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hey! well im having guy problems... it seems like a guy likes me and then i start to like them and i finally tell them and its good for a week or to and then they dont think it will work... like bob doesnt think it would because of our ages and distences... what should i do i mean i really like umm bob and i want him he said he still liked me but thats not good enough i want him! so bad it sucks... should i give up? move on? or fight? help!! (link)
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Aww guy problems are horrible to deal with. Well this bob kid..do you truly believe it'll work even with the age difference? And those long distance relationships.. maybe Bob has been in some before and got really hurt by it and doesn't want it to happen to you nor him. I dont like saying how other people feel when i dont know them but thats a logical excuse for his actions..right? It's hard when you really like someone and they dont want to be with you. If you think Bob is worth fighting for-then fight for him. If he likes you and doesnt wanna go out with you-at least thats something! You mean something to him.. thats the cutest thing!! Cherish that-not that he doesnt wanna be with you. Well good luck!
xoxo
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HeY! Besides taking Midol or asprin, what a good way to realive or get rid of cramps?! ThAnKs!! I really need the advice! =) (link)
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Well.. what seems to work is a heating pad on your lower stomach:-D hot baths are nice too for the cramps
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hey... alright well i am 16 and a female and i am having boy troubles. i went out with this one guy for a really long time. we went out for almost four months and i think i fell in love. he said he fell in love with me too. but he liked this one other girl too. he said he had fallen in love twice but he picked me. things were going good for a while but then he said he wanted to go back to being a player but that he still loved me and didn't want to hurt me. right now, i still miss and think about him all the time and i cant get him out of my mind. do you think i should try to get back with him and risk getting hurt (even though i still love him) or should i go for other guys? (link)
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Alright, well guys..there's no explaining them!(dont us girls all know that!?) Well anyways, wow, 4 months is awhile! This guy sounds kinda fishy saying he fell in love twice. From my experiences I know that's not possible. Well, not possible for me, we're all different. When you fall in love with one person you give them youre all, so how can you do that with 2 people? How long ago did you guys break up? Because it does take time to finally stop missing him soo much and thinking about him a lot. I honestly don't think you should try to get him back as a boyfriend just because he told you what he wanted-to be a player. Maybe he does still love you and keep that in your heart=) If there's other guys you have in mind and other guys you want to be with.. I'd say go for it and if you and this "player" are meant to be.. then it'll be. I guess time will be your best friend until you decide where your life's taken ya:-D
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If you wear a condom during sex does that mean you most likely won't get pregnant or do you have to take birth control pills too..? (link)
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Condoms are pretty safe when it comes to protecting you aganist pregnancy.. as long as you use them right and it doesn't break. If you just have birth control and you take them regularly at the same time everyday.. thats 99% that you won't get pregnant and thats not even wearing a condom. So if you take both you are pretty much safe-BUT nothing is as safe as not having sex at all!
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Sometimes when I'm hanging with my friends they like to joke around about me. Like make fun of me and what I do and how i do things. They're really making me mad, especially since they do it right in front of me. And i really think one of my friends likes to bring me down on purpose to make herself look better. I don't understand any of it because i've never done anything to any one of them. Please Help (link)
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Wow, what friends! Are you sure theyre being serious? Well if you want to look at it on the bright side.. at least theyre not doing it behind your back! Why in the hell would you be friends with someone who brings you down to make herself look better? My best advice is just talk to your friends about it OR find better friends who will appreciate u!
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im 59 years old and i only like to have sex wiht people who are under age. i find this a problem because my sexual partners try to report me to the police for rape. but its not rape because i KNOW they enjoyed it. The part that makes it even harder is that i like to make my sexual partners dress up like animals. i'm not talking just face paint or a mask or anything i mean FULL ON COSTUME!. furry body suit, tail if necessary, big mask where i cant see any of their face, and the animal scent also makes me horny. my problem is nobody under the age of 18 wants to have sex with a 59 year old woman and dress up like a furry animal. all i'm asking for is pleasure :-(
sincerely,
furry at 59 (link)
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First of all, yes, it is a problem-a very big problem. If your partners try to report you to the police then I don't think they enjoyed it and even if they did enjoy it(which is sick..) it IS rape. It's sagittary rape. And whatever makes you horny and sexually turns you on.. go for it-BUT NOT WITH CHILDREN UNDER AGE. Sick.
