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Gender: Female
Location: new jersey
Age: 16
Member Since: July 14, 2004
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Last Update: July 14, 2004
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ok say ur boyfriend hasnt called u n like 3 months
what do u do? (link)
well maybe try to call him


hey um i have asked many questions about the same guy and like he is my neighbor and i wasnt home today and my sister and her babysitter saw him and like he asked where i was! do you think he likes me? do you think that like he'll ask me out because i have asked soooooo many questions about him..try to find em! (link)
well maybe he does like u but just because he asked for you doesnt mean that he likes u he might just like you as a friend
you have to look at the way he looks at u nd the way he talks to you


me and my best friend got in a fight liek 4 months ago...we hav been best buds for 10 yrs...well we got in a fight bc her dad wouldnt pick me up and they just left me ther alone...after my mom gives her a ride to skool eryday so i got a little mad...but im such a hyper person i dont get mad like alot and so i juss wasnt really hyper around her nemore and hse got mad that i wasnt talking alot but it juss hurt my feelings bc she was hangin out with this new gurl and they would ditch me and then wen that happeend i juss got really hurt...well we stopped talking completely...she wrote stuff bout me on her xanga site n stuff and weve had arguments b4 that lasted like 2 days!! and they wer even WORSE arguments but wed get over them...this one is still going on...she is goin to another h.s nex year and stuff so we dont even c eachother..but i hav her sn and hav talked to her a few times and we juss apologize n she tells me "to remeber her as the gul who lived next door all her life, not the bitch who threw everything away" and we hav s0o many memories and pictures and i just really miss her and im starting to hav alot of bf's now and i juss wish i could share everything with her!! everytime she signs on aim i get really sad and wanna talk to her i htink of excuses like "o u left ur jacket at my house frum a while ago do u wanna come get it sumday" juss to talk toher and see how she is...shuld i tel her how i feel? wat can i say to her? its been so long and im scared tho...we wer BEST FRIENDS...help im so confused (link)
im a really hyper person to nd i like to talk alot nd do alot well my best friend made a new friend on our cheerleading squad nd when we were at nationals she ditched me nd went to her so i felt weird to.. so im really friendly w/all the s on the squad so for that weekend i just found someone else to hang out wit well my best friend isnt really friendly with other people but me my family nd some of my close friends.. so i was kinda of jelous to because she made anouther friend...well after nationals i called her nd we had alot to talk about i just brought it up to her nd she appoligised nd i forgave her nd were still best friends.. so i think u should just talk to her about it nd maybe shell become friends wit u again


Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do? (link)
ok well u dont feel comptfortble around him nd he makes u do stuff u dont want to do well then dont go with him it seems like u dont really care fo him i would break up with him nd try to advoid hanging out wit him alot


ok i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years on and off....i am 16 years old..we really love eachother...are parents know and everything...today i went to a physic and she said we have no future wat so ever together...and it was so weird cause he told me not to go cause i will start basing my life on her...and hes right cause now its making me think am i wasting my time...but me n him always plan r future together even though we r young...do u belive in physics wat should i do? how can i overcome this (link)
ok i personally dont belive in phycics i dont think ne one can read you paulm and read whats in ur future so if u think u are really in love then u dont want to break up wit him becuase u could be soul mates


i am to obsessed with dieting im 16 5'0 and weight 114lbs i think i am so fat even thought every1 thinks im not...i dont no why..i work out 4 times a week..and i eat really healthy...but lately i havent aten to healthy..my friends all think im ganna become anerixic and im scared 2..i check every label carbs calories everhything it drives everyone crazy and its starting 2 drive me crazy what should i do? (link)
ok well your not fat its good that u work out alot because even if u ate healthy and didnt work out then u could still gain wieght but u need to eat because my one freind we thought she was getting anerixic like ur friends r thinking about u now well she turned out to be anerixic i know its a scary thing for ur friends because i was scared to that she was goin to dye but we got her eatign again and now she is fine
hope i helped


I think i like this one guy who got into a lot of trouble at our school what should i do?
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well u like nd if he likes u then its love but if u dont like going out wit the real bad kids then tell him that if he really liked u he would cut out the messing around stuff just for u
hoped i helped


okay..i cant help it..i always let people walk all over me..and i serioulsy dont know how to be mean..and people say the meanest things about me..and i guess i just let them walk all over me..what should i do? (link)
ok well first stand up for ur self u siad u dont know how to be mean but i doubt that u never get mad so when people r walking all over you think of something that really makes u mad and take it out on them
hope i helped




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