going on...she is goin to another h.s nex year and stuff so we dont even c eachother..but i hav her sn and hav talked to her a few times and we juss apologize n she tells me "to remeber her as the gul who lived next door all her life, not the bitch who threw everything away" and we hav s0o many memories and pictures and i just really miss her and im starting to hav alot of bf's now and i juss wish i could share everything with her!! everytime she signs on aim i get really sad and wanna talk to her i htink of excuses like "o u left ur jacket at my house frum a while ago do u wanna come get it sumday" juss to talk toher and see how she is...shuld i tel her how i feel? wat can i say to her? its been so long and im scared tho...we wer BEST FRIENDS...help im so confused
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2 of my xtremely good best friends moved away.. but right before i got in a fite with both.. but luckily one moved back.. but shes not tha same shes all slutty and bitchy i know how you feel.. you just want to talk to her but u dont no how.. jus i.m. her n be like i need to talk to u.. do u wanna come over..? we can hang out and talk bout the old times.. i miss you
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awww im so sorry! I dont see my best friend much ne more but i make sure we stay in touch, even f its been awhile. when u start a convo with her online, does she seem interested in talking to you or is it just the "hey whats up not much you cool" type thing? If u get in good convos, then u should try to get a day where you can hang out. Does she still live by you? This is somehting i'd need more info on, but just try to get back together, and soon, bc if u wait too long, you really might fade and will be harder to connect again. just throw it in the conversation in the middle "hey do u wanna hang out sometime?" she ll most likely say yes. 10 years is a long time. Im sure she cant forget about you that easily. If you need any more help just ask me. please rate
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wow thats really sad..i think u should just tell her how u feel-u never kno, she might feel the same way..but it depends, some friendships just dont work out too well nd this might be one of them. But if u decided not to be BEST FRIENDS, then u should at least stay friendly.
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im a really hyper person to nd i like to talk alot nd do alot well my best friend made a new friend on our cheerleading squad nd when we were at nationals she ditched me nd went to her so i felt weird to.. so im really friendly w/all the s on the squad so for that weekend i just found someone else to hang out wit well my best friend isnt really friendly with other people but me my family nd some of my close friends.. so i was kinda of jelous to because she made anouther friend...well after nationals i called her nd we had alot to talk about i just brought it up to her nd she appoligised nd i forgave her nd were still best friends.. so i think u should just talk to her about it nd maybe shell become friends wit u again
<3ashlee
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You were best friends and always will be. That connection wont go away. Tell her your feelin and that you miss her. Flat out like that. Just say out of the blue, and tell her you want to see her. And see how she responds.
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Tell her how you feel because good friends are hard to come across and just say how you feel and what you want and how you want the old times back-trix
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hi, well i'mma b very honest okay...i kno it hurts and everything but u said it "U WERE BEST FRIENDS WIT HER...(WERE)" listen in life time ur gonna have so many new friends n u gonna loose lots of friends....so just move on even though it hurts...ur gonna find plenty of new friends n u gonna have lots of best friends...but there comes a time that sometimes u have to let go even though it hurts a lot...thats life...n thats how it goes...theres nothing that u or anyone else could do bout it...just move on n get ur self a new best friend n share ur thoughts n everything...n make new good memories wit ur NEW BEST FRIEND!!! hope i helped..xoxo effy
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I think when she gets on AIM you should talk to her and see whats up. Just tell her you miss hanging out with her and that you guys use to be best friends and that you don't want a stupid fight to take that away from you. And just tell her what you just told us. Or you can call her up, which ever one you want to do. And just be like "Hey, I know we haven't talked in awhile, but I really miss that" and then tell her how you feel, that you still want to be best friends. And just say you guys always over come fights but why was it so different this time. Just say stuff like that. I hope this helps, if you still need help, just ask!! =D
xoxo Kourtney
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Yeah u should most deff. talk 2 her about it!! n jus b like.. what happend.. n tell her how u feel!!
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Yeah you should talk to her and tell her how you feel, next time you IM her just be like "hey whats up" you know have a regular conversation with her and tell her you miss being best friends and stuff... hope it works out with you and her
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