(Jennifer i think its time you finish with these sick twisted stories..)
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Im 14 and ive never kissed a boy?! is that bad!? will people not date me because of that!? i mean boys have attempted to but i didnt let them because they were jerks and they just wanted sex! so help me! i need to know if thats a bad thing! and you'll probably say just to wait....he'll come to me but i cant wait any longer!! :*(
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It is definately not a bad thing! Don't worry about it one bit. Some guys may not date you because of it.. but screw them! If youre not ready then they should respect that. It's good to finally hear someone being 14 and not having her first kiss yet then all these 13/14 year olds having sex. You are totally fine.
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is it coOl to have sex?
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I wouldn't say to have sex because it's cool. It's only cool to have sex when you're both ready and in love(and use protection!). Then it's cool. Very cool.
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HELP! im 17 years old and im sad to admit it but im bi... my boyfriend dave and i are very serous but i dont know how to tell my dad i mean i am his oldest son im suppost to be stroung and the influence... but i like dave!! hes a chick with a dick! I love it TWICE THE PLEASURE ;-) should i tell my parents and how? HELP! (link)
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Hey. Just because youre 'bi' doesnt mean you cant be strong and a good influence! and thats real nice that you shared your great pleasure..hah But ive never been in that prediciment to tell somebody something like that. I personally dont find it that big of a deal. Sit youre parents down, or maybe you want to tell them separately? But talk to them tell them you really love Dave and that you want them to accept him.. I dont really know but good luck kid!
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dude my life is like so like screwed up like.... im 15 and im pregnet... yes im baring child! im so happy and so is my 27 year old bf but no one suppots us... i mean im a prostitute so i make lotz of money but i dont know what to do i havnt told my father about this yet and hes in the army in iraq and i know he would be devestated and i hear my mom cry at night but i love chris and i wanna have his baby... what should i do? (link)
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haha ill try to answer this question even though i know it is a fake one.. ::cough cough Jennifer cough cough:: But anyways why arent you living with the guy if hes 27? You are 15 and that's real young but thats the life we live in right now..If you really wanna have his baby then have it, BUT STAY IN SCHOOL! Maybe the father can take care of the baby while youre in school or something.. and about yer dad, im sorry! that's gotta be hard on you and your mother. Your mom crying at night is helping her let out her emotions so that's not necessarily a bad thing, but try to make her happy or at least not any more upset. Well good luck!
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i was just wondering something.. so maybe you can help. well tonight... my bf fingered me.. and we've done it before.. but i guess we did it "rougher" this time... and i went into my bathroom once he left.. and i was bleeding... and it hurt.. and i was just wondering if this is normal? i dunno what it is... but yeah.. plz help!! (link)
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haha yeah.. nothing to worry about I'm sure he just 'popped yer cherry' It could happen from getting fingered.. riding yer bike.. having sex for yer first time; no worries=)
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heyy! i really need to know how to make out with someone bc i am goin to hook up with a kid at my camp and i really dont know how please dont say idk or ul get it i really need help!!!! thanx (F 15) (link)
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I remember when I was in your position and when I was told "it just comes naturally" i didn't believe it like there was at least something someone should tell me.. But there actually isnt. It DOES come naturally. You can only make it hard by thinking about it so much. Don't stress yourself and enjoy it:) Have fun!
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okay..i cant help it..i always let people walk all over me..and i serioulsy dont know how to be mean..and people say the meanest things about me..and i guess i just let them walk all over me..what should i do? (link)
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You need to put a stop to it. I was the same exact way.. i didn't know how to be mean to people who we're being mean to me or how to say no when i wanted to. If you don't start stopping people walk all over you, it'll get worse with more serious subjects. You dont have to be mean to stick up for yourself.
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