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okay..i cant help it..i always let people walk all over me..and i serioulsy dont know how to be mean..and people say the meanest things about me..and i guess i just let them walk all over me..what should i do?
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You need to put a stop to it. I was the same exact way.. i didn't know how to be mean to people who we're being mean to me or how to say no when i wanted to. If you don't start stopping people walk all over you, it'll get worse with more serious subjects. You dont have to be mean to stick up for yourself.
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You should just not let them run over you ( it is good your nice but dont let them run over you ) because if you keep doing that they are gonna think they can hurt you and you wont say nothin
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Dont let these people get to you when it comes to their comments. They dont matter. You dont have to be mean. You just dont have to give a damn. But make sure people know that your not gonna let them walk all over you, be nice to them for a limited time, but if they start gettin on your nerves then stop doin what your doin, like for instance, say you have HMW in a class for a while this kid asks you for b/c "I forgot" well you let him see it for a lil while, then once it gets annoying, tell him A:NO B:Some1 else has it or C: it's in my locker. I hope I helped you somewhat.
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STAND UP FOR UR SELF...dont b scared...stand up for wut u belive in...n if they talk shit talk rite back at them...tell them wut they deserve to hear :) xoxo effy
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Try to stand up for yourself and relize how much it hurts you to hear and feel what the people are doing to you so you need to stick up for yourself instead of having people put you down because people are probably waiting for you to stick up for yourself and until you do they will continue-trix
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ok well first stand up for ur self u siad u dont know how to be mean but i doubt that u never get mad so when people r walking all over you think of something that really makes u mad and take it out on them
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i think the answer is not to be mean to them back, but show them you are a bigger person than them and be totally confident. the more that people see that kind of crap doesnt bother you, then they'll stop.
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u kno what? im honestly the same way, but im startinq to change. What u should do is stand up for ur self! If someone says something bad about u..say something back or tell them to stop. Sometimes it's good to be the way u are b/c if a person iz mean 2 u and ur mean back, it can start a fight, so dont be too mean! But dont walk away from ur problems.
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omg! my friend is exactly the same way!! okay i just keep tellin her to b mean! lol not in a bad way but you knoe you gotta stand up for yourself! and if you don't want sumthing tell them! or even if your at a resteraunt and ou get the wrong order its not that hard to tell them that thats not wut you wanted thats not being mean at all! all you gotta do is stand up for wut you beleive in and don't let ppl walk all over you thats almost the worst thing i mean wut happends when the pressure you to do sumthin like smoke? or steal? r u just gonna let them? wel the first step was completed you knoe that wut your doin is bad and you knoe you need to change so just take the second step and B MEAN! lol but only to a degree. lol not everyone likes mean ppl but you gotta knoe when its okay and not okay to be so nice and mean
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